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I saw him in December.  Pretty good massage...done on a table....more than adequate skills.  He is a professional from Brazil, working on his English and getting credentialed here in the US.  Would repeat.  Feel free to message for more details.

The needs of different clients regarding the “Boyfriend Experience” are multifold. Most want penetrative sex as part of the experience, maybe some only want oral or fetish play as the sexual component. Sometimes no sex at all, but usually some form of sex. Often the BFE is geared toward more kissing and hugging and physical intimacy in addition to the sex itself. But all BFE clients have needs beyond sex - for companionship, understanding, compassion, connection, and acceptance. That may come in the form of conversation over dinner or sharing in the client’s non-sexual hobby. Cuddling in bed before/after. Being seen, heard and respected.
One of my clients sees me for a combination of things. He likes to be massaged for part of his time which is great. I spank him and he ultimately gets off to that part which is how we typically end, but most importantly he sees me to kiss, cuddle, and to be held. We spend most of the session with me holding him in various close contact positions, and he weeps while I do. We alternate between moments of pleasure and moments of comfort, me holding him as he emotes. He likes to be physically dominated, and simulated sex is part of that (basically elements of frottage and wrestling), maybe some teasing his hole with my fingers and mouth here and there, but no actual penetration, says he doesn’t want it. Occasionally he likes to give oral. Those are the most traditional escort-y things we do. The real value to him is what we do beyond those. I don’t pry, but I know that he is a full time caretaker to his older husband and seeing me is his means of relief and reprieve, a sense of escape, and a place for him to relax and be himself. In fact, he often says “thank you for letting me be me”. 
Perhaps some of his need is to mourn the loss of his husband and by extension, loss of sex and a life with relative freedom. My client is clearly very sad and going through loss, even though his husband is still alive. In a way, it’s more difficult to cope because his husband lives on with a very limited physical capacity, leaving my client all the responsibility of marriage without any of the benefits. It’s sad. Seeing me gives him some sense of peace and comfort. For someone to take care of my client for a change. This is just one version of many constituting the “boyfriend experience”. Everyone is a bit different.

As always, this website is tremendously helpful. 

Providers who scam clients should be shot at sunrise on the banks of the Hudson River with a rusty pistol owned by Aaron Burr....

Thanks for this.  Will definitely check him out very soon. 

Providers who scam clients should be shot at sunrise on the banks of the Hudson River with a rusty pistol owned by Aaron Burr....

VERY smart to cancel.  Had a VERY bad experience with this person today.  He's a con artist.

Nope. Just click on the link & his destinations are listed. 

I know that many providers use the Mr. Number app to look up scammers and time wasters.  Decided to see if it worked the other way, as well.  Sure enough…reports on ProfessionalLMT’s phone number.  Have also provided the images to rent masseur. 

Sigh....I hope that he gets tipsy, trips in a pothole and sprains his right ankle.

BUYER BEWARE!!!  Saw this person's ad today while in Chicago.  Contacted him via text.  He required pre-payment, which I did against my better judgement.  Showed up at his home at the agreed to time.  Let him know that I was in the lobby.  No response.  After 20min, I left.  No contact from all all day.  Called the hotel; no one is registered there under that name.  Attempted to get $$$ back to no avail, of course.  Again, BUYER, BEWARE.  Goes by 'Jorge Diaz'.
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Sigh....I hope that he gets tipsy, trips in a pothole and sprains his right ankle.

True, but then the natural gas pipes explode and neighborhoods go up in flames. 

I'd go with an ad on Masseurfinder with pictures of your clean & professional working space, pictures of you that don't leave any doubt about the type of massage, very clear TEXT stating that you are a LICENSED masseur offering high quality professional THERAPEUTIC massage only, and PRICING APPROPRIATE for this type of massage (if you list $150 or higher, that sends a wrong signal). I would NOT post an ad on rentmasseur even if only the therapeutic box is checked because just being there generates doubts. Cheers and good luck!

Any have a go with Nickolas Energy?
 
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I'm always nude since a standard spa will drape you like a mummy anyway. 
Even with therapeutic only M4M masseurs, none of them had any issues when I would get on the table nude and not drape myself with the cover they had placed on the massage table (I usually roll it at the bottom of the table to let a masseur know it's not needed). 

Still figuring out how to do all the intelligence that more seasoned members here do.  What a great service we are doing for each other.  

I know that many providers use the Mr. Number app to look up scammers and time wasters.  Decided to see if it worked the other way, as well.  Sure enough…reports on ProfessionalLMT’s phone number.  Have also provided the images to rent masseur. 

Sigh....I hope that he gets tipsy, trips in a pothole and sprains his right ankle.

Sigh....I hope that he gets tipsy, trips in a pothole and sprains his right ankle.

Sigh....I hope that he gets tipsy, trips in a pothole and sprains his right ankle.

Rent Masseur is going to investigate the numerous reviews.  Hope that that comes to something.