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  1. I believe he was referring to the gay bathhouse for that.
  2. To my eyes (which are not what they used to be) his nipples appear to be pierced with small nipple barbells.
  3. sync

    Mutual Respect

    One year, nine months.
  4. sync

    Mutual Respect

    My comment may be better suited for the politics forum, but here it is: I believe the decay of professional courtesy and consideration in the escort industry is no different from the decay of professional courtesy and consideration we are experiencing elsewhere in our society (how many reports have we read or seen of customers being abused at retail locations?). I believe it is the result of the arrogant, boorish, and inflated sense of entitlement that is projected upon us all day, every day from the White House. Escorts/masseurs are no more immune to it than the rest of us, which has been noted in numerous postings by escorts/masseurs about the shabby treatment they have received from some clients. I'm living within the hope that better days are coming.
  5. I agree. To me it always looked like an act of desperation for anything to put on the table.
  6. Actually, his ass is only ample, my ass is massive.
  7. And how, my handwriting was never good, today it scarcely deserves the name.
  8. These days take care you're not wearing a watch or jewelry when you put your arm out the window.
  9. I would be content with just 10 million of it. Enough to invest for some capital gains and plenty for living expenses and "ahem" entertainment, while not being enough to draw attention to myself.
  10. The upside of a tongue depressor.
  11. You know I just had to go try to find one. Thanks for the inspiration.
  12. Am I correct to assume you are also a "worker" whose livelihood is dependent upon making and keeping appointments, while dallying?
  13. Sure, I would date a teetotaler, and I would restrict my own consumption of alcoholic beverages to when I was not in his company. PS: Has your walker arrived? Is it working for you?
  14. To the other person it may have appeared that he was checking for messages.
  15. That is an assumption that could be valid, however, it is very common for individuals to take their phones with them everywhere, even into restrooms.
  16. https://rent.men/AdamAdonis
  17. Am I missing the obvious for why anyone feels there must be a video record of every sexual intimacy they experience? The report does not indicate that it was requested by the flight attendant.
  18. Yes, it certainly would be better, but I'm thinking the human race is still millennia away from purging the "isms." For the present, it's stand our ground or give up. For those who are coming up behind us, I would say the most useful thing would be for us to let them know what's coming their way and try to prepare them mentally and emotionally. Sadly, the current U.S. administration continues to entice every conceivable element of intolerance and hatred from under their rocks. If I'm coming off as bitter old man, it's only because I'm a bitter old man.
  19. Without meaning to speak ill of the dead, I've tried those sausages:
  20. Hello Sean Y, Every downside that you have mentioned unfortunately comes with the territory. All of these hurtful things plague every minority. The upside is they are subject to being accepted and believed. It must be understood that racist and cosmetic attacks are intended for only one thing, to inflict hurt and insecurity. I'll be the first to agree with you, from my own life experience, it takes some time and determination to become unaffected by their poison. But, once you liberate yourself from being intimidated by the ignorance of others, you have a new appreciation for living. It would, indeed, be more wonderful if we were loved everywhere, but human nature is what it is. My time going to bars was some time ago when going into a gar bar meant being with others of a kind. The environment was very different from today. We bonded across age, race, and economic lines because we were just delighted to know that there were others like us. As time passed and the race-specific bars came into being, it gave us the opportunity to hang with our own and let down our hair. They were never structured to freeze-out other races. That was the "Web" I knew. Today it is very different. All of society's ills have migrated into the gay community. I understand how that could very easily be the case, but I can tell you that was not the case at the Web. Every Asian that I encountered at the Web was very grounded, intelligent, self-confident, cordial, respectful, and expected the same. I never saw or heard of any Asian being treated disrespectfully at the Web. A part of that may have been due to the management, which brooked no such behavior, regardless of race. I extend my condolences to you for having had that experience. An organization whose sole purpose is to introduce white guys to Asian boys is displaying a huge red flag that would probably not be obvious to the 20-year old you were at the time. Apparently, you have weathered the storm. Perhaps Drained Empty will be able to glean some inspiration from you. I hope so.
  21. Other than a maniacal, burning rage for revenge, what in the world would possess someone to video record intimacy with another person, at that other person's place of employment no less, and then post it on social media without the other person's knowledge or consent? What a despicable thing to do.
  22. Thanks for that, but is my understanding of the incident's circumstances correct?
  23. Am I understanding this correctly, that Austin Wolf recorded himself and a United Airlines employee being intimate and then posted the video on Twitter?
  24. Your writing(s) sadden me with the tone of low self-esteem expressed. Even the name you have chosen for yourself "Drained Empty" suggests low self-esteem. One's own race and skin color are not options that can be changed. From my own life experience I can declare bigots are everywhere, but they are not everybody. With respect to Asians, I have known many non-Asian gay men who are absolutely enamored with Asian men. There once was a bar in NYC named "The Web" on East 58th Street that was owned and operated by Asians. There were Asian patrons/dancers/bartenders, and believe me, that bar was packed all the time with non-Asians looking for Asians. If you can, begin to train yourself to stop looking into your detractors but to look past them. You might begin by considering another more positive forum name for yourself.
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