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I start out soft, but I’m the same way- zero to 60 in no time, no restraint.

Guys go there to suck and fuck. They don’t normally go there to suck fuck just one guy but a succession of guys. You decide- is that “hygienic?” Are they clean? The last time I went to the Steamworks it was very clean- for a bathhouse. Would I want to have a sterile procedure done there? Probably not.

I can’t imagine there aren’t some guys doing it. I wouldnt. It could become your personal superspreader event.

AFAIK he isn't a sex worker - it's just a day of shopping and lunch with a very sexy, but probably unattainable, straight guy. And it wasn't inexpensive- as I remember, he charged $2K for the day. I thought it sounded great - his attention totally on me for an entire day while running around Atlanta shopping for clothes. I looked at his website recently to see if he still did it, but I didn't see any mention of it. He has a much bigger reputation and following now so maybe he doesn't have time for a high-touch service like that. I've looked at a lot of his videos. I think one of the most useful was when he taught how to groom your stomach hair to give yourself a happy trail. I still do it - and it looks totally convincing.

Do the looks actually fade, or do they just change?

Agree-those young fathers really get your attention

Silverdaddies has been very good to a friend of mine. He has met some great-looking young guys and actually met his partner of 10 years or so on there - there's approximately a 30-year difference in their ages

Yes, but it's the new part of SOMA. There's been an enormous amount of construction in that part of the city. Another neighborhood that's in that area you might like is Dogpatch.

SOMA (south of Market Street area) is probably still the best place for you to find the kind of vibe I think you're looking for. Potrero Hill might also be good. You might also like the DuBoce Triangle. But San Francisco has become very homogenous, compared to the way it used to be. And of course the pandemic has had a profound effect on the way people live here. So nothing is really the same.

I don't know what the therapeutic dose is for NG, but I had to have it once. At that time, the protocol was to give oral and injection. I had serious diarrhea for days afterward.

We live in a society in which racism is institutionalized - it pervades everything. Given that, of course it will find it's way into male-on-male sex work. Perfectly well meaning clients will, by reflex, treat a black provider differently - because they have been programmed to do so, not because they have any animus toward the black provider. My heart is completely in the right place with respect to questions on race. In spite of that, I monitor myself carefully in interactions with people of color because those unconscious biases can suddenly make themselves known - they may even seem quite innocent at the time. For example, some months ago I was talking with the branch manager of my bank - an American-born Chinese. He speaks several languages - Japanese, Mandarin and Cantonese. I commented that I really liked the sound of Mandarin when it was being spoken by an American who knew it well better than the sound of a native speaker. It occurred to me later that that was sort of a tone-deaf remark - throwing shade on an entire language that only sounded good when it was being spoken by Americans. I hired a black provider a while ago and met him at his hotel. When I arrived, he wasn't quite ready and texted me to wait in the lobby for ten minutes. I was annoyed and would have been annoyed if a white provider had asked me to do the same thing. But later, I thought my irritation was way out of proportion to what had happened, and was willing to examine whether that was an unconscious racial bias popping up. I was deeply affected by an episode of Geraldo that aired in the late 80s. The topic was racism. He had a panel of black guys - academics, therapists, that sort of person. The panel was taking questions from the audience and a young white guy stood up and talked about how wracked with guilt he was about his own unconscious racism and didn't know what he could do about it. One of the panelists responded, "It's not your fault. You are a product of a racist system so you can't help but be racist." He also said, "I'm a product of the same system, so I have all of those unconscious biases that you do, and I'm black." So each and every one of has the responsibility to decide whether we are going to be used by these impulsive biases or whether to exercise the self-awareness that allows us to act another way.

I would think part of the calculus for the escort would be how long is the appointment? He’s more likely to say yes to someone who is hiring for a weekend than he would be to someone who is hiring for an hour.

I'm fine with being called daddy. sometimes younger men ask me how I want to be addressed. I prefer "boss" or "papi."

It's very individual. I like men of all ages, but I think I have a preference for older guys, but not older guys as a type. I especially go for older men who are very fit. But that's not an absolute - sometimes somebody who's kind of heavy trips my trigger. Sometimes I get a boner over a man in his 70s. I have pretty much discarded my checklist and let my dick tell me whether or not a guy is sexy.

If he has the client's permission, I don't see anything wrong with it. If he doesn't, it is very invasive and he's being extremely presumptuous.

Glad you like.

I obviously didn't do all that just to get a new avatar, but it seemed a shame not to use of the images as a new avatar.

And three locations

Oh, I changed clothes - 7 looks

Thanks all for your kind words. The shoot was totally amazing. I had never done one before. Great chemistry with the photographer - he seemed to really be enjoying himself. We did 500 shots in about three hours. I was exhausted. At the the end, I said, "So this must be what modeling is like." He said "exactly - models earn their money."

That's as good as it gets.

It's supposed to be bit dark

Some of you have asked me for a current picture. I promised I would post a new avatar after my photo shoot last month. Here it is. Hope you like.

I actually have two questions. I'm getting requests for flexing videos on IG.. How much would I charge? Could I use an OF page for this?

If somebody tells me they don't like something - I accept it at face value. I wouldn't attempt to delve into it.