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As a native Spanish speaker, this sounds more poetic and nice in Spanish. I think it means he's going to make you feel lot's of great things. It also means he's got a flair for the poetic 😂

Thanks for explaining it and oh my gosh 😵‍💫

I'm not super knowledgeable about butt stuff. What the heck is a "second wall?" Does that just mean you're tight and not relaxed enough for him to go past a certain point? 

I'm not super knowledgeable about butt stuff. What the heck is a "second wall?" Does that just mean you're tight and not relaxed enough for him to go past a certain point? 

If you suck at your job, I’m willing to pay the 250 even if the massage is mediocre.

Hi all,
I'm going to take a vacation and I'm thinking about hiring someone for the first time. I want to experience being submissive and pleasing a dominant dude. But I don't have a lot of experience and my butthole is like a dolphin. 
What's an appropriate way to communicate to a provider that I'd like them to be dominant but I'm also nervous and don't have a lot of experience? Being pushed outside my comfort zone is what I'm looking for but I also don't know what my limit is and I don't want to disappoint anyone or freak them/myself out. Thanks in advance for the help. 

As always, when people talk about someone, misinformation can easily circulate. I’d like to take a moment to clarify a few things.
 
First, I have never asked for $400, certainly not in 2024. When I first started, my rate was $200, and over time it increased to $350, which is a recent adjustment. On a few occasions, I have charged more than $400, but only in very specific and unconventional situations.
 
My rate is set by me alone and reflects much more than physical appearance. It encompasses the nature of the work itself, including emotional labor, personal boundaries, and situations that can be challenging or uncomfortable. Sharing intimacy with someone you don’t know — and may not even like — requires care, professionalism, and mutual respect, which is why a fair and mutually satisfying exchange is essential.
 
Everyone has different tastes, and that’s completely fine. If someone feels my rate isn’t for them, I respect that. What isn’t fair is deciding the value of my work without truly knowing me. Photos and cameras rarely reflect the full experience, and I’m confident in the fact that people consistently find me more pleasant and engaging in person than in images.
 
For anyone who has doubts, I’m happy to invite you to a video call so you can better understand the value and reasoning behind my fee.

Hi all,
I'm going to take a vacation and I'm thinking about hiring someone for the first time. I want to experience being submissive and pleasing a dominant dude. But I don't have a lot of experience and my butthole is like a dolphin. 
What's an appropriate way to communicate to a provider that I'd like them to be dominant but I'm also nervous and don't have a lot of experience? Being pushed outside my comfort zone is what I'm looking for but I also don't know what my limit is and I don't want to disappoint anyone or freak them/myself out. Thanks in advance for the help. 

No, @CuriousByNature was right. It's the whistles and clicks. 😜

No, @CuriousByNature was right. It's the whistles and clicks. 😜

No, @CuriousByNature was right. It's the whistles and clicks. 😜

I'm trying to figure out what it means to have a butthole like a dolphin...
Will it do tricks when you dangle a fish in front of it?  Can it whistle and click, and use echolocation?  Does it have smooth skin with a layer of blubber for insulation?  
I hope you understand the porpoise of my questions.
 

This is fan fiction, not advice.

Sorry, I meant that I was planning to hire someone for a night on my vacation. I'm not planning on spending a vacation with someone. I should have written that more clearly.

Hi all,
I'm going to take a vacation and I'm thinking about hiring someone for the first time. I want to experience being submissive and pleasing a dominant dude. But I don't have a lot of experience and my butthole is like a dolphin. 
What's an appropriate way to communicate to a provider that I'd like them to be dominant but I'm also nervous and don't have a lot of experience? Being pushed outside my comfort zone is what I'm looking for but I also don't know what my limit is and I don't want to disappoint anyone or freak them/myself out. Thanks in advance for the help. 

You know, that's great advice! After reading tips here on the forums I think I'll ask the first hour be spent grabbing a drink/coffee and feeling out the vibe, make sure he's feeling me and I'm feeling him. All of this assumes I have the balls to go through with it 😅. 

This is fan fiction, not advice.

Sorry, I meant that I was planning to hire someone for a night on my vacation. I'm not planning on spending a vacation with someone. I should have written that more clearly.

You know, that's great advice! After reading tips here on the forums I think I'll ask the first hour be spent grabbing a drink/coffee and feeling out the vibe, make sure he's feeling me and I'm feeling him. All of this assumes I have the balls to go through with it 😅. 

Sorry, I meant that I was planning to hire someone for a night on my vacation. I'm not planning on spending a vacation with someone. I should have written that more clearly.

You know, that's great advice! After reading tips here on the forums I think I'll ask the first hour be spent grabbing a drink/coffee and feeling out the vibe, make sure he's feeling me and I'm feeling him. All of this assumes I have the balls to go through with it 😅. 

I really like the way you put this. Why don't you just send this to a provider. If he's willing, I'd also recommend a 5 minute phone call with him. So you can be comfortable with the vibe. Also, if any of us have met the provider and can tell you he's good at being a dom, then you could take some of that advice into the meeting. Good luck stud!

Okay, that makes sense. That's what I meant when I included that comment about Cabo in my first reply.

I've been in this scenario before. I basically was just very upfront and direct about what i wanted, what i wanted to try, roughly how much i wanted to be pushed past my limit, and things i knew were absolutely off limits. That way they know your baseline, where you want to go, that they know they're allowed to push a little past that, but know where the hard line is and to absolutely cannot cross it under any circumstance till you explicitly say otherwise. This lets you feel safe to dip your toe into discomfort to find pleasure, but not be so scared of falling into the deep end before you know how to swim that you don't even stick your toe in the pool.