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Let me add some important details: Starting with a massage is a great idea but not in my case. For one I’m too ticklish to enjoy a massage. But more importantly, it’s the opposite of what I fantasize about. Sorry if these details are not allowed here. If they are, please delete. My fantasy is that I’m a complete submissive servicing an Alpha. I want to worship and please him by using my mouth all over his body, and then if I make him happy, he rewards me by fucking me any way likes. I would love to be the one massaging an Alpha, especially if I was able to worship his cock, balls, and asshole with my hands and mouth.  

Let me add some important details: Starting with a massage is a great idea but not in my case. For one I’m too ticklish to enjoy a massage. But more importantly, it’s the opposite of what I fantasize about. Sorry if these details are not allowed here. If they are, please delete. My fantasy is that I’m a complete submissive servicing an Alpha. I want to worship and please him by using my mouth all over his body, and then if I make him happy, he rewards me by fucking me any way likes. I would love to be the one massaging an Alpha, especially if I was able to worship his cock, balls, and asshole with my hands and mouth.  

This is a standard fantasy. You should be able to find a bunch of providers willing to engage in your fantasy. I would encourage you to read through their reviews and see if anyone here has seen them. That's partly for security, but also to ensure they have a record of delivering for their clients. I can send you some guys if you're interested.  

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Second this. Mike is a doll. Sadly (for us), he's in NYC while we're out of town. 

In my experience, $1200 for two hours is way above market. I don't recommend it...human nature being what it is, it may actually backfire. 

Agreed 💯 $300/hr is the max I would pay and even that’s on the higher end. I’ve paid less to have four great guys work me over for two plus hours.

1.2 for 2h is crazy!!! But 300 for 1h is not fair for expansive cities.
 

Great advice. This is exactly how I started and I couldn’t agree more 👍

ABSOLUTELY. 💯
If you're just at the gates of exploration, do yourself a favor and invest in some intimate CONVERSATION first.
Never jump into bed with someone who you've never met and expect things to go as planned. Nothing worse than PAYING for a bad connection.
Meet, chat, laugh, enjoy and THEN book a session of more physical pleasures once you've decided there was a passionate human being behind those sexy photos.
 

As a NYer, that is quite high for two hours. Most guys charge $350-$500 per hour and usually discount multiple hours. And unless you have a particular person in mind who does porn or has a huge OF, that's the range. Doing this hobby for about 7 years, I've never found paying more than that to be worth it. 

Not sure where you are but that’s way above normal for anywhere in the US. Many, if not most, have provided exactly what you are seeking. I would go with their standard rate. You might tip them, if you feel the need to offer more. You should have your pick of many. Good luck with your pursuit. 

$1200 for 2 hours seems very high but depends on where you are.  

I try to separate from the “right now” brigade, and revolve mostly around pre-booking visits. However, I have occasionally suggested RM to exchange “available now” to available today. Even if I’m 2 blocks away, it still takes time to communicate, screen and get ready to accommodate a paying suitors requests. And for me, that’s usually been anywhere from 4 to 48+ hours notice. 
My only thing with exchanging a few emails: I have heard some reach out to multiple providers at once. Which of the 10 guys you exchanged 10 emails back and forth, gets the carrot 🥕? That may be why some try to meet right away.
 
Also, not everybody wants to do the back and forth email exchanges. I think more RMs would be open to do so if there was a paid incentive (one that can be used to cover ad costs and platinum boosts, etc per email inquiry session: like $10/$20).
Regardless, you are doing the right thing by not rushing to “meet now”. But you may want to say initially that you want to consider reserving time in advance, with a reasonable suggestion of when. 

If it's your first time with a man...Why not get an erotic/sensual massage from someone with great reviews?  This will allow you to relax into the experience, feel what it's like to have a man's hands on your body (and maybe his body on your body)?  Go for a 90 minute session.  Work your way up to paid escorts!

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Just be upfront that this is your first hire and you would like to ask some qns. Clear communication is key. Never assume, always ask and clarifies where needed.

It is a nice idea to hire someone for an hour just to meet.  For me though, I would hire for an hour, talk for 30 minutes and if there is no connection, call it a day and if there was a connection, I would pin him up against a wall and ravage him for 30 minutes.  

Actually I think, if you can afford it, it is a great strategy to see if it is a good match. It is a bad analogy but kind of like a test drive. 

Agreed. If you’re planning to pursue this hobby, spending a little two do research can be a smart investment. 

I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not.