its so funny to me to see the OP make a comment like this. I had a dreadful and actually scary experience with a provider in a VERY similar way - I showed up and he was high on drugs, aggressive and threatening me if I did pay in full (I did pay in full, after 5 minutes and left) and posted here to warn others, and after I posted the warning about it @PileDriver admonished me, telling me I should be kinder/how dare I say this etc. He even wrote another big thread called "Ugly Clients and Providers With Substance Problems" about how we need to be kinder to drug addicts who threaten us. This has now given me the biggest chuckle.
I guess he only gets upset or thinks people need warnings when it happens to him.
