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ChatGtp couldn't find any example from the last five years that this happened.

And vers/top never bottom

Ok. Let's be precise then
Vers/top never bottom, unless client is hot as hell

Good post, good question. Vers/bottom is usually a disappointing top, IMHO.

I believe so. Similar things have happened to me from time to time. It's a miserable feeling. You get all hyped up to meet a new guy and the meet is nothing like what you envisioned. I have been lied to,  scammed, and even threatened on one occasion. Probably why I stick to regulars most often. I asked for some more details about a new guy coming through here this month, and he responded with really vague and  "non answer" answers. Plus he quoted an outrageous rate, which is fine if that's what he's getting. But it perked up my radar to the point that I am scared to book him. Sad, because his pics hit all my buttons.

sobering video. It's something I'm always a bit nervous about. We have let our guard down because we think that cops usually focus on men hiring women. But the fact is they would be just as happy arresting one of us as they would a hetero hiring a call girl. Might enjoy it more as it would produce more of a scandal.

Absolutely he's looking for business. He's got a lot of competition. Take I-17 or I-10 through the Phoenix metro area and count how many "attorney" billboards you see along the interstate. He may just be looking for business but my initial reaction is that dude has got some pretty big balls to make a video advising anyone charged with soliciting to contact his law firm. You're not gonna see THAT on a roadside billboard. I want to believe that my compadres here at CoM are all doing what they have to do in order to minimize exposure; see @azdr0710 above. I get great advice, great insights and great recommendations here. 

seems strange that the "largest criminal defense law firm" in Arizona needs to be advertising on youtube.....
based on years of forum chatter here, arrests of gay clients or providers seem uncommon.......though not involving money (prostitution), famous arrests like George Michael and Larry Craig ("lewd behavior" or similar) came about only because of orchestrated stings after specific community complaints to the local police......
most of us have seen the 'cops-in-the-hotel-room-next-door' thing on "Cops" using audio/video and an undercover cop (as client or provider) meeting the provider/client and specifically discussing "money for a sex act" to get the proof......after getting that specific confirmation, cops bust in thru the connecting hotel room door......these stings are highly planned by local police/sheriff and take time and staff, so aren't too common....and they could be for public relations rather than as a result of specific complaints.....specifically targeting gay clients/providers doesn't seem to be a priority, typically, but I do remember a video years ago of a male provider being arrested after an undercover male cop, as client, nearly badgered the provider to agree to "money for sex"......
these days, much more important to law enforcement jurisdictions is fighting human trafficking (and resultant prostitution, usually females)......I don't think anybody here on the forum is conducting human trafficking(!).......
as always, using this forum, meeting with established providers, and not discussing money at the meeting is the advice.....get money stuff hammered out in pre-meet planning (including how/when payment will be made) and confirm with the provider that you don't want to talk money in person......
 

Meh... This guy is a criminal defense attorney. He's looking for business. 

Indeed.
 

After seeing his pics, I came up with the conclusion that anybody can be an escort these days.

He’s willing to get into your Wallet with not much in return 

He mentioned to me he rarely did this and wasn’t interested in meeting 🤦‍♂️

I recall one night in Montreal back in  2017 with a dancer at a strip club.  The price was 20 Canadian dollars per song.  I just had 5 songs with one guy, and paid him 100 Canadian dollars.  I then immediately asked if he could provide a private dance at my hotel one night, and he said "Yes, you already paid 100 dollars, so it'll only be another 100 dollars for me to go back to your room with you for an hour.  Let's go now".  We then left the club and walked to my hotel for some fun sex, and I paid him the agreed upon extra 100 at the end of the hour.  It was a great encounter... But he insisted on condoms.  I've now learned to ask if bareback is okay before committing to a hire.

Brazil!

I had an experience with a provider in Madrid (I won’t name names publicly as he tends to visit this forum but happy to DM to whoever is thinking on visiting Madrid) that was a huge turnoff. The guy is gorgeous but he was so much into himself. He kept saying “don’t you think I’m good-looking”, “don’t you think I’m hot”, “ain’t I one of the hottest guys you have ever been with”, “ain’t you lucky to be in the presence of this body”, “did you ever think you’d be with a guy like me”, “guys like you cannot get guys like me so enjoy this body”. He kept looking at himself in the mirror and saying “fuck I look hot” “fuck if I could I would fuck myself” “don’t you wish you could have a body like mine”. Dude that was the biggest turn off. I know it’s transactional but still you want the fantasy too… after a while I couldn’t get it up with all the comments. Total mood killer. 

I had one of those as well.  "The $300 is for my time....." Then proceeded to list the price for every activity.  I told him I'd give him $150 to leave.  He took it and was gone.

Very friendly guy but more escort than masseur. Loves to suck and swallow.  

Yes I got out of there for free. And I can understand your question because one would think he would charge $30 just because I rang his doorbell. He did not raise an objection and he did not get mad I told him he needed to be forthcoming. Although that is not the cumong that I had hoped.

“Before booking, I require a photo of you.”
Enough said.
Pass.
Hopefully, you were smart enough not to pay upfront…..you were smart enough, weren’t you?
 

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2 weeks ago I knew I would be in Miami so I started doing my research on the providers and I came across this guy. I'm in Miami every few months and I have never seen this guy advertised it before. I looked here and there were no threads. His profile says he joined late 2024 but he only has to reviews. He looks hot as hell and I love muscled men so I hired him. He said that would be $250 and if you know about Miami that is not a high price. That was my first clue this might not be a legitimate booking in terms of being  up front and fair. I asked him what the 250 includes and he says whatever I want it to. So I showed up at his location which is just a couple of blocks from the beach and he is absolutely stunning. His English is perfect although he is not originally from America. He has also worked at Stock Bar in Montreal.  It turned out he led me  to his bedroom holding my hand and asked me if I liked what I saw. I wasn't sure at first if he meant  I liked his very stylistic decor or his ass made out of squats. Then I got hot and bothered. As in pissed off. The 250 was only for him to make the booking. It would be 100 more to interact on any level and another 50 to give oral and another 50 to kiss if my mouth was good on his cock.  And then we got to the ass and its personal cost. I knew immediately I was going to leave so I said, "I'm not good at math. Let me come back after I take a course in finance and can add all these figures and then take out a loan." I left and went back to the hotel and pleasured myself. But I could not stop thinking about his lamps.

I was in Montreal and saw a provider online with a few good reviews so I reached out. We were suppose to meet at his place but when I got there he wasn’t there. He kept telling me he was on his way to wait for him. After 30 minutes he finally showed up, he kinda acted a bit odd.  I should’ve trusted my instincts and left but I wasn’t thinking with the right head. We got in the elevator and he whipped out his dick, asked for the money. Stupid me gave it to him and we walked to an apartment he started pounding on the door asking to be let in. He went in first, I heard yelling so I just ran off out of there. Pretty sure he just wanted to run off with the money. I tired to leave a bad review to warn others but rentmen told me since I didn’t message him on there site I can’t leave a negative review 😏. 

My perusal of the RM Montreal site lately shows very little of interest apart from the few I have already hired. Not much new talent. 

JAN 06th FURTHER UPDATE: This same Montreal RM FAKE "Banouc" poster previously cursed me out and commented he had "other RM profiles" > I've figured out yet another of his FAKE ones currently on Montreal RM called "MANHALPHA" > Exact same personal stats as Fake "Banouc"/ 6'2", 195Ibs, 29y/o...same services and profile raunchy service description. In this profile, his first stolen pic was clearly 36y/o Nigerian music producer "Sarz" / 456K followers, but he quickly removed that one after I called him out online and provided the exact photo link from the REAL "Starz's" IG account! Two of "ManHalpha's  remaining 3 profile pics do not at all match the taller, older bearded gym workout guy who also looks exactly like "Sarz" over in Nigeria, but I don't have the time to try and find it on Starz's massive IG account pages!:( BEWARE "MANHALPHA" > F-A-K-E!!:(     
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