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Mine too. Plus, I will never be that desperate for cock.

He works on a bed for outcalls, but will not perform the service in the nude no matter where. The only ginger you get to see is the hair above his neck. He claims "respectful mutual touching is allowed," and we all know what that means. As for HE, "yes, there can be." He also describes his massage as "light touch."
 
Considering the price, there is no mention of certification. But he's very accommodating with multiple payment methods. He's only 23 years old. He says he loves to travel.
 
His prices are way too high for me. I typically don't look for escort services in a massage, but if I can't enjoy the view of a ginger cock, I see no point in paying a premium for a ginger jock. On top of that, "light touch" is not the pressure I want.
 
This guy excels at his business presentation, but word of mouth and cost ruins any motivation to book. Using clever words to talk about massage aren't enough for me. I need to hear customer raves. Looks like I will pass on this one.
 
https://gingerjock.com/faq

He's been around forever. Was a very horny guy. The ad may say 50, but he's definitely over 60. His cock is huge. Have no idea if it still works.

He works on a bed for outcalls, but will not perform the service in the nude no matter where. The only ginger you get to see is the hair above his neck. He claims "respectful mutual touching is allowed," and we all know what that means. As for HE, "yes, there can be." He also describes his massage as "light touch."
 
Considering the price, there is no mention of certification. But he's very accommodating with multiple payment methods. He's only 23 years old. He says he loves to travel.
 
His prices are way too high for me. I typically don't look for escort services in a massage, but if I can't enjoy the view of a ginger cock, I see no point in paying a premium for a ginger jock. On top of that, "light touch" is not the pressure I want.
 
This guy excels at his business presentation, but word of mouth and cost ruins any motivation to book. Using clever words to talk about massage aren't enough for me. I need to hear customer raves. Looks like I will pass on this one.
 
https://gingerjock.com/faq

I paid $28 for my front row center, balcony recliner, reserved seat. I didn't enjoy spending that much, but the only time I had available was a Saturday night. I'm a big fan of the series, so I wasn't looking to fault the film. Julian Fellowes tries to cram too many stories into 2 hours, but in the end it all comes together and it's fun. My sold out audience applauded when the credits rolled.

That's the problem with feeling uncomfortable and NOT asking him to STOP. I try to avoid confrontation. Some people handle rejection badly. I have been lucky, very few episodes where I wanted to end early and get out. Very few. If you're not willing to confront, then there will be times when the effort is a waste of money. Chalk it up to a rainy vacation day. It's not the end of the world, and you know not to go back.

That's the problem with feeling uncomfortable and NOT asking him to STOP. I try to avoid confrontation. Some people handle rejection badly. I have been lucky, very few episodes where I wanted to end early and get out. Very few. If you're not willing to confront, then there will be times when the effort is a waste of money. Chalk it up to a rainy vacation day. It's not the end of the world, and you know not to go back.

That's the problem with feeling uncomfortable and NOT asking him to STOP. I try to avoid confrontation. Some people handle rejection badly. I have been lucky, very few episodes where I wanted to end early and get out. Very few. If you're not willing to confront, then there will be times when the effort is a waste of money. Chalk it up to a rainy vacation day. It's not the end of the world, and you know not to go back.

Not all $100 shaves are out of desperation, so please, by all means watch those assumptions. Fortune does favor bolder folks, but it also favors the open minded. I often have no interest in penetration or sustained erections. Sometimes I just want to play with a naked man for an hour. Touching, smelling, licking, bathing, conversing, without doing or demanding anything that requires much exertion. I'm happy to make my budget and simple desires clear. If I convince a high-priced guy that I'm serious about simple, I'm thrilled when he's willing to cut $100 from his fee. The situations where this has happened have always been memorable. Some are happy repeats. One guy called me and told he loved the way I played with his cock, and he offered a better discount because he was horny and wanted to get off with fun. He was staying in my neighborhood. I jumped at the chance. That time I saved $200.

Customers should feel uncomfortable asking for anything sexual since it is illegal. I also think it is very unrealistic to assume anything about a masseur and the service he offers simply by judging the photos in the ad or the price. There is no such thing as trusting the ad.
 
If you have the balls to ask about a particular expectation in advance (before ever meeting), always expect the MT to say YES. The MT is not motivated in any way to discourage a new customer appointment. It's far better to get the new person in, even for one time, then to say no to anything.
 
I would find suspect any customer who wishes to lock in details in advance of his appointment. I'm sorry to say this, but if you feel any need to insist on a particular action, like "touch my cock or my asshole," you're probably a fool for a customer or worse, something is off about you.
 
Every time I book an appointment with a HE massage therapist, I say in my communication, "I love a sensual man, but the massage is the most important element to me. I will arrive in your studio freshly showered, with no expectations." All I can say to readers is I have never been disappointed in the sensual department. I have had some mediocre massages, though.
 
I can say this from my spa experience, service providers don't like pushy, needy, demanding customers. They can feel and sense when a customer is desperate for something. People who enjoy giving massage tend to be very sensitive. If you drop the desperation and go with the flow of an organic experience, you're likely to experience the best results.

Assumptions are almost always a dead end, especially ones based on fear. The way to turn it around is to stop assuming all escorts will feel cheated and resentful by negotiations.
 
As usual, vet the reviews. If an escort has 30+ good reviews, really think *none* of those five star encounters involved some price variation? Unlikely. A good escort will provide good service, negotiation or not. Someone who cares enough about their reputation to seek reviews is not going to cheat you out of a good experience over a few Lincolns.
 
Many providers won't negotiate, period, so don't bother to. Many others have some wiggle room, so wiggle. Obviously, no client should want a guy who's going shave $100+ off his rate out of desperation. But if client is 80% there, are most non-desperate, solidly-reviewed escorts *really* going to settle for 0%? Then be resentful and petulant over the cost a few Starbucks trips? Please.
 
Fortune favors the bold folks. Stop letting fear and false assumptions dictate.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.

It doesn't have to be for the same reasons for privacy to be equally important to both parties. My sex life is my private life. If I don't want family, friends, co-workers, or nosey law enforcement to know about it, then it's my responsibility to take my privacy very seriously. It does not matter if my reasons align with the escort's.
 
I have no problem respecting an escort's reasons. I have never asked for an escort's real name. If he does an incall, I have never shared his address with anyone. If a relationship is going to work and be successful, respect must be present on both sides.
 

That's true. There can be mistrust on both sides, especially when dealing with someone new. It pays to take extra time and care with someone new. However, a PNP escort may not be sober enough to show patience. Some escorts are only out to hustle.
 
We are often told on this board to trust the reviews and the established members who speak with experience. If you choose to take one for the team, that guy can be exposing himself to more risk.
 
I have an alias email with the same alias name when booking. It's the same name associated with my Rentmen profile. In a private email, I can send instant photos of myself that prove the Rentmen profile is mine. In an email I can speak frankly and privately. I have no problem answering an escort's questions. With this approach, no one in my life can catch me conversing with an escort. No one has access to my private email account.
 
I consider myself a great customer. I pay upfront. I'm respectful. I'm clean. I'm not demanding. If I feel you are sloppy at business, especially if you are rude or you enjoy playing rude or cocky, you're cut from my list. If you quickly and wrongly assume that I'm something other than what I am, I move on to another escort who behaves better.

Back in his Madonna days I thought he was hot. Much was rumored about the beauty of his cock. I'm sure it has been sucked by many. I was always surprised that Rodman cock photos never appeared on the internet. He was always a sexual creature and a show off, so one would have thought we would have seen something eventually. Now that he's older and less sexy, not sure I'm as interested.

They weren't.

IMO, it depends. Some MTs take their massage work seriously, and they enjoy when their talent is respected. Others, usually those with no accreditation, are more focused on sex. They're basically escorts who pretend to focus on some version of massage. Those who are focused on sex typically don't mind discussing expectations over a phone call or text. They often like to know what's going to happen so they can prepare, mentally and physically.

I don't like guessing games or forcing someone to read my mind. I like honesty and confidence. Ordinary HEs don't work for me anymore because they take too long. Mechanical HEs would leave me flaccid within seconds. It's far better for me to relieve the MT of any expectation or pressure to perform a specific act. With chemistry and the right positive attitude, some major, joyful stuff can happen. I find the organic experience to be far more stimulating than anything else.
 
That said, if sensual doesn't happen, even when I desired it, I don't care. I don't leave disappointed or think I was scammed as long as the massage was worth the time and effort. Chemistry has a lot do with connection, no matter what the ad or photos suggests. You can't force chemistry. I would never take that personally. It's either there or it isn't. No one is at fault.

They weren't.

IMO, it depends. Some MTs take their massage work seriously, and they enjoy when their talent is respected. Others, usually those with no accreditation, are more focused on sex. They're basically escorts who pretend to focus on some version of massage. Those who are focused on sex typically don't mind discussing expectations over a phone call or text. They often like to know what's going to happen so they can prepare, mentally and physically.

I don't like guessing games or forcing someone to read my mind. I like honesty and confidence. Ordinary HEs don't work for me anymore because they take too long. Mechanical HEs would leave me flaccid within seconds. It's far better for me to relieve the MT of any expectation or pressure to perform a specific act. With chemistry and the right positive attitude, some major, joyful stuff can happen. I find the organic experience to be far more stimulating than anything else.
 
That said, if sensual doesn't happen, even when I desired it, I don't care. I don't leave disappointed or think I was scammed as long as the massage was worth the time and effort. Chemistry has a lot do with connection, no matter what the ad or photos suggests. You can't force chemistry. I would never take that personally. It's either there or it isn't. No one is at fault.

Customers should feel uncomfortable asking for anything sexual since it is illegal. I also think it is very unrealistic to assume anything about a masseur and the service he offers simply by judging the photos in the ad or the price. There is no such thing as trusting the ad.
 
If you have the balls to ask about a particular expectation in advance (before ever meeting), always expect the MT to say YES. The MT is not motivated in any way to discourage a new customer appointment. It's far better to get the new person in, even for one time, then to say no to anything.
 
I would find suspect any customer who wishes to lock in details in advance of his appointment. I'm sorry to say this, but if you feel any need to insist on a particular action, like "touch my cock or my asshole," you're probably a fool for a customer or worse, something is off about you.
 
Every time I book an appointment with a HE massage therapist, I say in my communication, "I love a sensual man, but the massage is the most important element to me. I will arrive in your studio freshly showered, with no expectations." All I can say to readers is I have never been disappointed in the sensual department. I have had some mediocre massages, though.
 
I can say this from my spa experience, service providers don't like pushy, needy, demanding customers. They can feel and sense when a customer is desperate for something. People who enjoy giving massage tend to be very sensitive. If you drop the desperation and go with the flow of an organic experience, you're likely to experience the best results.

I agree with OliverSaks.

I can attest to that. More and more, some straight guys don't care about the mouth sucking their cock, as long as it's getting sucked well. Just don't try to kiss them.
 
Regardless of what you see in porn, a lot of women hate sucking cock, especially large cock. A lot of women complain about hating pre-cum. It can make them gag.