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Rudynate

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  1. For me, an overnight would be a complete waste because I like sleeping alone and in my own bed. I'm curious what an 8-hour booking during the day would be like.
  2. My husband and I haven't slept together in quite a while. We both snore, so we disturb each other. We always sleep together when we travel.
  3. I reached out to him once and was surprised to get an immediate response. Nailing down an appointment was another matter. After a few tries I gave up.
  4. Of course you can. Getting cut is mostly diet and drinking plenty of water - 3 L or more per day.
  5. Oh and I've taken up cycling again. I live in a great neighborhood for cycling - lots of level roadway for easy riding. There are gentle hills close by when I feel like a bit of challenge
  6. They buy their own equipment. The first 2 - 3 months I did home workouts using bodyweight, lite dumbells, and exercise bands. My coach was impressed enough with my results that posted one of my pics in his IG feed as an example of what's possible working out from home. I bought my own rig - squat rack, pullup bar, olympic bar, plates maybe at the end of April. We don't use the living room much, so we turned it into a home gym. It is very soothing lifting all by yourself in your own space.
  7. Except for New York state, there hasn't been much in the way of enforcement. Cuomo imposed stiff fines in New York for non-compliance.
  8. Aussies must be more group-minded. Or maybe they're just not as stupid. Or a little of both
  9. Only sort of. The only change will be allowing outside dining again. Nearly the entire state is purple - the worst category. Now they are going back to county-by-county determinations in stead of a blanket statewide lockdown.
  10. I would like Alex, although my real name isn't bad at all.
  11. I once hired a guy who made me pretty uncomfortable. He was an Iraq war who seemed pretty damaged. He told me some stories about things he had been through after his military service that had me thinking "This guy needs a doctor." Still, I didn't feel like I was in danger. I just felt uncomfortable around all that pathology.
  12. I'm only guessing, but, for some reason, I think his profile is authentic.
  13. No, I'm only going from what his profile says. If you talked to him, you may find he's more flexible than he appears from his profile.
  14. Be sure you're into what he's offering - worship, domination, etc. No penetrative sex. For me that would be fine, but for somebody looking for kissing, oral, anal - he would probably be a disappointment.
  15. I think linen sheets would be too warm. I've owned a couple of linen shirts and never wore either too much because they were so uncomfortable. I like microfiber sheets because they are so lightweight. I think I probably would like bamboo sheets for the same reason.
  16. Not positive - but I think a full facelift from a top surgeon can cost $20K or more. A female friend, several years ago, got a full facelift from a top guy here in the Bay area. She looked amazing afterward - she said it cost her $17k.
  17. I think I would see what I could achieve with cosmaceuticals and non- or miminally-invasive procedures first.
  18. Glad it was helpful.
  19. They're very convenient tho.
  20. I don't care what part of the world they come from, men with dark skin tones, dark body hair and thick beards get me going.
  21. Since I indulge myself, and a puff of the herb turns me into a complete animal, why in the world would I get upset by a provider doing the same thing?
  22. The first time I visited Greece was in the early 70s during the Papadopulous regime. The entire country was thick with heavily-armed police and soldiers. In Athens, you saw them on nearly every street corner. There were lots of gay bars in Plaka - the old section of Athens. There was a hustler bar called the VO Club where you could pick up stunning Greek men for almost nothing - 30.00 or so. For Greece, at the time, that was a lot of money, but it was peanuts to the middle-aged western tourists who hung out there. What was interesting is that soldiers would go in there in uniform in full daylight to pick up tricks. The fact that they might be seen didn't seem to bother them at all.
  23. At some point, I probably will try a touch of Botox and some filler. @Funguy doesn't seem to be around these days, but he's who I would go to for this. I would be happy to make the trip to LA, after the pandemic starts to ease up.
  24. Sometimes, they really are bi. It’s hard to tell. I haven’t been to Greece in a very long time, but it used to be full of guys who were gay for pay. Turkey and Lebanon supposedly are also that way.
  25. When I was your age, I remember thinking that the fun part of life was over, and it was all going to be downhill from there. I was too heavy, I smoked, I had an abusive boyfriend, I was dissatisfied and disappointed that I hadn't accomplished more at my age and I was stuck in a rut that I couldn't seem to get my self out of. At the time, my father's health was failing and I picked up and moved across country back home to help him out. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. We came from an industrial city in the the Northeast with a large blue-collar population and everybody worked - there wasn't any tolerance of somebody who didn't work full-time. In moving back there I rediscovered my work ethic and got a job and stayed on it. I stayed there for almost two years. When my father died, I realized I had one of those openings in life where I was free to do whatever I wanted. I was 37. Friends in San Francisco had been urging me to move there, and I thought, "Why not?" I loaded my car up and hit the road for California. That was 31 years ago. The last 31 years have been a whirlwind - I don't know where the energy comes from. I have owned two properties, I have gotten two professional degrees, I have spent my entire career working with tech companies in Silicon Valley, I have my own business, I'm respected in my profession. I met the love of my life and we've been together for 29 years, and I am a competitor in masters' bodybuilding. It hasn't been all roses - I have a couple of semi-serious health conditions that I have to be mindful off. Between age 50 and 60, I was hospitalized four times. I barely squeaked through the financial collapse and now the present sorry state of affairs. My whole point in telling this story, is that it's not too late for you. You have a lot of life left in you. Start now.
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