BenjaminNicholas

Boystown ain't what she used to be: I'm a native Chicagoan and have seen the changes for myself. https://www.dnainfo.com/chicago/20140731/boystown/there-goes-gayborhood-boystown-becoming-more-straight-research-shows

We agree on what's most important- Keeping guys safe. My statement on high-end hotels remains something I firmly believe: While I'd never say it was failsafe, it's a lot smarter than going to the La Quinta if you're in a red-alert area. Your best bet remains going with a reviewed, vetted escort. In nearly every story I hear of LE nabbing someone, there are always a ton of red flags that were repeatedly ignored. Use your head... Don't be a statistic. This cat-and-mouse game will always exist, at least until society figures out a way to legalize (and tax) it. Trust your instincts if things feel wrong.

I'm not making definitive statements. I'm giving you my personal experience. And yes, even in Vegas, tipping off concierges and front desk management has saved me future stress. Again, my experience. You're only equating this with Vegas... Think larger scale. Higher-end properties (Ritz, Four Seasons, Mandarin, etc) rarely see sting operations, if ever. Tax-payer money used in that amount isn't the norm. I never said it was a fail safe (nothing is), but simply not the norm when it comes to hotels that operate with a high nightly cost. What I'm not doing is fear-mongering. I've always told people to think with their big heads, but there are always small ways to protect yourself even further.

Big dick. Bigger asshole.

You're being a little paranoid, but that's ok A smart escort will quickly make friends with the hotel staff he's seeing on a regular basis. I did that, tipping well and they took great care of me (and by extension, my clients). Also, LE isn't setting up stings at higher-end hotels. You can save yourself a ton of grief just by being smart about where you stay or where you're going.

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This is just a rough draft. Any takers?

Anal orgasm = the product of massaging a prostate. A guy, a finger, a toy or all of the above will get the job done. It ain't rocket science, but it sure is fun

I also recommend getting into the varied ethnic bones of the city. Polish, Irish, Asian, Black, Czech, etc. Chicago is thankfully still a city of very old, somewhat inclusive neighborhoods and along with that comes amazing food and interesting little nooks & crannies to explore.

Speaking of which, I need to start making tshirts with 'Implied Toxic Slut' screen printed on them

Bucktown/Wicker Park Andersonville (where a lot of the gay community went after fleeing Boystown) Gold Coast (touristy, but great for walking and sightseeing) Chicago is such a wonderfully setup city for tourists and easy sightseeing.

Clearly, fashion is subjective. Also, take into account that most people don't fit properly into their jackets and tuxedos, making what should be a handsome outfit look frumpy or odd. Not everything has to be bespoke to look like a million dollars: You just have to have the right tailor

Of course it does: A string of consistent, quality reviews on Daddy's means everything in this industry. It's not a guarantee, but it's the closest thing running. At least you can mark a guy like that off the 'working for the fuzz' list.

No matter how you decide to handle it, I'm sorry you're dealing with it. We should be past these things in this day and age, but we're not. Sadly, I don't think there's a silver bullet for ignorance.

Very much agreed. His name and good deeds live on with many who are recipients of Ryan White funding today.

Are you making these claims in a Right-To-Work state? If so, it's an uphill battle. I don't know if I'd spend the time and money, instead opting to move on and find something better.

Clearly, I've hit a nerve In the future, I'll make sure to bite my tongue regarding bath houses that resemble sets from the film Saw

It was a comment on the website. Is that a problem? Have I offended your taste in bathhouses?

He's a hot guy. But, to be specific, he's not wearing leather in this pic. It's a black lycra/spandex that's sold by SlickItUp. They make some great semi-custom gear. http://slickitup.com/

Because Navy bases are just that easy to access, right?

Hey, you've been around here long enough to know that it takes very little to veer from the road. As for the op, we never got specifics, only broadly painted strokes: I wouldn't have made the post myself if I wasn't willing to get right to the point (and perhaps save someone some trouble). @BabyBoomer The Gov, I believe, was Richard Denning. I knew that one from memory, but looked to see who else was in the show and got trapped in a 5-0 rabbit hole. Wo Fat has definitely always been one of my all-time favorite TV villains.

I believe the Manhattan Project facility looked more comfortable than that bath

That's awesome. My numbers were from 2016, I believe. Good to see states adopt/adapt quickly.

It's a serious criminal charge in only 16 states. Until EVERY state adopts revenge porn laws, it's merely a civil issue for most people.

Fine, it's illegal. File suit. And then what? Assuming he actually shows up to court, get a judgement the escort probably can't pay? Be real. If someone were filming me without permission in that situation, you bet your ass it wouldn't be a sock I'd be throwing.