adventurous old guy

Just a line to say I appreciate all the thoughtful feedback on this thread. Have a great day all.

To clarify, notice time is a qualifier for me. If I were to cancel early in the day for an evening appt, I probably wouldn't feel obliged to compensate. Haven't faced that -- mine have been because of late flights or work events that go longer than expected.

Have a last minute trip to Lisbon, so bumping this request for any advice. Have never been, looking at both RM and Hunqz. Looks like a fair assortment of built bottoms, which is my taste. But would certainly appreciate any experiences members here have to share. Obrigado!

Curious that you don't factor in lost opportunity costs. If the escort is holding an appt time for a client who cancels, quote possibly he turned down or did not respond to other requests, right? At least that's the presumption I make. Might be projecting from my own consulting business, where this is the behavior code.

Sounds like the best kind of odyssey!

His ad catches my eye too. He advertises as versatile -- any experience with Tom as a bottom?

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/any-411-on-this-dc-guy.138563/#post-1619048

Beautifully articulated TMD! I had a similar experience last week with this guy: https://rentmen.eu/MuscleDonis/ And have been trying to describe what you put words to -- I felt rushed into sex. And it was confusing. Kept asking myself why isn't this a turn on, why shouldn't I like this more than I do. Came away with a better understanding of how important the ramp up is to me, e.g. a little kissing, a sip or two of wine, progressing to hotter kissing and the shedding of clothes before I jump his bones,. Guess I'm more of a BFE guy than I knew!

I saw Jim this summer. He's not quite as pulchritudinous as his pics suggest, but very sexy in a lean muscular way. Direct, straightforward and interesting. Do NOT hire him as a bottom. I did, he tried and it just didn't work. I'd bet dollars to donuts that he is as hard-wired a top as I am. He is interesting though, and very interactive. Basically I recall our session as a fun sparring match where we both wrestled for the top, lol. Hope this helps.

Just saw him. Probably won't submit a review because they chemistry just wasn't there between us. Not his fault. For those of you who are interested, he's very built, good communicator, couldn't be nicer and was more than happy to bottom. Hope this doesn't constitute a review -- not intended to be one! Happy T-Giving all.

Thumbs up here too. I see him whenever our paths cross. Looks great, super nice, shy demeanor in conversation but great in bed. Latin with all American looks. And pics are accurate.

WHAAAAAT? He's got just 2 reviews. One is negative and I've talked to the other one, who says it wasn't bad but he wouldn't rehire. Hmm, what's the cliche -- if you're selling "apples" at $8k an apple, you only have to sell one. And that just might be an $8000 ass!

Bump. The butt shots always catch my eye. And get me salivating lol.

Wow. Really didn't know this.

Forgive if this question is off the wall, but can the receiver of oral sex get gonorrhea from a giver of oral sex who has g of the throat?

Piling on. I've seen negative RM reviews disappear several times now, once after I'd contacted the reviewer to learn more. His response was very credible, and just the kind of information I was looking for. I presume because the escorts are paying customers of RM, they have leverage to get the bad reviews removed -- am I right about this?

Dave, we're on the same page, and I like the basic human respect that comes through in your post. Trustworthiness and kindness, two things I wish I saw more of in the world. AOG PS -- bummer about the Malaysia experience. That sucks.

From NYC, visiting Chicago. Very responsive and charming in text exchange. Several RM reviews. Anyone here with experience to share? https://rentmen.eu/NewHereVIP

Yup, that's worse.

Ok, at the risk of being crass aka direct, does Mr. Goodbody bottom? And If so, is he also a Mr. Goodbottom? I really like his ad -- not just the Pavlovian-response-producing pics but his direct communication style and multiple reviews -- and I've asked him this question directly as well, but also would appreciate experiential insights from fellow travelers here!

Keith, you have a business here. Do you have a fee to access your database, and how much do you charge to consult?

Very true in my experience as well. I'd only add that I think the "versatile" category leans toward preferring to bottom. Wonder also if the "ask me" crowd, which is probably a mixed bag, or even the V/T group have a good number that prefer to bottom but don't want to advertise that.

At least you got a half-assed excuse. Had a recent experience where there was lots of communication almost up to the appt time, and then with no signal whatsoever the guy just didn't show up. Worried me that he was mugged on the way or something like that. But he was advertising as available again the next day, so... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/any-411-on-this-dc-guy.138563/#post-1619048

So my biggest regret in this space is a date I had in DC with Alec Andrews when we overlapped there. We'd had a really fun flirty planning call and I was so jacked to top his beautiful bum. For those of you who know DC, he was staying at the JWMarriott. I was literally 1 block away at the Occidental Grille with a client -- my biggest client -- who just learned that he had won a HUGE contract because of help I gave him. He insisted on celebrating, and it was hard to say no. Couple texts to Alec asking if we could push back, he was great. Then, having reached a certain blood alcohol level the client dove off the ledge with personal problems -- he was drunk and pouring out his soul as the waiter continued to pour wine. Then Bourb0n. Dinner past, we moved to the bar. More pouring there, couple more texts to Alec. Progressing, the bar was closing but the bartender kept pouring. He was in an empathetic mood and drinking with us-- his Audi had been stolen from outside the restaurant, he'd called the police and they'd told him it was most likely in pieces by now. I'm not making this up. Final text --or was it email -- around 11 PM to Alec, apologized and paid in full via PayPal. Got a very nice thank you for being a stand up guy. And then...Alec retired. insert existential sigh here. Bottom line, very memorable night. The bartender and I still talk about it. But I never got to meet -- or plow -- Alec. So Alec, if you're still on this forum and ever come out of retirement, I hope I have some kind of karmic credit in the bank. :rolleyes: Memories...misty water-colored memories...of the way we weren't.

Here's what I was coached to do by a good samaritan here. Copy the URL for the reviews of the provider in whom you're interested. Go to www.hide.me. Choose "Free Proxy." Open the drop down menu that appears for "More Options." and check the option boxes that aren't checked -- for me there are usually 3. Paste the URL that you copied from RM. Then hit "Visit Anonymously." Annoying multi-step work-around, but it gets you more information. I will say that i am suspicious of RM, because providers seems to have a lot of ability to get negative reviews removed. I'll offer go further and email an RM reviewer for more information. The way I do that is to search via browser rentmen.eu/[name of reviewer] Hope this helps.