BenjaminNicholas

All of this sounds like a low-mid level Kspa. You don't go to a place like this to fuck or hook up. It's not a gay bath. The problem is that so many gay guys don't respect the rules that these facilities end up closing things because of it. Quit fucking up my Kspa experiences, thanks. Just go, respect custom, relax, enjoy.

I would be overly concerned about getting lube on the fur. I'm overly concerned NOW just thinking about it.

So, the guy asking me to show up to a random house in an Amazon vest later today might be a fake?

But you're comparing sex work to a traditional transaction, like buying a burger at Wendys or purchasing a shirt at Banana Republic. We all know those are two very different business models. And because of that, escorts also have the ability to report on behavior that could save another escort from being hurt or taken advantage of. Female escorts have been doing this since the start of the internet. I can't see an issue with that, tbh. Bottom line, don't want a bad review, don't do shitty things. The same can be said for both sides.

What I said was perfectly straight forward. Some guys are cut out for longer term and some aren't. Simple. This isn't about an escort taking advantage of anyone. It's not about romanticizing anything.

We're saying the same thing I believe you misinterpreted my post.

Perhaps. As I've said here before, if someone has a lot to lose, this might not be the hobby for them. There are many uncontrolled variables in doing this. On both sides.

On a positive side, it'll free up two performing spaces for new concepts. It was a unique show, which I'm sure paid itself back many, many times over.

Clearly, you haven't seen the few blacklists and escort-only message boards. That's not even mentioning those who submit on Mr Number. Yeah... both sides are being rated.

If all you think about is being ripped off and money, you might not really be built for longer term engagements.

You should ask him his rates and not assume whatever you tell him will fly. Ask the guy what his time structure is and then make a decision.

This is exactly it

There are different lines in the sand for different guys. Always ask and make clear how far you're wanting to go. For me, it means I get my ego AND dick stroked by showing off what I work hard for. Flexing, touching, squeezing, licking, etc.

You wouldn't want Cookie to do the honors? You heartless clown.

Dave Thomas And yeah, you're all getting an open bar and Frosties afterwards.

Injecting free-form silicone is poison to your immune system. Nope.

Yeah, it's not a wacky concept when it's an intimate service. It's basically dynamic pricing... Which is not a new thing.

I have little compassion for them. It's not all that difficult to get out in the real world and understand how it truly functions. From there, you adjust your expectations accordingly. You don't just expect the world to cater to you. That's sociopathic. Gen Z is so fucking delicate. The generation of needing trigger warnings and participation trophies.

If you want something specific, let him know beforehand.

A lot of this depends on why you're hired and how a client sees you. Some guys, it's all about me. Some guys, it's all about them.

This is boots on the ground truth. NYC is expensive. Even moving outside Manhattan is no longer cheap and qualifying for a living space has become very, very difficult. Bottom line, find a guy who's in your price range, but don't piss and moan about their rates in a city like NYC.

That would depend on the model of BMW. When BMW segmented down to a 1, 2 and 3 series, they opened the brand up to anyone and everyone. Not a bad thing, but definitely not what they used to be.

I was going for the tight on top look, no?

Fishnets are getting into more feminine territory and something a lot of guys wouldn't want to wear. That's something you need to make clear beforehand. I'm asked to wear compression gym gear, wrestling singlets, baseball/football pants, jocks, etc. Not an issue.