BenjaminNicholas

Dude, you are so woke

If you haven't posted a reply in this thread, you get deleted.

Or, based on the OP's problem...

But I sent nudes! Doesn't that count for something?

Yep, I was being ironic. Sanker was a shithead. He was not known in many circles for being a kind man. Uni's reply to mine was fine. Circular snark doesn't bother me. It actually made me chuckle

Is this the same Sanker who moved his circuit parties to MX when the States wouldn't let large gatherings happen due to superspreader COVID fears?

HIGHLY ENTERTAINING film. And go see it in a movie house. It's not going to be the same on a small television.

I never got this show. I tried a few times, but it felt... Pedestrian.

Don't grovel. Just be direct and ask if there's an issue. If you still don't get a reply, move forward.

While there are clearly issues with the new security certificate, the links still work if you click through.

Medical misinformation, overall, should be banned from this forum

Upload dates on Rentmen photos mean very little- Never trust they mean they're recent. Guys take down and put back up images all the time, basically resetting the upload date and making them appear 'fresh.' Also consider after a year of COVID life, a lot of working guys look VERY different than they used to. As an escort, I appreciate when guys are straightforward with me about their concerns. Be direct and ask. Whether he sends you something very recent (ie, a week or two old) or directs you to an image online that is what he currently looks like, it shouldn't be an issue. If he can't do you that courtesy, that might be a red flag you want to reconsider.

Actually, if you have gotten your vax, they also write the batch number on the card. This can then be verified using third-party vax passport services. They issue a unique identifier which can be traced back to your batch number, as well as the paperwork you signed and submitted when getting the shot. Totally foolproof, no. Nothing is totally foolproof. But if you do it right, it's pretty damned close. In all of this discussion, I also agree that protecting one's self is paramount. I'm just playing devil's advocate because it makes discussion more interesting

This is excellent advice. Hooboy used to tell me a variation of this when I first got into the business: 'Benjamin, you know you're doing something right when they start to throw rocks. Just learn to smile wide and move on. Don't give them power and don't give them your energy. Move forward.' It's pie-in-the-sky to say we can live without worry of being constantly judged. The real trick is to learn who's important enough in our life to give that power to. THANK YOU FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK

Is this how our OnlyFans page starts?

Reminds me of what my mom used to say to me as a kid: 'People care about people who care for themselves'

I'd diagram it out, but my sketching skills are severely lacking. Let's just say it works well to have long body parts.

There's always been a wide variety in 'levels' of escort, all offering very different experiences based on their personal capabilities. For those practicing the true art of escorting, the experience will never change. It will remain well-rounded. It's why there's demand.

Confirming vax status is as easy as showing a card or a digital status with the various vax-passport services. While it's to everyone's personal preference, why would a client spend time with a sex worker who doesn't care about their well-being? Whether it's a hep vax, PrEP or just a yearly flu shot, when you're in the business of using your body in close proximity, it's paramount to do things to protect yourself, which in turn protects those you spend time with. *steps off soapbox*

So... You'll have sex with a perfect stranger, but a face pic is too personal? Quite literally, you are selling yourself as the product. Your face is a huge contingent of that sale. While I understand not putting your face pic in your general listing, it's definitely unique to say you 'never' send a face pic before meeting a client. My view is that you will not have as well-rounded a business as you might have without that face pic. If you're willing to give up a decent chunk of what could be incredibly profitable repeat clients, then so be it. That is your call. In your initial post, you say it's very personal to give someone a face pic. This is a personal business. Get comfortable.

Please do this Chicagoan a solid and drink the Irish piss better known as OLD STYLE BEER. It's a staple at Wrigley. Some say it's magical... Others who aren't drunk enough yet disagree with those people.

It means that I don't restrain you by keeping my bare foot on your neck while fucking you. It could also mean that I end up baking you a dozen chocolate chip cookies at some point.

Cities (big and small) will always go after the 'unsavory' during election cycles. It's how they whip up their base into a frothy lather. Just as the IRS has been defunded by the last several administrations (to a point of near-absurdity), the same can be said for SESTA/FOSTA. The Biden admin isn't making it a priority: I think it's time for adults to speak in complete sentences.

Ruh-roh

Fully vexed sounds problematic