Saw the original post right before my trip to Manila, so I did some research (mostly on Twitter and Reddit). Based on location, I focused on Urus, Infinity (Makati branch), and 27 Shaw. Some commonalities:
- therapeutic massage as well as intentionally sensual massages (give interesting names like Apollo massage, Explorer massage, tactile massage).
- BDSM sessions with "props" (with names like Artemis massage and Serfdom massage).
- play areas
- much slick advertising on social media, including lots of posts by the (mostly straight) masseurs asking you to book them.
- when calling to make a reservation, you get reminded that all the therapists and clients are male.
- it helps to reserve early as spots fill up quickly.
Based on a trusted source (my gay brother), I did not yet go to Urus because he said the facilities were in bad shape.
I first tried a therapeutic massage at Infinity Spa Makati. Decent facilities: steam room and dry sauna; no maze or hot tub. Crowd was on the young side. My masseur arrived late and ended the massage way before the advertised 80 minutes. Very good massage, nothing sensual, no upselling, no mention of anything extra. Masseur was pleasant; he reminded me about his tip envelope at the front desk.
I next tried the sensual massage at 27 Shaw, probably the newest and most high end of the gay spas. Very good facilities. Larger steam room and sauna compared the Infinity Makati, and a small pool with jets (not really a hot tub ... water was tepid, which was refreshing after the heat treatments.). Masseur showed up just a few minutes late and introduced himself. He was very polite and cute. Massage was indeed sensual, but the masseur kept his clothes on (even wrapped a towel around his hips, over his pants). Again, the session ended before the advertised time. No upselling, no requests for tips, no mention of anything extra.
Won't go into details here, but feel free to ask privately. Might go a couple more times during this trip and try something different.