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No personal information, but he has changed his ad name a couple times. I believe when he first started he went by Klambert. That's all I got.

If you masturbate a lot, skip a few days. ...do it less frequently overall. That can help. When you do masturbate change the way you do it. Lastly, as @Funguy suggested try a moisturizer... coconut oil or a product like Man1 man oil (https://www.man1health.com/)

He used to escort off and on in the past in NYC. I attempted to contact him when I found out, but he had vanished from the scene by then. He was one of my faves. I may have to try him out next time I’m up there.

One word... ORGY!!! That solves that choices and time dilemma.

I'm pretty certain he is the ex of Ash Cole (who was discussed here... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/ash-cole.138809/). They had an onlyfans page at one point. I'm sure there a preview clips floating around. Pic 2 in CP's ad looks to be from one of their scenes.

I don't know how he is as a masseur, but he is a great vocal bottom.

I don't think so. In the past, via twitter, he has said derogatory statements about escorting/sex work. If he does escort, he's uber dl about it.

It has never happened to me, there aren't too many who would dare attempt to do something to me physically without my permission. Anyway, I don't think it's powerless per se, but there are people who are so timid and unassuming that something this could happen with ease. The person may be too afraid or scared or actually taken over by the sensations that against their better judgment, they allow it to happen. For example, the OP gave in to the sensation instead of just stopping what was happening. As you said anything is possible.

First... don't be down on yourself if you can't make someone cum from oral. Some people aren't wired that way. Only 3 men I've ever encountered have made me orgasm orally. Although I like the feeling, most times it's not enough. As mentioned above everyone is different. Talk to your fav provider or providers. Ask them directly about your skills and what they think you are doing right or wrong. When you are performing oral pay attention to the guy and his body (i.e. does he quiver a little or makes sounds when you do a certain thing). You could practice and work out the issue together... it would be a sexy teaching experience for sure. You could even role play a teacher-student scenario.

He only tops now. You missed out. Don't worry, I feel your pain though. I missed out when Tristan Baldwin used to bottom. He has such an amazing ass. Although I have not met these gentlemen, I've heard good things about: https://rent.men/MaxStevens https://rent.men/MikeyHawk

He does escort and he was in New York earlier this month escorting. He probably came to film for Lucas and had an RM ad up.

...most of them at one time or another. Is there one you are interested in that someone can tell you if he is or isn't currently?

He escorts currently. His ad pops up in LA and NY (more frequently in NY). I think he's home or traveling abroad, but I think he said he's going to visit Canada soon and be back in the US in October.

It looks like the porn actor Rusty Stevens has returned to escorting. He escorted years ago and did a fair amount of porn. He professed to be straight (gay for pay) back then. I always thought he was sexy, but he stopped escorting before I got up the nerve to hire. When he was escorting in the past, I heard some negative things about him, including he was a bit full of himself. Given the content of his current ad, I wouldn't feel compelled to hire him now. Although I must admit, his body is more impressive than his porn days, but his face is a bit worn for a supposed 32-year-old IMHO. To be fair, he has good reviews... http://www.daddysreviews.com/reviewURL/R/rusty_stevens_la That's all I got.

I like all my friends... love most of them. Only one is a complete asshole at times, but we are rarely in each other’s company enough for the assholelery to be a problem. I tolerate it until he goes to far and I call him on it. If a friend who was in a good place with you all of sudden becomes a pain, then there is an underlying issue. Maybe he’s jealous of something... I don’t know. However, if the relationship is important to you than I would try to figure out why the attitude change and try to make it better. It may be the case, the friend has just become a bitter person over the years. To which you personally can’t do anything about.

He just became a member of the forum recently. And I believe he has done some porn. That’s all I got. @AndreNYC

What @latbear4blk and @Epigonos said. Just like muscle worship, bfe can mean different things for different people. Both may or may not involve actual sex. I have never asked any provider for a bfe. Some have on their own volition have done things, like hug me and kiss me in public or grab on to my arm as we walked somewhere. Most have been extremely affectionate before and after intercourse. But then again I've been told I'm like a big cuddly teddy bear... which would explain a lot of the affection. LOL! Anyway, a lot depends on how the provider feels about the client and how comfortable he is with the client when it comes to bfe.

There are too many pornstars to name. LOL! This is a hard one for me. Although I'm generally attracted to a range of fit to muscled guys, I'm not limited to it. For example, I'm not really into twinks, but occasionally someone who may be considered as one catches my eye. So from twinkish/twunk to muscled, more than a few examples are but not limited to (some I've met/some I haven't): Twink/Twunk: Brian Strowkes Fit: Beaux Banks/AJ Irons/Phoenix Fellington Athletic: D.O./Austin Wilde/Vander (Chaosmen) Muscled: Sean Zevran/Tristan Baldwin Beefy/Stocky: Atlas Grant Leaner Bodybuilder type build: Sean Costin/Apollo Phoenix Heavier bodybuilder type build: Vin Marco/Aden Taylor/Zeb Atlas Ultimately, though I may be attracted to toned to muscled types... personality and how I'm treated wins out. So even if their bodies change drastically (go from fit to chubby) I still see them if they treat me well.

I know the difference. You’re making a big assumption I don’t... not knowing my history or who I’ve met in person. You did not give an example of whom or what you find attractive/handsome. I politely disagreed with your implied statement about looks and dick size. I did not attempt to insult you. As @julius states Bruce may not be your cup of tea. That’s fine. He’s someone else’s. Having also met the man, I can tell you that pic hasn’t been doctored much in regard to his face. But as I stated, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... but I beg to differ with your last statement, strongly! http://www.welovenudes.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/Titanmen_BruceBeckham.jpg http://www.welovenudes.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Pheonix_Fellington-nextdoor-black-xxx.jpg

Because if it’s a special occasion I would think most want someone they know will make it special and not ruin it. Sure we all lust after some prize guy, but lusting and/or fantasy isn’t the same as actuality. That guy you never met and lusted after may be a total egomaniacal douche. And even if he isn’t... chemistry is everything. He may be sweet but a dud in every other regard. I’m don’t want to be sad or pissed off or disappointed or whatever because of some random on any day, even more so on a special occasion like a birthday. If I’m going to hire someone for a special occasion, I want it to be with someone I know I like. Someone I have fun with time and time again. Someone who even though it may be transactional, that’s the last thing thought about or in some cases not thought about at all. I can hire some hot new guy any day. Special occasions are for special people imho.

No. It just means he’s probably ok fisting someone (not himself being fisted). I know plenty of working guys have fisting on their ads (and other things) they don’t allow on themselves but are willing to on a client.

Although I never really hired specifically for a special occasion... if it were to happen, it would need to be with someone whose company I enjoyed immensely, someone who enjoys the things I do, and that there is chemistry (not necessarily just sexual) wherever we go or do. I’m not going to name names, but I bonded very well with a number of regulars. So much so that we often talk, go places, and do things nonsexual. Those are the ones I’d gladly hire on any occasion without hesitation. On a quick tangent, one very popular guy on this forum... for the last few years has rearranged his schedule to be sure to be in my area on or near my birthday. I guess that’s special enough occasion. Lol! I don’t think we have ever actually had sex on my birthday.

Honestly, I really don't care what someone classifies as, as long as we both enjoy the time. However, if I break it down as to how many of my regulars are gay, straight, or bi... most of them classify as bi. They have never told me anything else but they were bi. I also have the strongest bond/friendships with the bi guys with maybe 3 or 4 exceptions (3 stating they're gay and one straight). Each one of my regulars, save one, state their preference in their ad (when they had an ad). They all... gay, straight, or bi have been phenomenal and we always have an amazing time. On a tangent, in our many discussions, most of the bi guys have said as they've gotten older, they have become more attracted to men.