BenjaminNicholas

Aging disgracefully is (mostly) a choice people make. It's years of bad decisions, regrets, what-ifs and I-shouldas. Stop the cycle now while you're still young enough to make seismic changes. Like I tell a lot of other escorts and guys in porn, live for tomorrow, not just moment to moment.

Fully off-topic here: Watch the new Scorsese Netflix docuseries with Fran Lebowitz, Pretend It's A City, and then tell me with a straight face that NYC isn't (still) the center of the world. She makes one hell of a compelling- and entertaining- argument that it is. Manhattan has always been expensive... But people still come. They find a way to survive it and make it work. That's part of what makes it special.

The golden age wasn't because of a city or location. It was because at that point the internet and social media hadn't yet ruined a generation's ability to communicate like normal people. This was also back when escorts cared enough to give themselves full names and maintain actual personalities.

A sensible skort, of course

His socials postings were intelligent, very funny and honest as hell. He also had a hard time accepting a lot of the industry and went into downturns over it (which he would openly talk about). I believe he was smart to pick his mental health over money and a social media following.

I wear only compression gear when running or lifting. The right gear avoids swamp ass. Never go cheap on compression leggings/shorts. A lot of the material they use in the cheap brands will not let sweat evaporate quickly, encourage chafing and generally not do what compression gear is designed to do (support, wick away sweat and keep lactic acid at bay). I recommend two brands as my standard: SKINS and Nike Pro.

Hypothetical: In the midst of holding you, my dick accidently slips into you... Repeatedly. Asking for a friend

It's imperative that you remain chaste until your family receives the dowry.

I've eaten at Jay Fai a few times and although it's become VERY popular since the award, she's still putting out incredble food. It's got to be tough having so much attention so quickly. It's a small place to begin with and she cooks everything herself. Getting a reservation to eat there takes about 30-50 days of advance. I hope she continues to mitigate the workload because her culinary skills are impressive.

Hotel food in BKK is lovely, but it's pedestrian. You can get great fine hotel food anywhere. If you want to eat in Bangkok, you eat on the street. Very few other places in the world have street carts that have Michelin stars. In the past I've done a nice mix of street food tours, but feel comfortable enough now to venture out myself. The main rule of thumb is that if you see locals lined up to eat somewhere, get in that line and figure out the menu. It's going to be good.

I have always told my clients that if a rate will impede their ability to enjoy the time spent, then it's too high and they should find another escort who's more price appropriate. There's nothing worse- for either party- than feeling that the money is forefront throughout the entire experience. It ruins everything.

They do serve incredibly fresh panda.

Agreed. I'd also say that the West Side Story is right up there as well. It's iconic music. Ragtime, spot on. My Fair Lady. The King and I. Crazy For You. Okay, now I'm really just naming favorite overtures.

It reminds me of what Mel Brooks wrote in The Producers: 'This play has got to close... on page 4'

I believe a true fetish is inherent. But, yes, for a wide variety of reasons you can teach yourself to get off on things that might not come naturally. If the fetish is rooted in a positive environment, I don't see it being problematic. It's only when people force themselves to do things they don't want to that it becomes a royal mind fuck.

Selfless sluttiness is a big reason why I love this board It's truly the season for giving head and receiving large shots of cum.

A guy who can swallow down my entire load without spilling or gagging earns major respect.

Yes. Living in the boroughs isn't such a bad thing if you can save $1k+ a month in rents. Personally, I'd live in Queens in a heartbeat. The Forest Hills area is incredibly livable.

Medical. Real Estate. Consulting. Marketing/Advertising. Web Services. And if you've invested wisely or have been incredibly fortunate, there are those who don't need a second act.

This is how I know we're meant to be together. It's pizza toppings that bind us.

If that's just to 'pay rent' and nothing more, that's problematic for a lot of escorts these days. Working smarter is important in this business. The turn-and-burn is what ruins most guys.

I'd ask for 10-year CDs to have better return rates

If you work hard, invest wisely and make good contacts, you can live well. Don't waste opportunity. That's always been my motto.

I feel like this reply was put into a blender and then someone hit frappe.

Just finished up part one and have mixed feelings. While they did a great job of going back into Selena's early catalog, long before the 'hits,' a lot of the show could have been condensed into a few episodes versus the nine here. It dragged in places. However, I'm happy that a lot of people will discover her music and legacy th