BenjaminNicholas

Turkey is wide open and beautiful this time of year. Istanbul isn't too tough to get to. PVR is too quiet with the bars mostly being closed. Parts of the Caribbean are reopening. I vote for St Kitts-Nevis (reopens 10/31). I love going there.

My only advice is to play it coy with additional property details. It's not altogether difficult for someone to piece together where you might live, especially if they know how to pull building permits. That said, I do hope you get your champagne wishes and caviar dreams.

There's truly a NeNe Leakes GIF for every occasion

Always remember, you cannot put toothpaste back in the tube. If they want a picture and you have a lot to lose, move on.

I wouldn't answer. I'd just walk away. I don't have the time to listen to lecturing and posturing from foolish people.

To appreciate this play/film, you have to look at it as being inside of a time capsule. A lot of younger gay guys would watch this and simply not understand. I'm young enough to be in that category, but I'm also an old soul who appreciates many things way before his time. I thought it was well-done... And I didn't expect a lot from Ryan Murphy.

If I remember correctly, wasn't it was Raunch v. Filth where RBG made that historic tie-breaking decision regarding butt plugs?

Looking good ?

They're the ones who tell you to vote Dukakis 88' and then block you

I believe Lindsay Lohan has a message for you

I think of a power bottom as a guy who can take a mean fuck for an extended amount of time.

I'd say based on his Twitter feed, that's an accurate observation

How do you get to Carnegie Hall again?

Why? If you're going to needle me, you should expect some kinda response. [MEDIA=giphy]fs8Q3CfRV7yH8kMTJj[/MEDIA]

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I get off on guys sexually enjoying themselves. I get off on me getting off. I like being naked. WHAT ARE, THE TRAITS YOU NEED TO BE A SUCCESSFUL MALE ESCORT, ALEX.

Yikes. Let this be a lesson for expats. When in Rome, do as Romans do, indeed.

I'd only be worried if the reviewer was also living in Thailand. A judgement of any kind wouldn't matter if they were in the States. In having written thousands of TripAdvisor reviews, I've been threatened with legal action from posting very honest accounts of what were really bad experiences. 100% of the time, TA stood behind me. Also, 100% of the time the owners never followed through on the empty threats, as any decent attorney knows how difficult it is to successfully litigate slander and/or libel.

I mean, it's Tijuana. Honestly, any Mexican border town is going to be a bad representation of the country as a whole. Nuevo Laredo, Progresso, Matamoros, Juarez, Reynosa.... They have huge influxes of gueros, all looking for RX, booze or medical/dental work. It's how most of these Mexicans make their living and yes, it's a hustle, but not a bad one. You call it preyed upon. They call it putting food on their table and providing for their families. Just politely say no, gracias and keep moving.

While Mexico City has a much larger, nicer gay nightlife, PV has the more wild scene. Antropology and Wet Dreams are the two clubs. Drink prices are steep ($10-15USD, pesos only). They both have back rooms. The guys at Dreams are very forward, always working the floor and always closing the deal. Totally hands-on. It's fun, but expect to pay both the guy who guards the back rooms AND the dancer for the time spent back there. Last time I went, I was in the back for 30-40 minutes and it cost me $40 USD total (plus tip). CDMX: I love going to La Purisima. It's got a techno-glitter, Catholic-on-LSD theme. Lots of fun, but it gets PACKED. Tom's Leather Bar is fun to start the night at. You have to go through the dark backroom to get to the bathrooms. That's always fun. Boy Bar has fun shower shows. Kinky Bar is the best of all worlds. Big with multi-levels. A little something for everyone.

Seeing as it means closed in Dutch, you're certainly not a sloot.

A concern in widening the audience would also be to properly monetize it so that Daddy has everything he needs. Forever. While escort discussion could remain the main theme, expanding the forum topics would help bring in a better cross-section of new members. It would also allow for natural targeted ads and easier seo. If a member didn't want to see ads, they would be welcome to pay a small monthly fee to hide them.

But here's the statement I want to seriously address: If you have so much to lose that you can't ask an escort to leave your hotel room or, better yet, take a gander at them through the peep hole and make a quick, private judgement call, then perhaps this isn't the hobby for you. There's a certain level of risk you take in scheduling time with an unknown/untested product. You have to be realistic with yourself that there will be an indeterminate amount of what mass retail calls shrinkage. Wasted money. Loss. I agree that my response was a little flip, but then again, I have worked smart in this business to afford a bit of that now and then. However, I stand by there being multiple ways to vet an escort before meeting. You don't need to offer them a tit-for-tat, what's behind door number two. Be straight forward and just ask for updated photos, photos with him holding a written date (or three-fingered selfie, or whatever the young'uns are now doing), Facetime chat, etc. Offering cash for integrity is putting the cart before the horse.

It suddenly all makes sense that green has always been my signature color.

This was a truly brilliant line. Bravo, sir. Bravo.