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Yes, I believe you are right. But what's done is done. I am 100% certain many have screen-shotted his details. People who are good at this should report him to the proper authorities. You have his details. Let's protect our friends, the honest & hard working escorts who we all cherish & love, and ourselves by helping eradicate these monsters from our midst. To all potential blackmailers & scammers out there: if you try this on ME, first I will pretend (Oscar-nominating performance) to go along with you. I will gather as much incriminating evidence about you, including hiring a PI if necessary, but I will stop short of giving you a DIME of blackmail money. Then I will call the FBI and my local police on you & send all the evidence all to them. And yes, undocumented criminals should get deported.

No, no, you did not originally write "ask". You specifically used the word "right". Any businessman, of any field, can of course ask for anything, even $10,000,000,000,000 to engage in business dealings. I'm skeptical that the logical & sane men on this board would disagree with that. Yet, few would pay that. But you are coming across as it's their right. There are no rights in this detail of minutiae of hiring regarding asking for pics prior. But it is bad business practice. You may have tweaked your sentence in follow up (thank you for responding, kind sir!) but your revealed your true thoughts on this. To All Readers: don't add toxicity to hiring. There is enough toxicity already. Campsite Rule: leave the site better than you found it. Say NO to pic requests.

Could you elaborate on how/when escorts achieved this societal "right" to get pictures of potential clients? I've never heard of this before and I'd like to learn more.

Are you SURE you are correct on that? The current standard of care is for seniors to get TWO shots, not one, of the current covid vaccine. I hypothesis that you accidentally misunderstood your doctors office. I think they probably DO recommend the 2nd vaccine as I'm sure they are interested is promoting good science, right? I recommend (primary care physician here) all seniors reading this post to get their second Covid vaccine 6 months after their first one. This is not MY opinion. Rather, it's the USA medical community's recommendation. I don't get to have an opinion but must use the scientific data which the CDC uses to generate the best medical recommendations. Don't believe me? Read on. From the CDC's website regarding covid vaccinations: Interim Clinical Considerations for Use of COVID-19 Vaccines in the United States: Summary of recent changes (last updated October 31, 2024): People ages 65 years and older, vaccinated under the routine schedule, are recommended to receive 2 doses of any 2024–2025 COVID-19 vaccine (i.e., Moderna, Novavax, or Pfizer-BioNTech) separated by 6 months (minimum interval 2 months) regardless of vaccination history Clinical Guidance for COVID-19 Vaccination | CDC WWW.CDC.GOV View FDA-approved and FDA-authorized uses of the Covid-19 vaccines in the United States. Please pursue good health. Hugs, love, and great sex to all, Josh

DEAR MODERATORS I genuinely feel that TallMuscl37/Mocha is not contributing in a positive or helpful manner to this community. Instead, my fear is his epic rants, hostile attitude, & bizarre ideas PUSH people, both client & escort, away. This is not productive in my opinion to the overall goals of this board, nor does it further its prowess or stature in the community. Yes, people respond to his posts, and he angrily responds back, but I suspect these abrasive discussions push 10x the people away rather than increase the boards membership. Please end this person's contribution privileges. At least for a 60 day period. I thank all moderators for their tireless work. It is ever so appreciated. Josh Dear TallMuscl37, First, I wish you good health & hope for a better future. From a professional prospective (I'm a physician), I recommend: 1) Find a therapist to work thru the issues you have brought to this website. Your feelings & frustrations are absolutely valid. Therapy would be safe & therapeutic place to work on them. This website is not. 2) Talk to your doctor about a SSRI medication like celexa or venlafaxine. It will will help with mood & anger. I say NONE of this to harm or mock you, but to help you. I fully accept you may not appreciate my advice. I also apologize for anger or sadness my words bring to you. Nevertheless, I stand by them. Regards Josh

Greetings, Sync. Physician here. I'm a PCP, board certified, and still practicing Medicine. I'm dreadfully worried about you. Your PCP is relating to you completely nonscientific rubbish. There is no evidence that covid vaccines are cancer-causing to the elderly. There is no "alternative treatment" to covid except for initial treatment with Paxlovid. Your PCP appears like he is practicing outside of the Standard of Care & possibly promoting unfounded & dangerous treatment plans to his patients. Please be aware that for a physician to be accused of practicing "outside the Standard of Care" is a HUGE ACCUSATION. The entire medical community is in agreement to the benefit of covid vaccination & STRONGLY urges everyone to get vaccinated. Sure, there are a few conspiracy theorist physicians out there who are against covid vaccines, but the scientific community sees them for who they are: dangerous. While I understand you have built a 30 year trusting relationship with your PCP, it might be time to rethink that relationship. Ask him to provide you the specific medical literature that supports his anti-covid vaccine stance. He should only provide research from peer-reviewed journals with robust support from the medical community. Fringe journals don't count. Non-mainstream websites that are unknown are suspect. Medical influencers are high risk for quackery. If he does provide that type of research, my original criticism is true. Run. I get it. It will be easier to get mad at me, discount what I'm saying, maybe even attack me here on this forum. Fine. I'm strong enough to take it. Indeed, the stronger your internal emotional response you have, the more likely there is truth in my statements which is unconsciously resonating with you. But I'm hopeful that you still consider my point & take logical action to protect your health. You deserve to stay beautiful and strong. I strongly urge you, and everyone, to get covid vaccinated. I did. Declining covid vaccination is fine until you get covid and are running to the ER due to difficulties breathing, as I have seen clinically. I've seen many people like you. Your strategy is similar to the guy who refuses to wear a seat belt while driving., thinking, "I've never been in a car accident yet, so I really don't need one." Poor and uninformed strategy. Trauma surgeons OR time are filled with people with that strategy. Please get covid vaccinated. You deserve to stay healthy. Josh

No. Your understanding of the timing of the dose is incorrect. You should take DoxyPEP ASAP after sex, not wait for 24 hours. What you are describing is not consistent with the research on DoxyPEP. As time elapses away from the encounter, effectiveness decreases. Please note the "ideally" is not 24 hrs LATER, but "within". Per research that was published from the New England Journal of Medicine: https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa2211934 Participants were counseled to take 200 mg of doxycycline ideally within 24 hours but no later than 72 hours after any condomless anogenital, vaginal, or oral sex and to take no more than one dose every 24 hours. No. That is also incorrect. If you have more than one sexual parner experience in a 24 hour period you should only take 1 two hundred milligram dose, as soon as possible after the first encounter in that 24 hour period. Dosing for a Saturday nite sex play should not wait till Monday. Also, no need for repeat doses within that 24 hour period. In other words, only one dose per 24 hrs. Yes, you can take daily if you are having daily sexual encounters. I wish you, and all my brothers safe sex & travels. Josh

Hi Lucky & everyone else. Physician here: I am recommending to all my patients 60 years and over to get the RSV vaccine. There are thousands of reasons to get RSV vaccinated. Dont be embarrassed. Just go get your RSV vaccine if you are 60 or over. Its easy. Just one vaccine needed in your lifetime, it's not yearly like flu vaccination. Per the CDC: While most children who contract RSV experience mild symptoms, the CDC estimates that each year, between 58,000 and 80,000 children younger than age 5 years are hospitalized due to RSV infection. The CDC estimates that RSV causes approximately 60,000-160,000 hospitalizations and 6,000-10,000 deaths among older adults every year.

Hi everyone Yes, I agree. There are some who would see catty=rude. I am in that category. There are others on this board who agree. That's not a bad idea. Thank you for the suggestion! I will try it next time. Anytime we can elevate our discussion is likely an improvement which will benefit us all! But I will report I have had many DMs from different men from this board who have I have never met, never had a DM with before, and no any contact whatsoever just come right out and ask their question in their DM, no introduction or explanation. Nevertheless, over these 9 yrs of being a member here I have answered all of them with whatever guidance, assistance, or opinion that I can provide. Offering help is easy. And if it makes another gay mans journey on this earth a bit easier, I'm all for it. I believe you! But doesn't that just make any rudeness here behind anonymity even more unnecessary? The overall issue is that when we are rude to one another on this board, other people, especially potential members, read that rudeness and this may turn them off from becoming contributing members themselves. And this board devolves into a sewer of rudeness. Who needs that? We all have .. some amount of life issues/sorrows/sadness etc. Don't we come to this board to laugh, get other peoples point of view, get some guidance etc? We don't come here to be treated rudely. If we are rude to another, this will only bring down the whole board in one way or another. I urge all of us to be respectful and helpful as much as possible. We ALL will be better for it. JOSE SOPLANUCAS: I'm not mad at you. I just know you can and actually do better (in person). You are a contributing member to this board and you can make a positive contribution to all of us. JUST to bring up a reminder of one of YOUR recent posts. There is a recent post from the Lounge where a different member asked why does this board have so much "snarkiness" as the initial post question. It was a good debate. Unfortunately I really don't know how to post and copy posts from that debate to a different debate like this one. BUT the below debate is copied FROM you, Jose. So you have thought about this topic. And I hope that debate helps inform you on this one. I genuinely wish you all the best, Jose. And love and hugs to everyone. From Jose Soplanucas: All of that, plus years of clashing and beefing between particular posters. I will try to do better. PS Edit here: Joses post is from the June 13 2024 The Lounge post of "Why is There So Much Snarkiness Here?

Hi Dr Daddy! Thank you for asking!! But alas, I had to postpone my Summer trip as my colleagues need coverage for their vacations and I've (reluctantly, but generously) offered to cover them for their Summer vacations. But I'm definitely planning on a Fall trip to Brazil (and yes, they WILL for cover me) & really grateful to peoples help on this board. It's convenient that Jose Soplanucas admits he was the rude & inappropriate one here. Recall my Crime to send him one, ONE, DM. But since this board is full of typically really friendly & helpful guys, I'm not letting him bring me, or my travels, down. In my profession (physician here) I've come to find out people who who come across as mean, irritable and generally unpleasant to be around harbor under-the-surface issues. With love & support they can still come around! So no hard feelings toward you, Jose. May love & great sex find you. But if one looks at my history on this board (I've been a contributing member since 2015, my, how the time has flown...), one can read my contributing posts on any number of topics. I just wonder at what level of participation does Jose Soplanucas finally accept when a members contribution permits him to ask a question? Keep being awesome everyone. Love & hugs to all. Even Jose Soplanucas. Josh PS. Jose: I clarified my above post to reflect that I yes, you are correct. It was not one question but 3 questions but one DM. I apologize for the mistake. But my critique still stands: one DM enrages you. Jeeze . And looking at your below post shows your behavior grows more rude and into toxicity. I am astonished you feel it's OK. Do better.

Hello Josh here. Im a board certified physician & still practicing Medicine. This is important to keep in mind. My Medical Advice: Please stop listening to these non-physicians on this forum. They are not trained nor skilled in giving medical advice, which you ABSOLUTELY are seeking on this forum. Do you go to your accountant for plumbing advice? To your pastor in how to fix your leaky roof? (No & no, right?) Per your report you said your Ortho recommended AGAINST an MRI, although he is open to it. You are asking non-surgeons typical course progression & outcomes of your particular diagnosis, a diagnosis they have never studied nor treated. And to be sure, they are giving such medical advice (your Ortho does not seem yet very interested in the MRI, yet the Dr Googles are oh-so-strongly urging you to get one). It's impressive but unfortunate to see such Dr Googles in play. They have not taken your medical history nor examined you. They have never ordered an MRI, nor know the clinical indications of when one is needed or not. Such negligent actions are potentially dangerous. To you. It took me many, many years of arduous training, and now with decades of experience, to know when to give medical advice & when to withhold. These men on this forum way over estimate their skills. Yes, they care about you, I do not doubt that for a moment. But they lack good judgment & insight in this field. I examine shoulders all the time. I order xrays all the time. I even order MRIs of shoulders, too. But without taking a history from you, examining you, reviewing your xray, I can NOT answer your questions. Yet, given that, My Advice to You: you have questions, concerns? Write all your questions down & go BACK to your Ortho. Ask THAT doctor your questions. I'm sending hope your way, and to your shoulder, that your clinical situation improves. Josh PS. To ALL readers of this forum: I strongly suggest you reconsider using, as is very frequently done here, this forum for medical advice. Their 20 min Google search type of advice here is untrained & therefore dangerous. If only giving medical advice was that easy! Nearly a decade of medical school & residency and I am very skeptical of MY advice if it's not the proper forum for me to deliver it (like in an exam room). Yes, these men mean well, but they truly do not know how dangerous their advice is.

Hey folks! Thank you for the help & info. It's very, very appreciated that you took the time to offer me help! TBH, this is unlike the response I got from a guy on this board I DM about Rio this week. Yes, he answered my DM but not only did he outright refuse to answer my question but was quite rude & inappropriate to me. And it was just a question about saunas, nothing inappropriate at all! (Jeeze, why bother to respond at all then?). But your suggestions will be used! And off to Rio soon I will go.... Hugs to all Josh

Hi All. I'm off to Rio soon. But it's been years since I've been to the Rio saunas and hired a garato. But its been since before the covid pandemic & I fear my knowledge base is outdated. I need updated guidance on saunas. 1) What are the names of the currently open gay saunas w garatos? 2) Which nights are best for which sauna? In the past most saunas had maybe two busy nights with mostly dead nights the other night. In the distant past some wonderful man wrote out a brief week spreadsheet of the saunas and which nights they were busiest. Is there an updated one? 3) What is the current going rate for a programa? Love & hugs to all. Josh

Hi all. I recently flew to LA for a work conference and met up with Stephan one evening. He's hot AF. He did everything I asked without hesitation & is fantastic at what he does. He's genuine and kind, professional, masculine, and a lot of fun. I do not know his sexual orientation (I didn't ask), we did not do muscle worship (I'm not into that), and he is not a flight attendant (I asked). If I ever fly back to LA or if he comes to my town on the east coast, I will repeat. I absolutely recommend him. Love & hugs to all Josh PS I have been a contributing member on this forum for many years now, so I hope that lends some credibility to my recommendation...

Hi I'm a provider too, albeit slightly different. I'm a board certified physician practicing medicine here in the US. Yes, I get those, too. Even from established patients of mine. I discharge any patients who do this repetitively. I do not demand deposits to make an appointment. FYI: ALL professionals get no-shows. It's perplexing why you think your profession should be somehow exempt from this. All good business men (including physicians) must come up with strategies to manage business scheduling losses. FULL DISCLOSURE: I will never give a deposit. I've been hiring for awhile & I consider myself quite experienced now, and I have never been asked for a deposit & never will provide one. TO ALL MY GAY BROTHERS OUT THERE WHO HIRE: Do not listen to the above escort. Do not EVER pay a deposit. You WILL very possibly regret it. You will help other Gay men regret it. And if you DO pay a deposit: You will encourage MORE SCAMMERS to infiltrate the gay-escort business who will RIP us OFF! But by keeping a No-Deposit-Culture we minimize this cancer. If you DO pay a deposit: You will encourage more psychopaths to infiltrate the gay-escort business who will then PREY ON US (cuz they have YOUR personal info) BY extorting those who provide this info. To My Gay Brothers Who Cancel Last Minute or No-Show: What the fuck is wrong with you?!? Escorts are beautiful, wonderful, fun and VERY worthy of all the respect & love we can GIVE THEM. No-showing harms EVERYONE. MY SUGGESTION: If we hear of any gay poster to these boards we absolutely should BAN HIM as he helps to create the very toxicity that drives the above mentioned escort to his inappropriate deposit-demanding behavior. Love & hugs to all, Josh