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Yeah we did try lots of different things during that hour we didnt even try to get him hard at first i asked him if he was fine since first 20 minutes of playing he couldnt get it up, he said he was fine and he wants to prolong it since we have 2 hours i was like ok sure but when time came he still couldnt do it so i sort of felt lied to and ended it. 

So i made a post few days ago about wanting to hire a guy but he was unavaliable so i decided to get someone else for 2hrs 250e + travel paid found him thru site called ,,romeo'' he had few reviews so i thought itd be fine he was younger lik 29years old (for context im 24 years old and i look completely fine) he came we started slowly but he couldnt get it up at all saying he could and if he does wed just finish 2 fast making excuses that its ,,cold'' in the house? After that he asked me to turn on some videos i did and again nothing... I got so pissed off i just paid him 100 just to leave worst exp of my life did any of u go thru something similar? Id link his profile but im p sure he deleted it since i cant find it just wanted to vent my frustration dont think ill be doing this again and wanted you guys to share stories if u had something similar happen legit.

Yeah we did try lots of different things during that hour we didnt even try to get him hard at first i asked him if he was fine since first 20 minutes of playing he couldnt get it up, he said he was fine and he wants to prolong it since we have 2 hours i was like ok sure but when time came he still couldnt do it so i sort of felt lied to and ended it. 

So i made a post few days ago about wanting to hire a guy but he was unavaliable so i decided to get someone else for 2hrs 250e + travel paid found him thru site called ,,romeo'' he had few reviews so i thought itd be fine he was younger lik 29years old (for context im 24 years old and i look completely fine) he came we started slowly but he couldnt get it up at all saying he could and if he does wed just finish 2 fast making excuses that its ,,cold'' in the house? After that he asked me to turn on some videos i did and again nothing... I got so pissed off i just paid him 100 just to leave worst exp of my life did any of u go thru something similar? Id link his profile but im p sure he deleted it since i cant find it just wanted to vent my frustration dont think ill be doing this again and wanted you guys to share stories if u had something similar happen legit.

Yeah we did try lots of different things during that hour we didnt even try to get him hard at first i asked him if he was fine since first 20 minutes of playing he couldnt get it up, he said he was fine and he wants to prolong it since we have 2 hours i was like ok sure but when time came he still couldnt do it so i sort of felt lied to and ended it. 

Learned a lesson i guess i was just wondering if anyone had smth similar happen to them im kinda curious how they reacted i sounded way more angry in this post.. i was just kinda dissapointed i guess 

It sounded way worse in post thn it actually was in person i just said i wasnt feeling it anymore and told him id like to call it off and id pay him for hour somehow i sounded more pissed while posting this thn i was with him 

So i made a post few days ago about wanting to hire a guy but he was unavaliable so i decided to get someone else for 2hrs 250e + travel paid found him thru site called ,,romeo'' he had few reviews so i thought itd be fine he was younger lik 29years old (for context im 24 years old and i look completely fine) he came we started slowly but he couldnt get it up at all saying he could and if he does wed just finish 2 fast making excuses that its ,,cold'' in the house? After that he asked me to turn on some videos i did and again nothing... I got so pissed off i just paid him 100 just to leave worst exp of my life did any of u go thru something similar? Id link his profile but im p sure he deleted it since i cant find it just wanted to vent my frustration dont think ill be doing this again and wanted you guys to share stories if u had something similar happen legit.

I recently met a young guy who couldn't get hard. I'm into servicing guys, so a hard cock is preferable. However, he had beautiful, soft skin, and I loved caressing and kissing him all over. It had a very calming effect.
I'm always going to pay their rate. Some sessions are duds, but I'm ultimately paying for their time.
(It's also not the end of the world if they don't cum.)
Like Jamie says above, there's always massage, rimming, and other types of body worship.

Ok as someone who is a provider and performer in porn let me give my perspective:  It can happen, and be quite unexpected. It’s certainly happened to me on occasions when I’ve been with clients and when making porn.
We’re all human and can have off days (or just be tired from a sequence of clients). It’s also happened with guys I was filming with when they couldn’t get hard. It’s actually more common than you might realise, especially with guys who have sex professionally. I know guys who inject their cock with trimix before a film shoot because they want to be sure of getting hard. 
The most important thing is to understand how best to react to it if the guy you hired isn’t hard. You shouldn’t make an issue of it. Try something different, do some massage or stretching together, focus on touch, intimacy and breathing. You’ll find as soon as you remove the expectation that he should get hard then more than likely he will get hard. But if you make a big issue about it then you can be 100% sure it isn’t going to happen. 

I've experienced this before during a 4 hand massage a long time ago. One guy couldn't get hard when it got time for the fun part and left early and i continued with the other guy solo, still gave the other guy a little something cause he still did the massage though. Wasn't a big deal at all. Stuff happens and performers sometimes have off days or might have personal life stuff on their mind, and like all the rest of us, we still gotta show up for work and do the best we can (but sometimes it's too much and you just gotta call out/leave early).
I've had experiences where they don't do everything they agreed on in messages/texts, and i've had experiences where they just weren't good at "performing" in the sense of pretending to be into it/into me/helping to create "chemistry". Which is somewhat a buzzkill obviously. There's plenty of threads on this forum about bad experiences, flakes, no shows, etc (both from the client and the provider perspective). However, i've also had FANTASTIC experiences as well.
It's all just part of the game. Just because they are hired professionals doesn't mean it will always go perfectly every time. When you do this hobby, you are taking a chance on what the outcome will be. Sounds like your first two tries weren't great, but like with a lot of things, you have to sift through the bad to find the good, and the good usually makes the search worth it.

It sounded way worse in post thn it actually was in person i just said i wasnt feeling it anymore and told him id like to call it off and id pay him for hour somehow i sounded more pissed while posting this thn i was with him 

Learned a lesson i guess i was just wondering if anyone had smth similar happen to them im kinda curious how they reacted i sounded way more angry in this post.. i was just kinda dissapointed i guess 

It sounded way worse in post thn it actually was in person i just said i wasnt feeling it anymore and told him id like to call it off and id pay him for hour somehow i sounded more pissed while posting this thn i was with him 

It sounded way worse in post thn it actually was in person i just said i wasnt feeling it anymore and told him id like to call it off and id pay him for hour somehow i sounded more pissed while posting this thn i was with him 

He looks legit to me. Some reviews and he’s been on a while. 

its so funny to me to see the OP make a comment like this.  I had a dreadful and actually scary experience with a provider in a VERY similar way - I showed up and he was high on drugs, aggressive and threatening me if I did pay in full  (I did pay in full, after 5 minutes and left)  and posted here to warn others, and after I  posted the warning about it  @PileDriver admonished me, telling me I should be kinder/how dare I say this etc. He even wrote another big thread called "Ugly Clients and Providers With Substance Problems"  about how we need to be kinder to drug addicts who threaten us.  This has now given me the biggest chuckle.  
I guess he only gets upset or thinks people need warnings when it happens to him.