Update to my post above.
Tried a dry (no oil) Thai massage at Nuat Thai. They have several branches and quality of the studio and staff can vary. The branch I tried in Makati was new and clean; lots of attention paid to hygiene. I was given pants and shirt to wear during my session. Massage was very professional, legit, and effective. I was hoping for some of the Thai massage moves where the therapist lifts you off the table, but my therapist was a little gay half my size! Would repeat if I wanted a purely therapeutic massage.
Returned to Infinity Spa in Makati for a body scrub and a sensual massage. I had one therapist for both ... not a slim young'un, but a bearish guy around 40.
The scrub was very basic: he rubbed salt on me once, back and front. No table shower, no soaking tub, no attendant helping me rinse off in the shower next to the treatment room. Not worth the cost, in my opinion.
The sensual massage was indeed sensual. It was stimulating, but the therapist kept making sex sounds until I asked him to stop. There was upselling and after the session he waited for me to return to the room with his cash tip. I would repeat with another therapist (not this one) just to see how they would do things, and I would be firmer on how much I would be willing to tip.
As with my previous post, if you want details, message me.