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Be nice



deliver what you promise



go to the gym



watch your diet



keep a healthy lifestyle



take Viagra



if you're going to bottom douche properly
have your shit together, it's not that difficult
be nice!

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

My favorite museum in NYC - Frick Museum. Love the place and it’s art - I swear I could live there.

About 9 years ago, I had a hookup. A few years later, I found out he performed professional services including massage. I've been seeing him regularly for several years now for massage and other services. Don't overthink it, just enjoy.

Francois Sagat - I had the opportunity to meet him at a meet & greet he did at a now defunct gay bar here in Miami years ago. Simply gorgeous man and yes he has a French accent *drool*.

My favorite museum in NYC - Frick Museum. Love the place and it’s art - I swear I could live there.

My favorite museum in NYC - Frick Museum. Love the place and it’s art - I swear I could live there.

Wonder what happened to this incredible specimen of man. Another fave whose films never fail to get me off good.

Be careful not to blur the line in your head about the relationship. He's an escort, not a boyfriend, so there isn't much reason to contact him unless you are scheduling an appointment. You may become friends after a few visits and share an occasional text, but you have to keep things in perspective. If you start to lose perspective, you are probably better off calling it off and seeing someone else.
 
I've had to stop seeing a regular in the past when I couldn't keep this straight.

I've NEVER had a massage or been massaged in my Life... I dont enjoy being touch THAT way, and if I want sex, i go find sex.. I find it thirsty and desperate of those who want sex, dont wanna pay for an Escort, and substitute a massage, hoping they MIGHT get lucky with their "technician"...
Come on guys....YES some of these "techs" can be persuaded to "play for pay", but most are there just to give you a massage and earn a living.
 
Now if I was massaging @Pensant , my thought process would be different ! ?

My view is that coercing straight men into homosexual intimacies in exchange for some funds necessary to feed/shelter/medically provide for their families is flat-out wrong.

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

I found myself getting way too attached to an escort and resolved to never see him twice in a row. Always had to see someone else before I saw him again.

Second side of the coin, top 10 reasons I won't repeat:
 
10) A one hour massage lasts 40 minutes at best.
9) Whenever any escort announces I have 5 minutes left or a timer goes off.
8) A stone wall forms around the escort after climax.
7) They won't do the things they list as likes in their profile.
6) They are 10 years older than their pictures.
5) When I show up, they don't remember a single thing we discussed ahead of time.
4) Escorts that request up-front payment.
3) Escorts that show up stoned.
2) Their room, or their person is filthy.
1) The escort cannot even sort of pretend to be glad you are there.

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

Honestly, if I start liking an escort too much, it's time to move on. Nothing good can come from that.

The one time I really became regular, the escort made me feel like a friend.
 
- He was excited to see me.
- He never rushed anything.
- If he kept time, I have no idea how. I always left of my own free will.
- There was never a hard stop after a climax; instead, he usually insisted I lay back down and hang out.
- A few times, when he didn't have other plans before or after, he wanted to hang out and grab a meal without ever asking me to pay for extra time. I sometimes did anyway and always bought his meal.
 
I'm convinced that he not only referred to his clients as friends, but that is how he actually saw them. In his profile, he said his job was to make you forget it was a business transaction, and nobody does a better job.
 
Gaining regulars requires a lot of work... at least in my case, and most guys simply can't or won't make the investment. Even in my business, which has nothing to do with this, the best regular clients are the ones who see and trust you as a friend.

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

A couple years back I had a provider text me with a “had a great time let me know if interested in the future.” I never expected that and yes I saw him again a few times just because of that gesture. Things like that make a huge difference especially if you live in area that has heavy escort saturation and clients can pick anyone they want.

Don't be snide. A couple of times I saw a thank you message from a provider on my Planet Romeo account the following day. Made me feel good, and I booked the guy again. Same could be done through a telephone or the RentMen message system. "Nice" goes along way.

Perfect analogy!

Perfect analogy!