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As has been mention... he claims to be bisexual. He is currently dating a woman. He has never been in a relationship with a guy (and probably won't ever). And he said he doesn't nor will he ever escort. All this info I gleaned on his Twitter feed some time ago.

If you're paying for their time... it's expected during that time they stay exclusive to you. The only time other sexual partners should come into play is if you and the working guy have discussed it and agreed upon it.

All but one of my regulars, I have had at least an overnight with. That will change in October... FINALLY!!! I have only done weekends with about 6 guys. Four of the 6, were 3 days or longer. All my overnights have been pretty good to great. The extended excursions were amazing. I think that the amazing experiences with the extended excursions had a lot to do with how well myself and the working guy got along beforehand. I have never asked for exclusivity on extended hires. I think it's expected. I'm pretty relaxed/understandable about things. If a guy needs alone time to work out, speak on the phone, or whatever... I have no problem with it. Things happen. Sometimes the "outside" world needs attention. However, as has been mentioned, discuss whatever specifics you feel you need to discuss when setting up the excursion. Try not to assume anything, unless you know the guy very well. Negotiating a price is very much dependent on the working guy and your relationship with the said working guy. In my experiences, some guys (I have known for some time) have not offered any type of discount for extended excursions. On the other hand, some have knocked off almost half their overnight fee per day. Usually though, whether they offer a discounted rate or not, each guy has either offered to pay for meals or treated me to something. This, of course, is not the norm. Don't expect some type of discount or perk with someone you never met. If it happens... great. If it doesn't don't be disappointed. The time together is really open to whatever. If there are specific things you want or need to happen, again discuss it beforehand. Some things that may be exciting in your mind may not be as fun when executed. What you may enjoy doing may not be pleasurable for your partner at all. This is where getting to know your provider (through previous meetings) before extended time together can be very beneficial. Only one guy I was with for a weekend wanted to stay in all weekend and just have a lot of sex. He told me that if we stayed in for the entire weekend, he would have been just as happy. We did go out a little... to the movies, a little bit of hiking, and of course to eat. Some guys will happily oblige almost every whim and some will not. Again, just ask them what they are comfortable with.

Not an escort... The most I've time been with a hired guy was about 5 and a half days. I would say about 90-95% of the time we spent together (his choice--I gave him the option for alone time and he refused). We get along exceptionally well and so not once did we get on each others' nerves, surprisingly. The only time we were apart was when he went to work out. The most time I've been with a working guy, but without hiring was four days. To be fair, it was just a strictly plutonic situation.

No personal knowledge but he’s been webcamming for years under the same moniker. I think he did at least one porn scene for Lucas Entertainment.

In honor of the recent start of season 7 of the Venture Bros cartoon... enjoy a sampling of the brilliant and oft times filthy madness. @Rod Hagen knows what I'm talking about. (kinda NSFW) LOL!

I don't have an exact number for any of my regulars. In another post, I did state the ones I've seen the most. Of the ones I still see, AJ Irons is probably the guy I've seen the most overall. I think at one point when he would come to town I would see him twice (each on separate days). Now, unless my schedule permits it, we tend to do an overnight or a couple hours when our schedules sync.

It could be lighting or a trick of the camera. There is a lot of blue in that picture it's possible the right angle and lighting make his eyes reflect blue from the water/pool. I'm not saying it is or isn't the same guy, but you can't always trust certain aspects of photos. A lot of factors can alter the true image, not just the program photoshop.

I didn't write about the "vapors". That was another poster. I was just commenting on how just because a guy will let you rim them, and rim them deeply... doesn't mean they want a dick up their ass. Hell, there are guys who don't want to be rimmed but will take dick like a champ. LOL! On another tangent... I have never met Zeb. I mean I know he is good friends with Vin Marco. (I know Vin very well.) If I wanted to I could probably meet him through Vin, since he no longer advertises. However, I have a weird thing about escort friends and partners. For some reason, if I know an escort is coupled with another escort, I won't ever pursue the partner of the one I see. The same goes for really close friendships between two escorts. If I saw one (especially if I saw them regularly), I wouldn't see the other. I'm not sure why. It's why I never met Sean Xavier or Alec Andrews' boyfriend/husband, and countless others. I never endeavored to meet Zeb because I know how close he and Vin are. If I didn't know they were good friends, I might have gone after him. Maybe I have a weird subconscious thing about cheating or affairs, not that this is the same situation. Anyway, I used to visit Vegas regularly (haven't been in years)... if I were there I'd definitely inquire as to how far Jack/Ottaviani would be willing to go.

I met Ricky J a number of years ago. He was awesome then... really into the session. I haven’t repeated because our schedules never seemed to sync and he mainly did only outcalls. I would see him again definitely if we could work out schedules and he could do an incall. He is one of only two guys that I have ever been able to orgasm with at the same time.

Jack/Ottaviani works or worked for the porn site Sean Cody. He also is or was stripping for Chippendale’s. He hasn’t followed the same type of career path and built a mystique about himself as Zeb did. I don’t think Jack has the same focus. On a tangent... Not to say he wouldn’t be willing to bottom for the right price, but to assume Jack will just because he’s done it a relatively few amount of times in porn is not a good assumption. Asking him directly might get the answer anyone might want to know. And just because Zeb would let someone rim him to the cows come home doesn’t mean he would bottom for any price. I have never read anywhere in any review about Zeb giving up his hole other than for someone’s tongue.

I have a fair amount of regulars that I don’t really look for new guys. However, the few 20 somethings I’ve contacted in the last few months (give or take) have been awesome communicators. Maybe it’s just my luck of the draw, but I haven’t encountered what seems to be becoming the norm... at least not yet.

ATM = Ass to Mouth

He’s not bad looking at all, but $500. I’m going to take a pass on that. For me the issue isn’t money. The most I paid for a guy for a single hour was Damien Crosse. Not only is he one of my porn star crushes, but he was a great lay imho. If I’m going to hire somebody for that amount, that person has to be a rare find, exceptional, or someone I’m dying to meet.

Thomas (one of my faves) has not been on Active Duty in years. If he escorted he wasn't around very long. Out of the new guard (after Active Duty was sold), I only know about a few who've escorted: Jason Richards, Rix (aka Sean Cody's Ollie), Guy Houston, Brad Banks, and Brian (aka Brian Strowkes). Out of the old guard, only Mason Wyler I know for sure escorted. Rix (Ollie) and Brian are the only ones who seem to have an active RM ad.

Could he have meant love in a plutonic sense? I guess it depends on what was said exactly, but I get a lot of, “I love you dude,” kind of responses from my regular providers. Except for the one I mentioned earlier in this thread, I’m certain the exclamation of love is from a standpoint of friendship/plutonic love or affection. I definitely would have followed through and asked what he meant. I just am the type to like to know that kind of thing decisively.

No, it is not. The picture is of a webcam model who use to be on musclehunks site (and other sites) who went by the name Tonyy. He hasn’t cammed in years as far as I know. As long as I’ve known him, Tristan never showed his face on any escorts sites. He may have in the past before we met.

Not an escort... However, one escort I see flat out told me I no longer had to pay to see him. I sometimes will give him money for parking or tolls when he drives to see me, but that’s about it. We don’t live near each other, but I suspect if we did we probably be more than fuck buddies. We’ve talked about it extensively. We are both receptive to a further connection. The talk happened so there isn’t any weirdness about the possibility of being more than what we currently are, relationship wise. I think he’ll always remain a friend, but if something more were to happen, I’d go for it without hesitation. No other working guy has offered to be just fuckbuddies. However, I formed extremely close relationships with some. There is often deep discounts for time spent together. Not to mention, invitations to just hang out and visit (non-sexually). Chris Eisenhower lived relatively close to me. I helped him move a number of times. I offered and he was happy for the help. So if the guy you’re seeing wants to be a fuckbuddy, offering to help him settle in isn’t crossing a boundary imho. I say go for it. Enjoy the experience. Just make sure you know each other’s boundaries in terms of where the fuckbuddy situation is going.

Hold your horses... I was asking a question. I read more than once (or took it as such) were you praised Tristan. Which you yourself kind of implied in this very topic post. I found it confusing if you never met and don’t know if you two are as yet compatible. So again I asked. You answered. End of story. The rest of your response (or maybe all of it) I guess is toward Marylander’s apparent slight using my post against you. I won’t comment any further on this topic, unless a direct question is asked about TG.

Thanks for clarifying. And see, I’m sure Brad had a good reason. Sometimes all you need is a little patience.

As @latbear4blk implies, there are a lot of sexy men in DC who are mainstays. The OP has a fixation on a particular trait (eye color) or traits that limit his options severely. ...as is his desire too. I can't speak on Bradley (never met the guy), but Tristan has never been MIA (at least not with me) except when he was on vacation out of the country. If Bradley isn't responding maybe there is a reason good or bad he isn't. If you keep sending a text or email with no responses... maybe it's time to move on. On a slight tangent... I do find it funny that the OP praises Tristan regularly (who is indeed an amazing guy in many respects) as if they met. Yet, I don't think they ever have. Is that a correct assumption?

I wouldn't say Tristan has gone MIA. He is still recovering. The type of injury he has will take at least 4-6 months to heal (after the surgery). He is a friend. So much so that he and I just came back from a trip. I think he is about to leave the area for a month (in August) and then he'll be back in town. I don't know to what extent he's seeing clients, but he may be focusing on regulars until he's fully recovered. I haven't really asked though. That's speculation on my part. However, as one might expect his priorities are a bit different because of the injury.

I was a member of the site that got shut down some time ago. I still have a lot of the vids on my computer. Of all the similarly styled sites straightboyz was my favorite.

I know I repeated a few times various ex-cody and ex-fisher guys I've met. Do a search and if you list the ones you find on the forum, I'll add ones I know about you may have missed.

...I'm blocking the same number. It was two but since one of them was permanently banned from the site... I only have 1.