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His hypocrisy, for starters. He was also not attractive to me.

Maybe the cops would also have wanted a blow job! It's been known to happen. I knew a cop who patrolled Golden Gate Park on horseback. Girls loved to suck him off, so he says. They'd get their blow jobs then arrest gays for doing the same thing. He kept hinting that he would accept a blow job from me, but I was not at all interested.

I saw Moulin Rouge in New York right before the pandemic hit. It was wonderful!

Great selections, @jjkrkwood !

Expensive massage!

Definitely a subconscious thing. If you want it bad enough, the portal will open!

He was a great contributor to the forums, both here and at boytoy.com. RIP

Braggart! ?

Yes. You can have sex with the cold, the wind, and the fog. All at the same time! ?

I was kidding. I know that some people cannot deal with someone opening a door while they engage in toilet activities.

@Ludo Yes, thanks. I did remove my "dislike" reaction earlier. I always want to see the masseur before I agree to the massage.

Maybe so. I know I always faint when I am douching.

The passing of Gaiety dancer T.J. brought the opportunity to revive a post about him dancing there back when @Cooper and @foxy would alternate writing reviews each week of the new dancers. I loved reading those reviews, and it often caused me to hurry over to 46th Street to take them in myself. One might enjoy reading some of the others reviewed. I suggest, meekly, that Cooper revive one every week for our vicarious pleasure in this time of sheltering at home! There were some great dancers whose performances should not be left to the dust heap, no?

So you guys are getting naked and having sex together, but he locks the bathroom door?

As will I.

@Lazarus, I am as perplexed as you!

@big dale, it's a stereotype that old Asians are toothless. I didn't say it was offensive to my husband, he doesn't read the message board. But having a Chinese husband does make me think on posts like these. If I overreacted, it's Ludo who deserves my apology.

@Ludo My husband is Asian, so I did not take to your description of the Asian man. If he really was totally toothless, then I withdraw my negative remark.

Then there were the street fairs on Castro and Folsom, with the later having lots of nudity. Halloween on Castro was also great fun. I remember going up to a cute young guy and asking him if it was difficult to go through life being so beautiful. He snickered and left me drooling!

So many times read or hear someone saying that they really need to get those papers done, and sometimes they actually do. For years I went to Acapulco every January. The last time one of the guys said these very things. He seemed determined. But six days later he died without having made the changes he wanted. Moral of the story: Do those papers now! You can get forms from a variety of organizations or even with a google search. Then, tell someone you have them.

The theater in San Francisco was the Nob Hill. It was just an okay place, and eventually the quality of the dancers went down. Some of them were very lazy. But when I moved to San Francisco, the Ritch Street Baths and the one on Eighth Street were thriving and loads of fun. Polk Street was also doing well, with guys selling themselves on the sidewalks. There were good bars and restaurants on Polk Street as well. It was fun to go out for a meal and enjoy the scenery on the street. Later there was Blow Buddies on Harrison. It was designed with the name in mind! The Bay Area Reporter had pages of escort/masseur ads.

Did I not say that I think it was the fly traps drawing in the flies? Our doors do not have screens. With dogs going in and out, that doesn't help. But the fly situation today is quite good, so I can't blame the dogs!

For all we know, Daddy has all of the legal papers drawn up and sitting in a folder somewhere in his apartment. But none of us can enter. At some point, there will be an effort by the hospital or a court-appointed guardian to discover if those papers exist. But it is out of our control, and, as someone above mentioned, not really our business. We can only wish him well.

I liked Urinetown.

@Lazarus is one of my favorite posters. Do not try to misuse what I say. Nowhere have I supported personal attacks, even ones against you.