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So he's coming back soon - He got in touch with me the other day and gave me permission to post. He's planning on coming back to Adonis in LA in April or May and start seeing clients again soon. He just had to take a break from the biz. You guys better start waiting in line.

I’m sure he avoided this post when he saw how hot a fucking mess it turned into like everything else on here.

So he's coming back soon - He got in touch with me the other day and gave me permission to post. He's planning on coming back to Adonis in LA in April or May and start seeing clients again soon. He just had to take a break from the biz. You guys better start waiting in line.

So he's coming back soon - He got in touch with me the other day and gave me permission to post. He's planning on coming back to Adonis in LA in April or May and start seeing clients again soon. He just had to take a break from the biz. You guys better start waiting in line.

https://rent.men/TristanGaul
 
After a long hiatus from advertising, he's back in the DC area. One of the best bottoms with an awesome body to boot.

It went OK. He is a VERY nice guy and has a body that would stop traffic. He was a great kisser and he bottomed for me. But to be honest I don’t think I would hire him again. He was not very aggressive and I had to initiate most of the action. I expected more for $350 an hour. Not my normal experience when hiring a porn star.

Why did you hire him if you're not attracted to his body type? Makes no sense.

Why did you hire him if you're not attracted to his body type? Makes no sense.

Why did you hire him if you're not attracted to his body type? Makes no sense.

https://rentmasseur.com/MasseurIan
 
Ian is strictly therapeutic (although he does the massage naked and he is extremely handsome with an amazing body) not MT, not HE. But he is trained and does a great job.

I do, but thanks. Admittedly sometimes, I over explain unnecessarily.
 
However, that last comment wasn’t directed at you per se. It’s for the people who didn’t know he never left. I have had a few inquiries.
 
There I go again.

Sure, there's certainly no ego or entitlement in those comments. What about showing empathy for the escort who just doesn't want to engage further with a client who doesn't even know he can book a time?
 
You made this post asking for people's opinions. I'm certainly being direct on our disagreement, but it's pretty obvious you been made up your mind about how you went about this situation, so why bother making this post in the first place?

Over. Dramatic.
 
You're entitled to hire how you want to hire, but keeping your ego in check will help you have a better time in hiring escorts. The escort said something you didn't want to hear, but he did it in a very respectful manner. There's really not an issue with his tone. There really isn't. And in your original post you stated that you are a paying client. You're not. So let's keep the perspective in check.
 
The escort's time is just as valuable as yours. Why entertain a potential client who just said he doesn't even know if he has the time to set up an appointment? How about you see if you even have the time first and then ask him your questions?
 
I guarantee if you figured out your schedule first and THEN asked "Hey, I have free time on Tuesday at 8PM and I'd like to see you for an hour. Can I ask you a few questions about what to expect during our appointment?" you would have gotten what you wanted.

"Please limit messaging me until you are 100% sure you can meet. Otherwise we'll end up chatting a lot and never meeting. I hope you understand ;-)"
 
I really don't see how this message is offending a lot of you guys, but ok. You guys are making it seem the text is the equivalent of "fuck you, don't waste my time with your texts". It really isn't.

I have 2 escorts that I'm a regular with - one of them I've been seeing for 3 years now and I do one overnight a week. The other one I see for a multi-hour appointment once or twice a month. It guarantees that our time is well spent and I know what I'm getting into. The weird thing is that these guys are have girlfriends,etc which is can be a huge negative for many, but for me it keeps my brain and feelings in check with these 2 so I'm able to keep viewing these relationships as FWB then catching feelings.
 
I hire new guys if I'm traveling but it does get a little tiring having to do the research on here and the initial nervousness of seeing a new guy.

@KeepItReal I had a bad situation with a regular who became extremely entitled. We started off great and then he would ask for money in advance to help pay for bills, etc as he stopped advertising and would put it towards our future time and then unfortunately he took advantage of me and I got burned. It was a very expensive lesson learned for me - at the end of the day, we can enjoy each other's company all we want but it's still a business transaction.

@KeepItReal I had a bad situation with a regular who became extremely entitled. We started off great and then he would ask for money in advance to help pay for bills, etc as he stopped advertising and would put it towards our future time and then unfortunately he took advantage of me and I got burned. It was a very expensive lesson learned for me - at the end of the day, we can enjoy each other's company all we want but it's still a business transaction.

Sure, there's certainly no ego or entitlement in those comments. What about showing empathy for the escort who just doesn't want to engage further with a client who doesn't even know he can book a time?
 
You made this post asking for people's opinions. I'm certainly being direct on our disagreement, but it's pretty obvious you been made up your mind about how you went about this situation, so why bother making this post in the first place?

Over. Dramatic.
 
You're entitled to hire how you want to hire, but keeping your ego in check will help you have a better time in hiring escorts. The escort said something you didn't want to hear, but he did it in a very respectful manner. There's really not an issue with his tone. There really isn't. And in your original post you stated that you are a paying client. You're not. So let's keep the perspective in check.
 
The escort's time is just as valuable as yours. Why entertain a potential client who just said he doesn't even know if he has the time to set up an appointment? How about you see if you even have the time first and then ask him your questions?
 
I guarantee if you figured out your schedule first and THEN asked "Hey, I have free time on Tuesday at 8PM and I'd like to see you for an hour. Can I ask you a few questions about what to expect during our appointment?" you would have gotten what you wanted.

"Please limit messaging me until you are 100% sure you can meet. Otherwise we'll end up chatting a lot and never meeting. I hope you understand ;-)"
 
I really don't see how this message is offending a lot of you guys, but ok. You guys are making it seem the text is the equivalent of "fuck you, don't waste my time with your texts". It really isn't.

well the thing is - you're not a confirmed client. And you're not a paying client yet. The tone of the escort's message was actually very polite while being firm about his rules.
 
I'd say confirm the appointment if you are able to/want to and then ask him the questions. If he refuses to answer your questions after you confirm, then yeah that's off putting and I would take caution in seeing him. If he answers your questions, then I don't see anything wrong with what he's doing.

I agree with you up to a point. I think that the escort could have just said "I apologize for not replying back to your texts, but I've been having trouble with a high number of strange communications the past few days and I am currently not using texting. Would you like to set up a meet? I can communicate via email" to get the point across without going into venting. Venting about other clients or issues with booking other clients is a big faux pas if the escort is actually talking to a serious client. Most clients don't want to hear about other clients.
 
But I can appreciate the honesty. And his venting was in a respectful manner. I think in this situation it's just poor communication skills on both the client and escort lol.

Over. Dramatic.
 
You're entitled to hire how you want to hire, but keeping your ego in check will help you have a better time in hiring escorts. The escort said something you didn't want to hear, but he did it in a very respectful manner. There's really not an issue with his tone. There really isn't. And in your original post you stated that you are a paying client. You're not. So let's keep the perspective in check.
 
The escort's time is just as valuable as yours. Why entertain a potential client who just said he doesn't even know if he has the time to set up an appointment? How about you see if you even have the time first and then ask him your questions?
 
I guarantee if you figured out your schedule first and THEN asked "Hey, I have free time on Tuesday at 8PM and I'd like to see you for an hour. Can I ask you a few questions about what to expect during our appointment?" you would have gotten what you wanted.

"Please limit messaging me until you are 100% sure you can meet. Otherwise we'll end up chatting a lot and never meeting. I hope you understand ;-)"
 
I really don't see how this message is offending a lot of you guys, but ok. You guys are making it seem the text is the equivalent of "fuck you, don't waste my time with your texts". It really isn't.

You got a point, but I don't think learning about each other personally is a downside (unless the escort is a hot mess in his personal life or if the client starts developing romantic feelings) and like everything, it varies client to client. Escorting is about connections after all - a lot of just want the sexual connection but there's also the whole "boyfriend experience" that a lot of us hire for both sex and emotional connection with another person as well.
 
I think at some point in having a regular you're going to end up having to talk about your real life after a period of time, you can only shoot the shit and talk about mundane stuff for so long before it gets even more mechanical.