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He passed away from colon cancer at age 43. That's so sad. Wakanda Forever. Can 2020 get any suckier? https://apnews.com/5f4352111fdead278da3651b44d311b8

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All the reviews say the guy in the pics is not the guy who will show up at the door. Why chance it? When you know what you see is not what you’ll get. I mean one reviewer wrote, “he is not the guy on the pic, not even close...”

You seem to make the assumption that people using pics in their avatar are actually them just because you decided to use your real pic. Just because you do it, don’t think others will. There is also people on the web who claim they are the people in the picture and are not. There is no way to verify unless you meet them. This has been a particular issue discussed multiple times on the forum about hiring providers. Some use pics or illustrations because they just like the pic and it may or may not be representational of themselves. I’m assuming a lot of people won’t use face pics of themselves because they want to maintain anonymity... either out of fear of being discovered by friends, family, or a colleague. Others just because they just don’t want to. I do realize some forum members use their actual body parts (other than their face) and a lot of the escorts, who use this forum as more than a way to express themselves, show their faces or at least their bodies. Besides this forum, I’m not on social media. There aren’t many pics of me online that I know of. As much as I like posting here, if I were to put my pic out on the web purposely, the forum would be the last place I’d post it.

...or take a chance and hire him. If he was in my area I would for sure.

That is possible for sure. I am not 100% that he is with pjb. However, the pjb handler(s) are notorious for responding as if they are indeed the escort. The only way people tend to find out for sure is when they meet the escort and he does nothing or remembers nothing they talked about on the phone. Keep us updated.

I think overnights or extended meetings are very dependent on chemistry, communication, and how much each person can handle or not handle particular situations. I don’t need a lot of sleep to function normally, but most people do. So I know there is a limitation there with most providers. I think there are only 2 guys who were willing to forego their regular sleeping time for sex. One I met, the other I didn’t. The one I met was relatively early on in my hiring career so I wasn’t sure what to expect, but he said flat out he was perfectly willing to stay in the hotel all weekend and have as much sex as I wanted. We did have a lot of sex but we did other things outside the bedroom. We live on the opposite ends of the country and he hates flying and the pandemic worsened the matter. So one day I plan to take him up on that offer of a sex marathon. I don’t know if I could keep up with him as I did when first meet, but I’m going to definitely try. Lol! The other man I didn’t meet, but as we talked about expectations, literally told me he wouldn’t let me sleep. That he’d play with my dick all night. I don’t know if that was all hyperbole, but I was game. There were scheduling issues. So the meeting never took place. He isn’t currently advertising but we’ve been in touch and he still wants to meet. If there is a lot of deep passionate kissing and my partner is responsive to whatever I do to him, I can go at it back to back. I have a quick recovery time and sometimes I will even stay aroused after orgasm. Although my stamina isn’t what used to be. I need a break sometimes. ? The guy I see the most needs at least 6 hours of sleep 8 preferably. He’ll sometimes sleep less if the mood takes him. However, he says he can’t take my dick but x number of times, as I leave him sore. The most we’ve had sex was 4 times during an overnight. We average 3 times... when we first meet, sometime after dinner or whatever (we’re doing outside of sex) before bed and once in the morning. Morning sex is his favorite and he loves that I wake him up with a dick in his butt. Lol! Overnights are not not always about sleeping with the provider, depending on the provider. For some having access to a sex partner for 12 hours or more is what they want. Yet for some others, just having someone to (temporarily) cuddle up next to while you sleep plays a big role in the whole event.

If he is rep'd by them, they'll get to you usually, but they aren't always the quickest with responses.

I can't say for certain but i think this guy is represented by planetjockboys. Some of the pictures particularly #9 is shot in the same look and fashion a lot of their models are shot. On top of that every pjb I've run across has a similar list of into's and the ad copy rings kind of similar in it's writing style. If he is indeed part of the pjb stable, you will probably be contacting a handler and not the actual guy. Again I could be wrong that he is part of pjb.

That’s a huge leap in assuming it’s drugs. I don’t know the guy, but it could be any number of reasons. I have no clue if he was ever a complete top. Just that he started advertising initially as a top. I did say he switched his position to ask me. So clearly that meant he was versatile to some degree all along. There are plenty of people who switch their position preferences. They aren’t set in stone. With that said, besides assuming he’s a drug addict, maybe he was always versatile but only topped because he had a partner he saved his ass for and that’s no longer the case. Maybe he just got more comfortable with himself to bottom for strangers. Maybe he got turned out by someone who worked his ass good and he likes it now. I don’t know but to automatically assume he likes to bottom now because of drugs... without evidence, is a stretch imho.

Thanks. I couldn't remember the exact name for the life of me. lol!!!

Actually he's been around for a couple years at least. He changed his RM, but I can't recall what it was. I do think he had master or maybe British in his name before. I have no experience with him but I was watching his ad when he switched to ask me. Then he vanished, but now he appears to be back. When he first started out he listed as a top and then switched to ask me. Now he's a complete bottom, which makes me want him more.

He had an ad on planetromeo (under NYC) and mintboys for a while and took it down earlier this year. I think the FBP ad is new.

Well I just checked rm for NYC... If you put top as the only position you only get 3 pages of escorts, with the view set in grid view as opposed to list view. With versatile as the only listing you get 4 pages in grid view... With bottom it’s only one page... However, if you assume versatile means they are at least willing to attempt to botttom and you add the other catorgores (top/versatile, versatile, and versatile/bottom) you get 7 pages. So I think there are more willing bottoms in NYC than “strict” tops.

Including versatile and versatile/bottom in that search brings it to 5 pages. I know some people think otherwise but if someone puts versatile in part of their position they are willing to whatever degree to bottom. With that said I do realize some people won’t see a versatile guy because they want an absolute bottom guy.

I find plenty of bottoms on rm. What find is that the guys I stumble across who I want to fuck the most on the site are tops. ? I will say I have had some success with professed tops willing to bottom but that’s after cultivating relationship of trust. However, I don’t chase after the ones listed as tops anymore. If they list as top, I don’t inquire if they are willing to bottom. Now if they change there position listing I’d go for.

I'm going to do a quick run down of my first year hiring. LOL! My 1st escort experience was in late 2010, whose name i can't recall right now, was a guy he who visited my area and did some solo porn work. The first couple times we met were great. Although i should have seen warning signs it was going to go down hill. By the 4th time, when the cracked out episode happened (which i recounted on the forum before) i was done with him. My 2nd escort experience and also my first overnight was with a lean muscled guy named Coltt. Great guy... amazing kisser. Our sessions were mainly muscle worship but he was truly affectionate. He had did some solo porn work for the site muscleworhip.com. He actually made personalized dvds for me before we met. He's since retired, but we've remained friends. The 3rd guy I met and 2nd overnight was with @ajirons09 and like Coltt, he is a great guy, amazing kisser, and a lot of fun in and out of the bedroom. Although I don't see him as much (because our schedules don't sync as much), he became and continues to be an amazing friend. Even when I wasn't able to see him for a session, when I was in California, this guy would pick me up from various locals and drive me to San Diego without asking for anything in return. I loved those road trips were we would just joke and talk along the way. The 4th guy i began seeing was Michael Vincenzo. Sadly he was retired but he was one of the best. By mid 2011, I decided to go full steam and I really began seeing a lot of escorts regularly.

OMG yes, Max is so hot. He did a few porn scenes for other studios. Damn, I wish he escorted. What I wouldn't give to fuck that muscle ass lol!!! My second favorite from that sight was Carlos (Lindo). With his dude bro attitude, he'd be an incredible bottom. I almost met him when he escorted but we never could synch schedules.

Some people of the Jewish faith celebrate Christmas. I know a few and I also know practicing Muslims who celebrate Christmas. My closest Muslim friend celebrates Christmas because he just wanted his kids to experience it and to avoid his kids being ridiculed by other kids in school. I don't know why Kyle still celebrates it but maybe it's just ingrained in her mind growing up with Christmas. Or she just likes decorating. LOL!

Krave did escort, but not currently.

Just to be clear when say last January, do you mean of this year, not 2019. Are travel funds and vouchers the same? I'd make sure you check the expiration dates. I had a trip booked for mid-February. I of course had to cancel. I got the trip converted to travel funds. The expiration was initially for December 2020, but because of the worsening pandemic, that date was pushed to September of 2022.

‘Good luck. ?

Although, I agree, in general it’s odd for a provider you’ve seen before to just ghost and not respond without explanation. However, for Derek, it isn’t odd, it’s typical.

Actually it isn’t an odd thing. If you go back through all the Derek Atlas forum topic posts you’ll see him not showing up or ghosting at the last minute is something of a habit of his. To be fair, people who manage to see him say he’s great. However, even those he does see multiple times, a lot of those folks on the forum say he no showed without explanation on them too at some point.

I think he had a ad on rentmen before the pandemic called something with the word gymnast acrobat or dancer in it. Seeing as the rm ad is no longer active, the friendboy ad is obsolete. FB doesn’t seem to delete ads they copy from rentmen (ads they copy without alerting the escort) because they don’t check to see if the rm ad is still active. To be fair I do know they delete the ads of people who exclusively advertise on that site.