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It depends on the situation. If you are into the guy and not just his cock, both of you make it work . You may not be able to do all the things you night want to so you accommodate. If you are just there for the sex, the activities become paramount and if you know you have issues then you choose accordingly. If the guy is too big or too small, then you really were not into him that much. When I am hiring I know my limitations and desired activities and I hire accordingly, and avoid guys that are too big, either too fat or long.

On Rentmen you have to be a premium used to leave a review which also sucks. But their reviews are useless anyway because they say nothing. I mean on Amazon someone states they loved the product and yet rated 3 stars so the stars by themselves are useless.

I used to be friends with this wealthy couple. They were very aware of our financial situation which was firmly upper middle class but not wealthy. It was fun joining them because they were patrons of the opera etc, so when we joined them, they would drive and have preferred parking. If anyone has been to Tanglewood in the Berkshires, that means like 200 feet from the shed and direct exit,, not a 20 minute hike and an hour sitting to get out of the lot. As they had season tickets, they could get us last minute seats to join them. At Tanglewood the top seats were less than $100 so no real problem but at the opera we would opt for the $200 seats, not the $500 ones they enjoyed, and that was fine.

You state your rate, I accept or move on. It goes up I may decide to move on or not. There is no approval/discussion. You balance your fees vs your activity level to produce the income you hope to achieve. But from the few escorts that I have followed over the years 2 of which are still active today, I have noticed that 20 years ago they were at maybe 200, which was the equivalent of 300 to 350 today and are now only at 250

Making out and particularly kissing involves emotional energy and being vulnerable Oral and anal are not as emotionally involved so in some aspects easier for the escort. Many talk about communication but that only goes so far. I try to be specific about some things but I find that they might add a specific activity but the escorts do their thing. You can't dictate we will make out for 15 minutes. These are fluid situations. Due to their experience in these situations they project a confidence in handling the encounter so the escort can easily take control and can be hard to interrupt the action. It is not what there is or is not there but the proportions and often more you did not realize what wend down until it is over. Also I think that many think that what is wanted is an epic duration fuck. It is not that these guys flaked or did not give it a good try but this is a particularly difficult page for both to be on at the same time.

While I agree that more than 20 is probably too much, it is more what the pictures depict. Each one should tell me something else about you. Too many pics are just a slightly different view of the same pose. Standing on 6 different beaches or sitting in your car says nothing. If you are into something, show me, tell me a pictoral story about you, after all you are selling and pitch to make tht sale.

Not only are they more attractive but I'm lowering the thermostat Not only are they better looking but they have more sexuality

I only have had a happy ending once. I go for a massage to get my muscles worked on and to relax. I was so fixated on the ending ocurring that I could not relax during the massage. Even though I hire through rentmassage because I want guys who are relaxed about any sexuality, I use rentmen when I want release. But then I want more than a quich hand job or blow job, which from a massage guy is for me one step up from a gloryhole, but hell what ever works for you is fine with me.

My first experience was actually in person. I was in highschool and went to a Shakespeare performance. I had no idea that a codpiece even existed as such much less had seen one. So here were these young guys in tights with the codpieces. They even stood like guards of the stage during intermission so I went up as casually as I could to get a better look see. Thinking about it I am positive they knew exactly what was going on as I approached but they ignored me.

and I should care why? UGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH

My experiences in this are from the NYC area, but they do parties unlike the way most of the country does them. If it is a cash bar, then I have no problem with a tip jar, but if the host is providing free liquor, and this goes for valet parking also, then a tip jar is not only in inappropriate, but the host is being billed for tips for the staff ( I have hosted such events). I know of one such event where the bartender had a jar out and the host had it removed. I remember leaving on such event and there was a sign at the valet stand stating that the host had provided the gratuities for the valet staff.

I only wonder how people will feel in 30 years about what they have done. I saw a younger woman with a huge video game Mario on her forearm. Will she be so fascinated with Mario when she is 60?

I was looking at the new version of Rentmen and among the filters there is one for rates. So I just put in $200-$250 just to see what would show up. Now I had recently hired one of the guys that came up in this range, before I saw this, and he asked $300, which I paid. But my question is if they do not publish rates, how does this filter work, do they collect this information or are they just making it up. It is also interesting when the escorts advertise on friendboy and other sites and list different rates.

No one has mentioned Las Vegas. Might even make Orlando look cultured except we do have a sphynx and a pyramid. And King Arthur, well sort of. Our culture is down now that Donnie and Marie have departed! But how does it rate for doing business? Seems to be a steady stream of guys coming through town. Some guys have been in business here for years. The one thing that always surprises me it that with the cost of flying how guys only come into town for maybe 3 days.

While I have called at the last minute, more because another escort flaked out on me, it is a hope rather than an expectation. However I will usuall try to set something up in advance. If it is a local, I will often contact several about a week in advance just to see if any are available in the limited time frame I usually have and the set something up. If I see someone is coming in from out of town, I will contact them up to two weeks in advance.

I have occasionally gotten solicitations from guys that I have looked at. But I do get responses from most of the guys. I do have a email address that I only use for RM and porn site registrations. I do give out my phone number and have never had a problem, but I guys I hire have a history on RM so I now they are not going to harass me or out me

Probably not. I am not a tremendous fan of them in general. Usually the presence and location of tats are part of and reflect the guys persona. And it is that package and his pakage that you hire. So his personality is as likely to be as big a turnoff as his tats. But a facial tat is not an absolute disqualifier.

I like the filters, much easier to use and as you click them on or off it tells you how your selectivity affects the number of escorts that meet your criteria, like with 3 available, maybe you are being too selective. They now have some pictures that are private and can be unlocked on request but others that like the videos, require premium, which I will not do. You also have to be premium to post a review and well they just wont get mine, not that their reviews are useful, they tell you nothing except that the guy is not a flake and if he has them is not a cop! The one thing I would like is if you could screen for home town only. I am capricious when I feel like hiring and I like to have my buddy list with those who I know are generally in town and I have as much as possible checked out.

My daughter had two kids from the same donor, husband is sterile. There is a whold gaggle of kids that he has, maybe 2 dozen. They are in touch on Facebook. My daughter was invited to the Bar Mitzvah of one there kids donor linked siblings. I am not sure if they know his actual identity however.

Can you get the semi-private photos by sending a request to the provider. I am not and will not be a premium member. Could not find a way with the beta to do this. I went to place a review on a provider and you apparently have to be a premium member to do that. So fuck them. But I did find the search filters easier to use and it told you how many escorts were available with your filters and you can selectively add them as you search. Teh big pictures were nice.

As one of the guilty as to not cumming at times or even being able to maintain an erection. You can still have a great time. Sex is as much or maybe more about the connection than the body parts. It has been said that the biggers se organ is the brain. Sometimes I have an emotional climax with my buddy, we reach an intense level of emotional intensity and then take a break. But cumming is not always in the cards and at my age that is OK.

I'm and older married guy . My neighbors son is about my kids age and kind of cute. I am in decent shape only a small gut. He does not know me that well, He is from out of town. I have volunteered to be on call if his mother should happen to need help since her husband died. When he occasionally comes to visit his mother, we say hello and little else if I happen to see him. He knows little about me. I have several projects going on in my yard and he always almost pushes to help me. I always thought he was trying to reciprocate. Anyway I was bent over on my knees shirtless working on the yard focused on the ground and did not see him. no butt crack, no AC waist band showing.. I did not know he was in town and he walks by and says "Hi you showing off that sexy body?" my reaction to myself was WTF. I jerked my head up, I did not even know who it was at first. We chatted about a minute. He offered to help me on a project I have going and he was a bit over eager when he said I'd really like to help you I'm only here a few more days. So the question.

I prefer to go to the escorts place. Either hotel if he is visiting or his home. Not happy, I can just walk out, no need to get him out. Also my place not exclusive to me so no need to risk his leaving things around that will raise questions. I have never felt uncomfortable in someone's place. Also travelers only bring a limited array of items of interest at most. Their homes are fully equipt.

I had always been the case before tipping became so rampant, that if you were using a provider for a service that was self employed, like the owner operator of a hair cutting shop, as opposed to one of the employes that only got part of the fee charged, that you did not leave a tip. Now things have changed, but a few years ago I used a self employed (legit) massage therapist that actually refused a tip, as a professional he charged for his service and that is what he got paid. Anyway when someone is charging $200 and more, he asked for his substantail fee and I pay it but I in no way feel obligated to leave a tip. For excort services in a few times a year for many many years I have never left a tip. And when I go to a massage therapist who is self employed ( not massage envy or the like) and they charge 70 to 100/hour, I also do not leave a tip, You set your professional fee and I pay it.