adventurous old guy

Chacun a son gout! Once again we're tracking the variation in human desire. And there IS variation in how we're hardwired -- think about the difference between guys for whom nipple work is a huge turn on vs. those who could care less -- as well as what our hang-ups and fetishes are. See the contemporaneous thread on scat, for example. For me, I want to have a comfortable experience where my date also is enjoying himself, so I generally say that in the preludes and then ask if there is anything he especially likes or doesn't like. Its respectful and his answer usually segues into what I like too...and hope to have happen! And for the record: Nipple play -- Love doing it, could care less about having it done to me Kissing -- yes! Rimming -- Have no prob doing it, don't want it done to me Scat -- Ewwwwwww! And Ewwwwww again!

I have no idea why he blocked me. I'd sent him an email and a private pic request. Can't think of anything in the email that would offend. He unlocked the gallery, then blocked me a few minutes later. I have a pretty complete profile on RM so people I contact can get a good sense of what I look like and look for. Age maybe? I'm 63. Maybe he prefers younger tops, fair enough. I'm not going to chase. People are strange when you're a stranger.

I've mentioned this before, but there's increasing opinion -- at least in the US -- on the part of the profession that "its OK, I'm on PrEP so we don't need a condom." I always carry them for just that reason.

Well, here's my update: Contacted him, told him I was a top and asked him to get back to me if we were a fit. In response, he blocked me. So I'll take that as a "no" lol. At least it was fast and no nonsense!

Thanks. You are always a great resource! I searched before posting and and couldn't find anything. Anyone know his other d/b/a?

https://rentmen.eu/BrodieScott/ Relatively new advertiser, but has racked up a number of reviews. Great ad, really stand out. So, two questions: 1. Who's met this guy? 2. And what's he like as a bottom?

Well, he said he was straight in this interview: http://menofporn.typepad.com/menofporn/2012/11/20-questions-with-logan-vaughn-part-1.html 2012 was a long time ago. Maybe he's come out?

I didn't ask and so have no idea. All I know is what I reported earlier today.

Quick update from me: He did offer to bottom for me, no problem, said he preferred it. Very polite and professional in responding, quoting rates, and so on. However, I got a pretty gay for pay vibe from him, and so went with someone else.

I think this is true in a number of places. Bet there are a slough of escorts who used to be PTs, but moved into better paying positions.

Nice start, but only one who isn't a strict top. Gotta balance that menu!

Yup!

Oh, it can be done!

Where, geographically?

I saw him quite a number of years ago too, and he definitely went ALL the way, as a bottom, and enjoyed it. Or at least said he did during pillow talk afterward that seemed genuine -- there was other evidence too, lol. Can't speak to his current practices or preferences though.

Yup, I've met him and totally agree!

Hi I posted this message in the Spa section earlier today, and got some feedback indicating it was a better fit here.: I travel a lot and its a treat to book a massage on the road. Three of the hottest experiences I've had have been with masseurs who have skills, but also are open to transitioning to full service BFE. Because of my preference to top, the transition was from them as masseur "in charge" to letting go of control and just giving themselves to me. Its's a delicious moment when that transition happens, lol. Interestingly, one of these experiences took three appts before the flip happened. I'm OK with that because it was all the more satisfying. When he arrived for the third date, he said he had a surprise for me -- and boy did he deliver. To find guys who might be up for it, I generally look for men who advertise on both RM and MasseurFinder or RentMasseur. Wondering if anyone here has recommendations -- for either particular guys or search strategies -- especially in DC/Baltimore, although I travel pretty much everywhere. Thx!

Not quite. I want to plan it, so the expectation is clear. I'm a pretty direct communicator, so I put it out there as a request on the hiring process. I mentioned the times above when it was a peak experience, but there have been two times -- both recently -- where the masseur said sure but in the event he was more just going through the motions. That's what I want to avoid in the future, hence the request for guidance. But I see your point. I may be looking more for an escort with massage skills than a masseur who offers escort services. Maybe this is a better fit for the Deli section. Thx.

I travel a lot and its a treat to book a massage on the road. Three of the hottest experiences I've had have been with masseurs who have skills, but also are open to transitioning to full service BFE. Because of my preference to top, the transition was from them as masseur "in charge" to letting go of control and just giving themselves to me. Its's a delicious moment when that transition happens, lol. Interestingly, one of these experiences took three appts before the flip happened. I'm OK with that because it was all the more satisfying. To find guys who might be up for it, I generally look for men who advertise on both RM and MasseurFinder or RentMasseur. Wondering if anyone here has recommendations -- for either particular guys or search strategies -- especially in DC/Baltimore, although I travel pretty much everywhere. Thx!

Good to know, thx.

He quoted $300 for an outcall, saying this was for a session, not necessarily limited to an hour. Or words to that effect. High for someone with no reviews, maybe, but this seems like the new norm in DC.

My attempt to contribute: Haven't met him due to schedule stuff on my end, but when I contacted him just before Christmas he was 1) quick to respond, 2) asked specific questions about what I liked and in response assured me that he was very willing to bottom and kiss, and 3) texted me several new pics and vid clips, some of which he took during our exchange to show what he looked like at that moment. So he is not at all shy. English is not his first language btw, or at least doesn't seem so from his email and texts.

Ok, this is officially a REALLY fun thread! :D:D:D:D:D

You are too fun! Thats a movie scene! Or maybe a sitcom episode...is Modern Family ready for this plot line?

Sheer poetry! But I have a question: Were you not expecting him? Or just not expecting that?