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arnie

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  1. I was looking at the new version of Rentmen and among the filters there is one for rates. So I just put in $200-$250 just to see what would show up. Now I had recently hired one of the guys that came up in this range, before I saw this, and he asked $300, which I paid. But my question is if they do not publish rates, how does this filter work, do they collect this information or are they just making it up. It is also interesting when the escorts advertise on friendboy and other sites and list different rates.
  2. No one has mentioned Las Vegas. Might even make Orlando look cultured except we do have a sphynx and a pyramid. And King Arthur, well sort of. Our culture is down now that Donnie and Marie have departed! But how does it rate for doing business? Seems to be a steady stream of guys coming through town. Some guys have been in business here for years. The one thing that always surprises me it that with the cost of flying how guys only come into town for maybe 3 days.
  3. While I have called at the last minute, more because another escort flaked out on me, it is a hope rather than an expectation. However I will usuall try to set something up in advance. If it is a local, I will often contact several about a week in advance just to see if any are available in the limited time frame I usually have and the set something up. If I see someone is coming in from out of town, I will contact them up to two weeks in advance.
  4. I have occasionally gotten solicitations from guys that I have looked at. But I do get responses from most of the guys. I do have a email address that I only use for RM and porn site registrations. I do give out my phone number and have never had a problem, but I guys I hire have a history on RM so I now they are not going to harass me or out me
  5. Probably not. I am not a tremendous fan of them in general. Usually the presence and location of tats are part of and reflect the guys persona. And it is that package and his pakage that you hire. So his personality is as likely to be as big a turnoff as his tats. But a facial tat is not an absolute disqualifier.
  6. I like the filters, much easier to use and as you click them on or off it tells you how your selectivity affects the number of escorts that meet your criteria, like with 3 available, maybe you are being too selective. They now have some pictures that are private and can be unlocked on request but others that like the videos, require premium, which I will not do. You also have to be premium to post a review and well they just wont get mine, not that their reviews are useful, they tell you nothing except that the guy is not a flake and if he has them is not a cop! The one thing I would like is if you could screen for home town only. I am capricious when I feel like hiring and I like to have my buddy list with those who I know are generally in town and I have as much as possible checked out.
  7. My daughter had two kids from the same donor, husband is sterile. There is a whold gaggle of kids that he has, maybe 2 dozen. They are in touch on Facebook. My daughter was invited to the Bar Mitzvah of one there kids donor linked siblings. I am not sure if they know his actual identity however.
  8. Can you get the semi-private photos by sending a request to the provider. I am not and will not be a premium member. Could not find a way with the beta to do this. I went to place a review on a provider and you apparently have to be a premium member to do that. So fuck them. But I did find the search filters easier to use and it told you how many escorts were available with your filters and you can selectively add them as you search. Teh big pictures were nice.
  9. As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection. You can still have a great time. Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts. It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain. Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break. But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.
  10. I'm and older married guy . My neighbors son is about my kids age and kind of cute. I am in decent shape only a small gut. He does not know me that well, He is from out of town. I have volunteered to be on call if his mother should happen to need help since her husband died. When he occasionally comes to visit his mother, we say hello and little else if I happen to see him. He knows little about me. I have several projects going on in my yard and he always almost pushes to help me. I always thought he was trying to reciprocate. Anyway I was bent over on my knees shirtless working on the yard focused on the ground and did not see him. no butt crack, no AC waist band showing.. I did not know he was in town and he walks by and says "Hi you showing off that sexy body?" my reaction to myself was WTF. I jerked my head up, I did not even know who it was at first. We chatted about a minute. He offered to help me on a project I have going and he was a bit over eager when he said I'd really like to help you I'm only here a few more days. So the question.
  11. I prefer to go to the escorts place. Either hotel if he is visiting or his home. Not happy, I can just walk out, no need to get him out. Also my place not exclusive to me so no need to risk his leaving things around that will raise questions. I have never felt uncomfortable in someone's place. Also travelers only bring a limited array of items of interest at most. Their homes are fully equipt.
  12. I had always been the case before tipping became so rampant, that if you were using a provider for a service that was self employed, like the owner operator of a hair cutting shop, as opposed to one of the employes that only got part of the fee charged, that you did not leave a tip. Now things have changed, but a few years ago I used a self employed (legit) massage therapist that actually refused a tip, as a professional he charged for his service and that is what he got paid. Anyway when someone is charging $200 and more, he asked for his substantail fee and I pay it but I in no way feel obligated to leave a tip. For excort services in a few times a year for many many years I have never left a tip. And when I go to a massage therapist who is self employed ( not massage envy or the like) and they charge 70 to 100/hour, I also do not leave a tip, You set your professional fee and I pay it.
  13. My cap is $300 and I feel that although I have paid that, the guys do not particularly give any better and maybe not as good as a guy who charges $250 or even $200. I have often wondered if you do get more for the higher rate. Maybe a better body or bigger dick, but there is more to good get together than that.
  14. Just happen a second time, first was a while ago. Someone sent flowers to the house . Before I knew what happened the flowers were in my hand and the delivery person was back at the car. She didn't even pause, and as unexpected delivery, I did not even have my wallet near by. Also service people do no longer seem to expect a tip, like the A/C guy. One told me when I gave him some money that no one does that any more.
  15. I think the more apt question is have you as a provider raised your rates. As an infrequent client, who does inquire at times, it is hard to get a fix on what various guys are asking and unless your are a repeat customer, what the trend is. Not having the time nor finances to investigate, besides being incredibly good looking or a list of stellar reviews, does $400 get you any better an experience than $250. Back when Daddy was operating, where the rate was known, it did not always seem like the more expensive guys did that much better, or maybe the cheaper guys were just about as good
  16. Went on it today and the listings in y towbn, Las Vegas, were very few. I guess that the escorts actually have to sign on and the have not. The search filters are easier to use and tell you how many excorts there are that fit your wants, but then the did not show up when you hit the search button.
  17. I was in health care, went to peoples home, now retired, was in some aspects more outgoing as I had to make it happen but in others more guarded. But also when hiring, I am not myself, especially when just hooking up with a guy. The dynamics are just different. Money has an amazing effect on how people act toward one another no matter how it is involved.
  18. It is one thing to remove a condom and continue with sexual penetration of any form without your partners permission, but as I naively read it I took it to mean you shot, you're done, you're soft and it's sliding off. You just want to embrace and not have it spill all over the place because you partner is not interested taking it to drip the cum into his mouth. Do you really have to ask then? Are you responsible to prevent it sliding off then also? Reminds me of a case where the guy was using a condom for birth control. The girl "got rid of it" and then used it to get herself pregnant. Guy was on the hook for paternity none the less. Is that illegal in CA also? Or are we still on that one way street?
  19. I believe Bill Gates also does not plan to leave a lot of money to his kids, also the Walmart family. It is not uncommon. While these kids receive top flight educations and lots of perks, they are intangible, they can not spend them. It is known that trust fund kids can have a hard time finding value in themselves. It is not that these kids will be destitute but does anyone need more that a million or two in the bank? It is only after you have to make hard decisions, like a Porsche or two weeks in Cannes, that one gets to appreciate money. What a Camry or Myrtle Beach, these kids unless they blow it, which they can are never down to this level. What can too much money do? Think Paris Hilton! But these kids, inheriting millions or not are well set up to make their way successfully. Self esteem and personal satisfaction in what you do get you happiness, not millions in the bank and maybe Anderson is wise enough to appreciate this.
  20. You need to show a bit more personality in both your pictures and text. I get nothing about you from your ad. Make me want to hire you.
  21. This is a complex topic. I am a retired physical therapist who did home care for 35 years and I have seen it all. There are good facilities and bad ones. I now live in a retirement community and most people are independent and active. However people continue to die around me. It is a fact of life no matter where you as a senior live. Even if you are in your life long home, your friends and church community will die off and the humor among the surviving is gallows. There is a grim acceptance of people getting ill and dying. Unless they were your bestie, you just shrug and carry on. As most people here are not from there, and even if they are their families are scattered. So for most, there is not even a memorial service, much less a funeral. It is held wherever the children are. So as we say, getting old is not for the weak. Staying in your own home depends on how much reliable community support you have. For me that is my car keys. I am able to fully manage my own home, cooking shopping and laundry. But you have two options. Either you eventually need help or you die before you do. If you choose to live long enough, where do you get that help? If you rely on paid help, well they are unreliable and you need a back up. If you can skip a day or two of help well ok, but if you can not, and you do not have children or another who can at least back you up, then you may have no choice but to go into a facility. One of the issues that hit me back when I was a student was that people would prefer to live alone as a shut in than live in a congregate care facility. This woman had to be carried down 4 flights of steps to leave her building and she did very well in the nursing home where she was getting rehab and could have stayed there. So while I will stay in my home as long as it is feasible, I realize that there may be a next step in my housing situation. I moved across the country into this development and looked at it as a new chapter in my life and as an adventure. If the time comes that I need to move on, I will have the same attitude. Fortunately I will have the financial resources to both keep me in this home as long as feasible and then move into a nicer facility. But life is a series of stages and to think that you have control is to fool yourself. You continue to have to go where life takes you, even if that was the continuation of your first job out of school or around the world. The only way to really survive is to look forward to new experiences and people. If you are mad and resentful you will just make yourself miserable.
  22. I just remember the polio epidemic and was a participant in the big double blind study to establish effectiveness. There was no anti vax nonsense then. The biggest thing about it was fear especially as the transmission was unknown. I remember not going to public pools as that was thought to be a source of the infection. However while the impact of the victims and their families was dramatic, the overall affect on the population was minimal. Life still went on because there was nothing known to prevent it and it really did not hit that many people. In 1952 the worst year there was half the current population and there were 58,000 cases and 3000 deaths.
  23. Right now maybe generally 30 but up to 45 minutes. It is a 10-15 minute ride out of my suburban area, but I can get to most of the Las Vegas valley including the strip and downtown in that time. There are enough guys in that area that I don't need to to to the few on the far edges. When I lived on Long Island, I would usually make appointments with guys in Manhattan as part of trip there, not a specific hour long or more trip. If I was working in Queens, sometimes I could grab a few hours to get into Manhattan from there. There were no RM closer to home but there was no need to go out of mid town.
  24. I have some problems and I was prescribed Tamsulosin. However I have had a life long problem with occasional dizziness on standing rapidly and it made it worse. Dizziness/lightheadedness is a side effect. I don't think I took more that 2 or 3 pills and stopped. My problem is usually able to be managed without medications.
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