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It was, and I would pay to get massaged by the masseur too, but the client just hits all the right spots for me.
 
If you ever happen upon the clients name or more videos with him in it, let me know <3

The guy on the table is delicious, I would pay to massage him.

I kinda liked them at first, but became too repetitive and formulaic for me pretty fast.

I'd like nothing better than a sensual romp right now, but this virus has proven to be so unpredictable. It strikes young and old, and even healthy people have died. Just not worth it.

Math:
 
masseur interacts with 1-5 clients/day
grocery worker interacts/shares space with potentially hundreds/day
 
What you are correct in though is the mode of transmission and exposure is going to be significantly higher for the masseur with the intimacy and touching involved.
 
What is worse: being exposed to 100's with a lower mode of transmission, or being exposed to one to several persons with a higher mode of transmission? That's a tough call and who really knows if there will be a significant difference?
 
I will reiterate though that everyone should be trying to do their civil duty, so at the least in terms of viewpoints, we can get back to normal quicker.

To defend what you said, the anyone who interacts with another person or is out in public is at risk. In regards to grocery store worker vs masseur, a case can be made for each regarding relative sanitary practices and conditions, so its hard to say if one would be safer or riskier than the other. The point of anything during these times is limiting or decreasing exponential growth and exposure, which will be higher in public places such as an operating spa or crowded grocery store, where more people are exposed to each other at the same time or high frequency. Everyone could do there part though to limit transmission and exposure if possible period.
 
Math and science regarding exponential growth support the social distancing/crowd limiting/public space closures.
Morality and civil duty support voluntary self isolation.
 
Math and science doesn't change, and honestly, if we would have started closing/restricting public spaces when this first started in December/January, we wouldn't be this deep down the rabbit hole.

These are the times where it is a great opportunity to tell our masseurs about the unemployment they can collect in the stimulus package that was passed by the House today, and will be signed into law either today or tomorrow. One of my regulars reached out to me last night to book a session, and when I told him he can collect unemployment since self-employed are included in the new stimulus package, he pulled his ad offline and thanked me, since he had been unaware of this. So we need to let these guys know about this when they contact us for business. (They will get $2,400/month PLUS their regular unemployment benefits for 4 months in the new law....spread the word to them)

It has nothing to do with my lack of compassion for the plight of masseurs, who by the way -- at an average of about $160 an hour in NYC -- do pretty well for themselves generally as compared to the millions of people suddenly out of work who make far far less money. This is about the shared social health responsibility for all of us during this insane crisis. And anyone who isn't doing their part to keep this from getting horribly out of control is just being careless and selfish. Moreover, it's hard to argue with the fact that the physical intimacy and proximity of massage is on the high end of the risk spectrum and far from an essential service.

With respect there are options that result in less risk than massaging someone. Amazon is hiring as are some other emergency services such as grocery stores. These are at least safer options than massaging someone. So there are options.

He sounds like an asshole. Cancel and then out him so that I don't book him.

You cancel...and rethink your continuing interactions with that provider (denier).

?‍♂️While I am strongly against quickly or overly shaming...here are some facts.
 
Unless you have not been out in public at all, not even to the grocery store, bank, etc, for 2-3 weeks, you could very well have the virus. Are the odds of that being the case and spreading it less than if you were displaying infectious type symptoms? Probably.
Your masseur would also have to have been not out on public for 2-3 weeks, not even the grocery store or anywhere, to help ensure they would be most likely virus free. Your risks are your risks, however.
Just be aware of your constant potential to get sick, and or spread the virus to others. Certain conditions can lessen those odds, but unless you make your home a sanitized bubble and stay isolated inside, those odds will never be zero.

I’ve stopped seeing clients totally. I’m based in London. The city has been in almost total lockdown for the last few days. Surprisingly I’ve had a few enquires but I have told them that for the time being I’m not working and it’s for their health and mine. The more effective we can make the isolation effort the more lives are saved and the less strain on our NHS. I’ll survive the loss of income, I made provision for a business interruption (it’s only sensible in this line of business) but I understand not everyone is in such a position.

I never mention anything sexual before we meet. Several ask if it’s a sexual massage and I don’t say no. I just reply is a full body relaxing massage. This has worked in my favor... if i’m not into the guy that much I just give a massage with a basic Happy ending. That’s it. It has only happened once. Usually I find them attractive.
 
— I don’t get nude from the get go
— All of them kept their underwear at the beginning
— I start massaging their backs, arms, hands, head.
— then when is time to massage the glutes I remove their underwear. All of them cooperate. So far no one has said no.
— as I massage their glutes and inner thighs I casually brush their anus and balls and that’s a fail proof sign of what’s coming. They usually try to brush my dick with their hands.
— then I remove my shorts and stay in underwear. I position myself so they can acceses my dick
— then they openly grab my cock.
—- I do the same and massage the anus.
—- I lightly finger them
—- as the masseur you can tell how they open their legs and push up the ass, like offering it to you.
— there’s some sexual play.
— but then I resume the massage... legs... calves... feet.
—- i ask them to turn around ... continue the massage
—- by this time we are both nude.
—- sometimes I lay on top of them pressing them with my body. Several enjoy this. Feeling all my body on top of them.
—- sometimes is just he, sometimes oral, or 69, ror anal... it all depends.
 
But so far no one has refused my advances. I let it all unfold naturally and usually they are the ones that make the first move in an open way. I just go with the flow.
 
If someone wants to keep their underwear that’s would be ok with me too. I find giving massages enjoyable and relaxing. I would never pressure someone into more if they don’t give any clues. But I advertise in Grindr. So i really don’t think they want just therapeutic ? we all want a little bit more. ?

So it's been awhile since last massage, and I went back into my favorites at rent masseur to see who I might have put in there for future consideration and I found
https://rentmasseur.com/Fit_Daniel
He looks like a nice lad with the kind of body I like and the sound of his ad is good, but then I searched this forum and came up with one not very positive thread on him to my disappointment. The last post on him that I could find was dated July 2019 so I decided to just see if maybe there was more after that or if anyone else had had some experience with Dan better than that last July post I pasted below. Apologies if this is your post uncredited.
"I actually had many massages from Dan. I thought he did a good job with the basic massage, and he allowed extensive mutual touch; I often returned the massage. He's low-key but a nice person. I finally quit him, though, because because the massage never evolved. His massage is not erotic. Private parts--his and yours--are strictly off limits."
So....anyone have anything to add? I'm always open to PM's. Find them most informative. Thanks.

So it's been awhile since last massage, and I went back into my favorites at rent masseur to see who I might have put in there for future consideration and I found
https://rentmasseur.com/Fit_Daniel
He looks like a nice lad with the kind of body I like and the sound of his ad is good, but then I searched this forum and came up with one not very positive thread on him to my disappointment. The last post on him that I could find was dated July 2019 so I decided to just see if maybe there was more after that or if anyone else had had some experience with Dan better than that last July post I pasted below. Apologies if this is your post uncredited.
"I actually had many massages from Dan. I thought he did a good job with the basic massage, and he allowed extensive mutual touch; I often returned the massage. He's low-key but a nice person. I finally quit him, though, because because the massage never evolved. His massage is not erotic. Private parts--his and yours--are strictly off limits."
So....anyone have anything to add? I'm always open to PM's. Find them most informative. Thanks.

Alas I must agree with Public Assistance. I too am older and years ago when I went to a masseur I could pretty much count on if there were interactive possibilities they would happen. I no longer feel certain of a satisfactory erotic encounter so I also tend to look for a good experience and stick with that guy for as long as possible. I'm not driven like I used to be so I also don't explore all the possibilities either. The value of this forum continues to be the posting of various experiences with different masseurs so that one can at least make a kind of educated guess as to whether one should spend their money on a particular guy. Sometimes after reading both positive and negative encounters I decide that guy isn't for me and I don't take the chance. So I'm grateful for varying opinions. I have always loved the split between a genuine and an erotic massage and finding that golden mean is a lifelong pursuit. But these days I might tend to look under escorts more than massage if I wanted to be guaranteed a more erotic experience.

Haha. Are you me?

The great thing about this forum is i always finds people who have the similar issues. I love the process of hunting up a massage, getting ready for it, thinking about what's to come. Then, after it's done and the money's gone, nine times out of ten there is a feeling of.......MEH!!

What if getting a massage is my hobby?

Jacking off usually works...

You'd think for $250 you'd get massage and not just massag.

I see what you did ther

Alas I must agree with Public Assistance. I too am older and years ago when I went to a masseur I could pretty much count on if there were interactive possibilities they would happen. I no longer feel certain of a satisfactory erotic encounter so I also tend to look for a good experience and stick with that guy for as long as possible. I'm not driven like I used to be so I also don't explore all the possibilities either. The value of this forum continues to be the posting of various experiences with different masseurs so that one can at least make a kind of educated guess as to whether one should spend their money on a particular guy. Sometimes after reading both positive and negative encounters I decide that guy isn't for me and I don't take the chance. So I'm grateful for varying opinions. I have always loved the split between a genuine and an erotic massage and finding that golden mean is a lifelong pursuit. But these days I might tend to look under escorts more than massage if I wanted to be guaranteed a more erotic experience.

Maybe I am grumpy today, but sometimes I wonder how guys here can be so nervous or penny-pinching or dreaming of perfection.
 
Why @hk81 are you hesitating? The man has 2 locations in Manhattan and only charges $80 for an incall.
 
Even if the massage is only adequate, he’s cheap. I’ve spent more in Manhattan on an ordinary lunch.