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Probably posed but (no pun intended) worthy of inclusion. 

If you book the room for a week, you will be responsible for any problems that subsequently arise with the room. While you may know the provider, you’re unlikely to know who his visitors will be. I can’t imagine a good reason to do this. 

Getting back on topic, I have to agree with others that it rather depends upon how my provider is clothed and what we negotiated and/or agreed to in our scene. I had a couple of providers in Las Vegas ask me to take them out to eat after our session; when I asked both how much more in fees they would charge me they both said, "I'm only asking you to buy me dinner." One guy wanted In & Out Burger; I happily paid for that and got him a gift card as well. The other guy wanted Pho Kim Long over on Spring Mountain; we had a nice dinner (we were the only non-Asian customers in there at the time) and I got him another dinner to take away. Every scenario is different. 

@viewing ownly makes a good point. He describes a "trait" that I haven't seen celebrated at any of the men's clothing-optional resorts that I have visited. And I would sign up for that. I have seen a lot of "stubs" that lengthen and harden to almost majestic proportions when aroused; it's amazing to watch and experience. I am lucky in that my "stub" gets delightfully thick when hard. I'm probably not going to change anyone's mind but I do wish more men would realize that size has nothing to do with potency or sexual prowess or skill; a lot of men with "stubs" are incredible lovers. Sure, I wish mine were bigger but I gotta play the hand I'm dealt. And I've hardly been deprived of dick in my 45 years since I reached my sexual maturity. It's almost a taboo subject but thank you, @viewing ownly for having the balls to start the conversation. 

Getting back on topic, I have to agree with others that it rather depends upon how my provider is clothed and what we negotiated and/or agreed to in our scene. I had a couple of providers in Las Vegas ask me to take them out to eat after our session; when I asked both how much more in fees they would charge me they both said, "I'm only asking you to buy me dinner." One guy wanted In & Out Burger; I happily paid for that and got him a gift card as well. The other guy wanted Pho Kim Long over on Spring Mountain; we had a nice dinner (we were the only non-Asian customers in there at the time) and I got him another dinner to take away. Every scenario is different. 

I don't mean to veer off-topic, but I once had 2 providers (they hired out as a couple) suggest that we have our scene at a bathhouse (this would be in Phoenix) and it was one of the best experiences I've ever had. 

I didn't mean to imply it was all well endowed guys.  It's just some think they are blessing you being in their company that they feel no need to try.  It's a boner killer.  Much the same of being with someone stunningly beautiful with zippo personality and can't hold any meaningful conversation about things.  If they are only interesting with 🍆 in 👄🍑 it's not likely I'm going to see them more than for a once and done.  Maybe I need to be more shallow.  🤣
An all-sizes fest with mixture for all tastes and preferences get my vote.

I understand the impulse--I often develop a kind of crush on a provider while setting up an appointment and think "We're clicking so well, maybe he'd like to have dinner/go to a show/spend the night with me without charging me extra!"
Don't go there.
Unless the provider explicitly suggests that himself, always remember this is his job, and he owes you no more than what you agreed for the time involved. If you want to have a meal with him or spend the night, you should arrange that in advance, for an appropriate fee.
The idea that you'll "vibe" so well that he'll want to be your friend or fuckbuddy is tempting--a lot of us like to feel that kind of connection and affinity with the providers we choose--but always remember it's just a fantasy. 

I’ve found some can be put off by high end restaurants, or they’d rather have the money I “wasted” on overpriced steak.  I stay at a Hilton or Marriott and meet them in the bar area that serves food.  Offer them a bite to eat and a drink.

Any given night in Palm Springs, Fire Island Pines, Fort Liquordale, or San Francisco …