I agree. I have seen Blessings a few times and hope to do so again soon. I think his massage rate is actually pretty reasonable for NYC and as in any situation where it goes beyond the standard sensual massage, a nice tip would be warranted. As @Redwine56 says that is preferable to the experience where there is a mid-session upsell. Blessings is a wonderful, caring, and respectful guy with an amazing body. He is definitely someone I would recommend.