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I list my age on RM as mid 60's so I leave you guessing as to the truth. Once past the initial agreement, which is usually a week before the date, I do identify myself as older, also admit to having ED. Never had a problem with an escort. But if he were to cancel, I would look at it being for the best, don't want to waste my limited opportunities to hire to be ruined on a guy who is so judgmental.

I just hired a guy. Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral. I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer. He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause, but I guess he needed the job. But he apparently gets enough work to pay his bills. But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience. Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

I am not sure who on this is being rejected for age, the client or the escort. But as what definitely qualifies as older in almost any demographic short of a nursing home, I don't ever recall being turned down due to my age, unless they just did not respond to an initial request for contact as location and rates. Several ads I have seen specifically say into older men. As I have aged, I find myself seeking older providers. I now don't really look at guys under 30! Older men seem to be less impressed by themselves and are realistic about their no longer quite so great bodies and thus able to personally relate more than the hotter younger guys. For many reasons I have rarely hired the same guy more than once, but one that I recently have and plan on hiring again is not that far from Social Security and my body is at least in as good shape as his.

Looking for 10s is futile because unless you are a 12, they won't give you the time of day. Every town has its place where the hot guys hang out and then there are the places for the rest of us.

A whole long time ago there was a store in GV, I believe the Village Squire, which was one of the few places you could get anything sexier that BVD's I was like 22, newly into the scene and quite naïve. So I was trying on either some underwear or a bikini swim suit in the try-on room. All of the sudden the curtain gets pulled open as the sales clerk came to "check to see how I was doing". I was too taken aback to respond so he closed the curtain. Not sure if he just wanted a peak or to do something. Opportunity missed.

If you are bottoming and the top has an average or medium PA, how aware of it will you be, what will you feel if much of anything?

Sherman's Deli. As a native and long time New Yorker, nothing I had there, particularly the pastrami is fully spiced like in in NY. Never find a Sherman's knish in NY either. It wasn't bad, just very different.

I don't get the opportunity too often but I do use an enema. I have never had the pleasure of a prolonged bottom session. I will use a suppository to initially clean out and then a few shallow enemas to get the rectum clean. I try to do this a few hours before and also take an Imodium to prevent residual water leaking out. Lots of water way up high, I never seem to get fully clean.

As I was reading about books I was trying to think of an escort who was very active many years ago and you had his name Aaron Lawrence. I was wondering about his book but you made it obvious that there is no need to look for it now. Do you know what happened to him. He was so active, at least in persona

But there was no real loss avoided to the company. No one is just going to hand 4 million over to anyone trying to cash that check. They would have just re issued it. But they do lack class.

Thanks for your input. It was clear that it was for 90 minutes. When the phone went off, I knew that we had been at it for close to the time but I did not know if he set it for like 75 minutes to ease into ending. But there are some subtle but clear signals that our time together is ending, lets wrap this up. I have hired more than enough guys to not only pick them up but have an eye out for them so to speak. But here when the alarm went off, his vibe was lets get back at it, where were we. If I was not hiring him again I really would not be concerned, but this might be an ongoing thing and I just wanted to be clear on this matter.

Who is responsible for keeping tack of the time of a session? I recently hired a guy. When I booked and gave him a 30 minute time of my arrival, he said no problem as long as we were set on the duration, so I figured he would watch the time closely, OK. I have hired many and some do keep more closely to the agreed to time than others, more in the time before and after the action starts, like 5-10 minutes of chat while getting ready, dressing after etc. I don't know about others but I have always felt that the escort was more in charge of the pacing of the session, particularly the 60 to 90 minute sessions that I book where the action will generally follow the usual sequence. I saw him adjust his cell phone and place it bedside. When it went off, at what I thought was probably but I was not sure, the end of the 90 minutes, he turned it off and continued to aggressively play. I did shortly end the play mainly because my time schedule did not allow for longer, but I got the feeling that he would have played even longer. When somehow time came up , he said it was when the phone went off. For me this is a luxury that I can barely afford and did not plan on and could not tip him. Now I have booked him again and while I do plan on giving him a few extra bucks if we go over But what do you do when the escort obviously and knowingly is just giving you extra time without mentioning it? It is not like he said our time had ended, what do you want to do? Am I really supposed to pay him the rate for the unasked for extra time, not that I do not appreciate it. It's not hours, but maybe 15 or 20 minutes.

And what exactly is the penalty outlined in the NDA for exposing (pun intended) the encounter? And what is the benefit to the client? If there is no action by him, then he can just dismiss it as gossip. If he sues you in court, for disclosure or slander, he is just giving credence to your allegations. Court actions are public. Headline Senator John Doe wins 1K for escort violating a NDA about their encounter on 1/1/2003

It depends on the situation. If you are into the guy and not just his cock, both of you make it work . You may not be able to do all the things you night want to so you accommodate. If you are just there for the sex, the activities become paramount and if you know you have issues then you choose accordingly. If the guy is too big or too small, then you really were not into him that much. When I am hiring I know my limitations and desired activities and I hire accordingly, and avoid guys that are too big, either too fat or long.

On Rentmen you have to be a premium used to leave a review which also sucks. But their reviews are useless anyway because they say nothing. I mean on Amazon someone states they loved the product and yet rated 3 stars so the stars by themselves are useless.

I used to be friends with this wealthy couple. They were very aware of our financial situation which was firmly upper middle class but not wealthy. It was fun joining them because they were patrons of the opera etc, so when we joined them, they would drive and have preferred parking. If anyone has been to Tanglewood in the Berkshires, that means like 200 feet from the shed and direct exit,, not a 20 minute hike and an hour sitting to get out of the lot. As they had season tickets, they could get us last minute seats to join them. At Tanglewood the top seats were less than $100 so no real problem but at the opera we would opt for the $200 seats, not the $500 ones they enjoyed, and that was fine.

You state your rate, I accept or move on. It goes up I may decide to move on or not. There is no approval/discussion. You balance your fees vs your activity level to produce the income you hope to achieve. But from the few escorts that I have followed over the years 2 of which are still active today, I have noticed that 20 years ago they were at maybe 200, which was the equivalent of 300 to 350 today and are now only at 250

Making out and particularly kissing involves emotional energy and being vulnerable Oral and anal are not as emotionally involved so in some aspects easier for the escort. Many talk about communication but that only goes so far. I try to be specific about some things but I find that they might add a specific activity but the escorts do their thing. You can't dictate we will make out for 15 minutes. These are fluid situations. Due to their experience in these situations they project a confidence in handling the encounter so the escort can easily take control and can be hard to interrupt the action. It is not what there is or is not there but the proportions and often more you did not realize what wend down until it is over. Also I think that many think that what is wanted is an epic duration fuck. It is not that these guys flaked or did not give it a good try but this is a particularly difficult page for both to be on at the same time.

While I agree that more than 20 is probably too much, it is more what the pictures depict. Each one should tell me something else about you. Too many pics are just a slightly different view of the same pose. Standing on 6 different beaches or sitting in your car says nothing. If you are into something, show me, tell me a pictoral story about you, after all you are selling and pitch to make tht sale.

Not only are they more attractive but I'm lowering the thermostat Not only are they better looking but they have more sexuality

I only have had a happy ending once. I go for a massage to get my muscles worked on and to relax. I was so fixated on the ending ocurring that I could not relax during the massage. Even though I hire through rentmassage because I want guys who are relaxed about any sexuality, I use rentmen when I want release. But then I want more than a quich hand job or blow job, which from a massage guy is for me one step up from a gloryhole, but hell what ever works for you is fine with me.

My first experience was actually in person. I was in highschool and went to a Shakespeare performance. I had no idea that a codpiece even existed as such much less had seen one. So here were these young guys in tights with the codpieces. They even stood like guards of the stage during intermission so I went up as casually as I could to get a better look see. Thinking about it I am positive they knew exactly what was going on as I approached but they ignored me.

and I should care why? UGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH

My experiences in this are from the NYC area, but they do parties unlike the way most of the country does them. If it is a cash bar, then I have no problem with a tip jar, but if the host is providing free liquor, and this goes for valet parking also, then a tip jar is not only in inappropriate, but the host is being billed for tips for the staff ( I have hosted such events). I know of one such event where the bartender had a jar out and the host had it removed. I remember leaving on such event and there was a sign at the valet stand stating that the host had provided the gratuities for the valet staff.

I only wonder how people will feel in 30 years about what they have done. I saw a younger woman with a huge video game Mario on her forearm. Will she be so fascinated with Mario when she is 60?