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Yes.
 
Here's one anecdote I can kind of remember from years ago. I showed up at a door of a client who was pretty seriously overweight. He explained to me that he realized at some point it made sense to tell escorts about his weight before they showed up at his door, because several times he had been rejected by escorts who showed up, took a look at him, and said the appointment was not going to work. In some ways I give credit to the escorts, who could have chosen to simply try to stay and rip him off without really providing what the client wanted.
 
To broaden the answer, here's another anecdote. I had a client who was in really good shape for his age - 70's - and liked to pride himself on looking like he was "young 60ish." Having said that, it seemed like he felt compelled to act like a 20-something sexually. He also told me that his expectations for long sessions of flip/flop anal sex so intimidated some well known escorts that they couldn't get erections around him and wouldn't let them hire him, usually after they had tried and failed to meet his expectations (at least by this client's account).
 
During this same period, I recall being hired by a client one night at his hotel who was overweight and could not get an erection due to surgery, but liked to be fucked. He said something like this to me at the start of the session: "Steven, I want you to know that I am not going to get an erection, and you are not going to see me have an orgasm, but I will really enjoy getting fucked by you." He was warm and fun and relaxing to be with, and it was a very fun appointment for me and I think him.
 
I recall thinking at the time that as I age, I hope I age as gracefully and with as much self-acceptance as the second client. And I felt sorry for the first client that he put enough expectations on himself that he often felt let down. And I do mean put expectations on himself, not the escort, because it seemed like at some deep level he really wanted to feel like he was much younger than he actually was.

have been negotiating a meet with him for very soon....so far, very cool and funny texts and an endorsement from somebody I've already met with who knows him.....much prefers phone calls....I think he's in NY now, but returning to the LA area by the weekend
 
will keep the board updated

Personally, I don't see what the fuss is all about.
 
 

 
Gman

These parts, those parts . . . your parts, my parts.

Welcome I'm sure we all look forward to seeing more of you around these parts

Greetings, gentlemen. I'm Ric and I wanted to introduce myself since I'm new to the forum part of the site. I hope to at least chat with a few of you personally.

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I am a total bottom and enjoy making certain the top I am with is having a really good time. The better time he has the better time I have. I enjoy having my arms around him, with him deep inside me as he cums while inside me (with a condom). I enjoy hearing the sounds from him, feeling his body spasm as he unloads inside. I don't object to him cumming on me, I just prefer in me.

I am a total bottom and enjoy making certain the top I am with is having a really good time. The better time he has the better time I have. I enjoy having my arms around him, with him deep inside me as he cums while inside me (with a condom). I enjoy hearing the sounds from him, feeling his body spasm as he unloads inside. I don't object to him cumming on me, I just prefer in me.

I am a total bottom and enjoy making certain the top I am with is having a really good time. The better time he has the better time I have. I enjoy having my arms around him, with him deep inside me as he cums while inside me (with a condom). I enjoy hearing the sounds from him, feeling his body spasm as he unloads inside. I don't object to him cumming on me, I just prefer in me.

I have a question, not to anyone in particular—just to the world of escorts at large:
 
Why won't you cum in my ass?
 
I play safe. I insist on a condom, either the traditional sort or a "femdom"/female condom. I don't want you to bareback me, or vice versa. I am as disease-free as one can be, having been spared all STIs (including herpes, which is nearly miraculous, it seems). I am a good-looking man, middle aged and nicely built, without curious neurotic habits that might make you go limp, and have a fine ass (if I can compliment myself without appearing to be too conceited). I am polite, respectful, and get money matters over with at the beginning. I take you to dinner, amuse you, and keep it all lightly friendly. I'm not looking for love (got that already). While I do get sex elsewhere (from my husband and boyfriend), you're my extra-special fantasy for a few hours...a bit of sexual theatre...pornography incarnate. I'm a nice guy who dresses well. (Really!) But I enjoy hearing, seeing, and feeling a guy lost in the throes of orgasm as he clutches me tight while he fucks my ass. I could make you promise to cum in my ass at the outset, but that just doesn't seem right somehow. And it has no guarantee attached.
 
So, what gives? I've set the stage for a pleasant evening or more. I've made sure my hygiene is impeccable. I give great oral, kiss like a fallen angel, and genuinely enjoy sharing our common humanity. Even my whispered suggestion, "You can cum in my ass", goes unheeded. You pull out and unload all over me. Which is great and fine, but it's not quite as exciting as hearing you grunting in ecstacy, feeling those nearly uncontrollable thrusts and shudders, and fearing—just a tiny bit—for my ribs as you try to grasp me tighter than seems humanly possible.
 
Is it barebacking? Has it become so common that cumming in a condom is impossible? Too many clients? (I usually book evenings or overnights.) Fear? Any ideas?

In honor of Daylight Savings reset November 1st:

 
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For me kissing is one of the best and most intimate and sensual parts of sex and connection. It's rough for me when I have a client that doesn't like to kiss, and it is usually because they identify as straight and it's just too intimate from their perspective. In these cases though I love to get as close to their lips as possible and match breathes without actually touching lips. In regards to the "tonsil raping", I have to say, it's a turn off. I enjoy a decent amount of tounge when kissing, but when kissing becomes almost all tounge and no lips, I no longer enjoy it. Usually if it's my first appointment with a client I will give them a little of it, but will move to kissing their neck, ears, chest, or elsewhere because I just don't enjoy the excessive amount of tounge. The next time I see them I will ask them for a little more lip.
 
I understand that we all like different things, but it's important that we try and "read" our partner to understand what they enjoy and try and meet them half way. Most guys I've asked about this agree that kissing that's all tounge is not enjoyable for them.

I love those arms on #2.

I have an eye for hot guys asses. LOL

Hey Craigville,
 
You have better eyes then me as I didn't pay attention to that fine detail until just now. Still a hot looking guy either way. . Our time to meet one day will come when you'll get to see my hot speedo tanline, and when that day comes - what fun we'll have together right? .