Will Do

I don't know why that stuff happens it's unfortunate but it happens sometimes. I'm still here if that tells you anything of the outcome ☺️

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Great body AND a smile. Who could ask for anything more?

Well said @Keith30309! I appreciate your insight and recommendations!
 
Kerry's not in my neck o' the woods though I wish he were!

Kerry's M4RN ad: http://www.men4rentnow.com/gay/escort/male/massage/los_angeles_/Kerryslate/310415
 
Great body AND a smile. Who could ask for anything more?

Kerry's M4RN ad: http://www.men4rentnow.com/gay/escort/male/massage/los_angeles_/Kerryslate/310415
 
Great body AND a smile. Who could ask for anything more?

Kerry - kudos for coming on the forum and offering a calm, reasoned explanation of your perspectives on the issues around no-show's! That takes character and demonstrates interest in maintaining your valuable reputation. I totally get your concerns about physical safety - that's the most important thing in this entire equation. You can't risk that for any amount of money and being particularly leery of anyone involved in drugs is wise. I could never walk up to a hotel room door and knock without knowing what's on the other side - I get it.
 
What I think I hear is that there are accurate reviews of you for no-shows (beyond the instance above with the family emergency) and that (sometimes) you cancel at the last minute if you get a (bad) gut feeling. You're absolutely within your rights to do whatever you feel is necessary. The problem is the image of you that creates... I was stood up by a fairly well-known guy in Houston not long ago who I tried to hire despite some discussion here about him being a flake. I added my no-show experience to the chorus of naysayers and I've seen little further questions from potential-clients about him. In this case it turned into a lose-lose for everybody.
 
In the interest of creating something constructive out of all this I wonder if you can't reduce your lose-lose experiences and have more 'wins'. There's several very sharp, experienced companions on the forum who have shared the steps they take to assure their safety, vet their prospective clients and hone their instincts for spotting when something just isn't right. There's a few threads in Ask an Escort about these things. I suspect you'd prefer to not feel the need to cancel and picking up some of these pros' tips might help that.
 
Best wishes and good luck.

Hey you never know role play can be fun lol.

Well I can understand your frustration. For that I am sorry. Out of the courtesy of a regular of mine sent me the link and let me know of your frustration. Is it true I didn't show and call or anything ? Unfortunatley it is. I am willing to admit my wrongs or no show.
You might hold it against me until the end of time but that's obviously entirely up to you.
I did see your email , honestly I forgot to reply. Should I have given you a reply yea absolutely so you have my apologies for that.
However there was an immediate death in my family and was a little preoccupied. If I were to be given a second chance I'm sure things would go according to plan.
Although the likelihood of you accepting my apology does not play out in my favor, that's ok.
 
I would however like to try and atleast reimburse you for the room that you spent money on. My gut tells me you probably wouldn't provide me with any opportunity to do so, thought I would make the effort though.
 
I'm just not that type of person. I am pretty personable with people and I would be angry if I was in your shoes as well.
In life shit happens mine just happend to be the day that we scheduled something. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it now. Just wanted to let you know what had happened. Sorry for the frustration.

First of all, I ditto azdr's sentiment. That goes a long way in my book. I will be forever grateful for the men and women who helped protect my freedom. That said..Personally I like Kerry Slate's response. No shows are a bitch, I get that, but we're all human. Not saying it's OK, just that shit happens sometimes. Should KS ever find himself in FTL on a winter break...I'd be all in.

thanks for the reply, @Kerryslate.....and thank you for your service to the country.....
 
I hope jbs and Kerry will contact each other and come to an agreement.....both are good people: jbs has been a longtime and sincere forum member....and Kerry has been a longtime loyal entertainer at the Adonis LA events, and saw active military combat before that.....

Something I would like to add not particularly related to the subject but anyhow.
I'm not here to take everything that comes my way. I've had great experiences and a lot of repeats. I also had some terrible encounters where people were just either messed up on drugs, they were asshole-ish or people whom have tried to over power me and tell me I wasn't going to leave until something happend. Which neither of the 3 that have tried over powering have been successful. And if someone is a dick, forget it I'll walk right back out the door.
 
Long story short I'm very cautious of how I go about things sometimes I'll get a gut feeling and cancel at the last minute. Being in my shoes I never really know what I'm walking into.
 
There's reviews out there on me for no shows or cancels or what have you. You can read everything you want to online, but you can't say for sure until it's been experienced.
 
I'm not a rushed type of guy when I say an "hour" basically means and hour n a half. I'm not about trying to get in an out as fast as possible. Forget that, I would like for that person to have a good experience has well. Plus I also like trying to establish some sort of something before anything might transpire

I've had a lot of experience with him lol.

+1. A smile is worth a hundred dicks.

You can make little insinuations during sex, subtle things like "let me suck that (NAME OF COLLEGE) graduate's big dick", "you look so much better naked than in your mug shots", "Yeah, kiss me like you kissed you boyfriend in those Facebook pictures", "harder, harder like if you were pumping your credit report", etc

"Your parole officer is really cute. Have the two of you ever done it?"

"Who's your daddy! Who's your daddy!"

Thanks, Greg!
 
Seems that we've gone though many days / many posts to end up at your statement that makes total sense!!
 
My gosh! Google, Facebook, LinkedIn and all the others.
 
I dare say there's not anyone out there who doesn't (try to) look up info on someone - an escort, a business link, a Craigslist responder. If it leads to all their friends it's that much more fun!
 
If you don't want it seen. Don't put it out there!

A Dutchmuch investigation reveals:
 
Alex is the guy pictured, however he is a person who is both deaf and unable to speak. His only form of communication is texting, English and Spanish.
Be patient with him.

If anyone is bored enough to Google my phone number and or name have fun. I live a pretty boring life. Unless you count dancing around with my cat to Madonna exciting.
 
Hugs,
Greg

I agree. Just the kind of guy I like. Good-looking (but not too), a cock that is not too big, and a nice bubble butt. I am a man with simple tastes.

Several years ago I was glad that I learned the real facts - name / real address / etc - concerning an advertising escort.
 
It helped my attorney issue the correct legal papers when the escort attempted to blackmail / extort me.

Several years ago I was glad that I learned the real facts - name / real address / etc - concerning an advertising escort.
 
It helped my attorney issue the correct legal papers when the escort attempted to blackmail / extort me.

Saw Paramour and American Psycho the past weekend.
 
Paramour was great - high-wire and acrobatics! Much talent there!
 
I have to say, though, American Psycho really cranked my tractor! Sexy, amazing, edgy, excellent. Not for everyone, though.
 
My weekend friend and I both preferred the smaller stage of American Psycho! Benjamin Walker is so scary and good!

Damn...you guys are pushing ALL my buttons today!
 
I think it's hot as fuck to put my fingers in another guy's mouth.
 
The best part is you can communicate a thousand different messages depending on how you do it.
 
Tender reassurance.
Degrading inspection.
Playful teasing.
Dominating control.
Inquisitive probing,
 
All with the simple act of putting your fingers in his mouth....
 
Like most sexual play, the key is knowing which one your man needs...and when.

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