BenjaminNicholas

Buzzfeed anything makes me want to punch young journalism grads in the face.

Wow. This thread got bitter, fast. Yet somehow I'm not shocked by that. As with many threads here, the anonymous judgement is quick and sharp, but until you've walked a mile in an escort's shoes, don't be an asshole. The OP describes this guy as open and honest. It was clearly an eye-opening conversation. Self-care is a real thing. It's not just vanity... It's self respect. Whether you're in a looks-based biz or not, giving a shit about how you look is not a bad thing. Eat right. Stay in shape. Skincare. This isn't rocket science, however, it's something that most of America doesn't practice. We treat symptoms... We don't do preventative care.

There are multiple private & public blacklist sites that exist. Some of them purposely leak sensitive info to search engines if there's a real threat (or an assumed one, in some cases). As a failsafe, there are sites like DeleteMe that can help find and remove that information.

Concorde was a frequent flier's Kilimanjaro. I was fortunate to fly it on the final year BA had it running (2003). As @nycman said, you didn't pay for comfort on that jet, you paid for speed. 2-2 config. Small lavs. I remember a flight attendant telling me that on those final flights, they had a tough time keeping the pax from taking souvenirs (cutlery, salt shakers, china, etc).

Every escort has to be savvy enough to know their target market. While I have no opinion on if a guy wants to paint his nails or have a face full of makeup, as an escort you've got to consider if you're being taken into public places and how that affects your client. I know most of the guys I see don't want to see tattoos or piercings, nor would they like my nails being painted or if I wore gaudy jewelry. Knowing that is knowing my market. It's a person-to-person thing.

It's bullshit. Move on. Don't keep engaging. Unless his company jumped through a lot of governmental hoops, he isn't an American in Australia.

It's a great sizzle reel, but I'll believe it when I see them flying. UA got a sweetheart deal on this order and have- roughly- 10 years to make it plausible before they're ready to enter service. It's also insanely speculative based on this new company producing the jets has no track record and took a quarter of a billion in debt to startup. Moral of the story: Don't count your Concordes before they're hatched

Dude, you are so woke

If you haven't posted a reply in this thread, you get deleted.

Or, based on the OP's problem...

But I sent nudes! Doesn't that count for something?

Yep, I was being ironic. Sanker was a shithead. He was not known in many circles for being a kind man. Uni's reply to mine was fine. Circular snark doesn't bother me. It actually made me chuckle

Is this the same Sanker who moved his circuit parties to MX when the States wouldn't let large gatherings happen due to superspreader COVID fears?

HIGHLY ENTERTAINING film. And go see it in a movie house. It's not going to be the same on a small television.

I never got this show. I tried a few times, but it felt... Pedestrian.

Don't grovel. Just be direct and ask if there's an issue. If you still don't get a reply, move forward.

While there are clearly issues with the new security certificate, the links still work if you click through.

Medical misinformation, overall, should be banned from this forum

Upload dates on Rentmen photos mean very little- Never trust they mean they're recent. Guys take down and put back up images all the time, basically resetting the upload date and making them appear 'fresh.' Also consider after a year of COVID life, a lot of working guys look VERY different than they used to. As an escort, I appreciate when guys are straightforward with me about their concerns. Be direct and ask. Whether he sends you something very recent (ie, a week or two old) or directs you to an image online that is what he currently looks like, it shouldn't be an issue. If he can't do you that courtesy, that might be a red flag you want to reconsider.

Actually, if you have gotten your vax, they also write the batch number on the card. This can then be verified using third-party vax passport services. They issue a unique identifier which can be traced back to your batch number, as well as the paperwork you signed and submitted when getting the shot. Totally foolproof, no. Nothing is totally foolproof. But if you do it right, it's pretty damned close. In all of this discussion, I also agree that protecting one's self is paramount. I'm just playing devil's advocate because it makes discussion more interesting

This is excellent advice. Hooboy used to tell me a variation of this when I first got into the business: 'Benjamin, you know you're doing something right when they start to throw rocks. Just learn to smile wide and move on. Don't give them power and don't give them your energy. Move forward.' It's pie-in-the-sky to say we can live without worry of being constantly judged. The real trick is to learn who's important enough in our life to give that power to. THANK YOU FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK

Is this how our OnlyFans page starts?

Reminds me of what my mom used to say to me as a kid: 'People care about people who care for themselves'

I'd diagram it out, but my sketching skills are severely lacking. Let's just say it works well to have long body parts.