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I had responsibility for managing the lives and fortunes of my extended family, aunts, uncles, cousins. Early on, I realized that, given, that responsibility, any "significant other" that I admitted to my life would suffer, emotionally, from that commitment. And, I turned to "escorts" for sexual gratification. At least, in my honesty, that was my excuse in not pursuing a long term relationship with any one person although I do enjoy long, affectionate friendships of almost sixty years standing in some instances.

Certainly, one has to be careful wherever one is planning to hire. My reason for asking about Vegas, Miami and Oklahoma was to learn if law enforcement was cracking down in those locations or if there was something with law enforcement specific to those locations of which we need to be aware. I agree with the member who suggested giving a passionate kiss when the provider arrives at your room; I’ve had providers reach for me and do just that. I probably haven’t been as careful as I should be so I’m trying to educate myself. 

Gauged ears, shaved armpits (truthfully shaved or waxed anything), nose/septum rings, guys who “flip the bird” in photos, bad breath and/or poor dental hygiene (mercifully, this has not been a huge issue for me), poor communication skills, aggressive pursuit of my business, and extreme age shaving. PA’s and beards I take on a case-by-case basis as I’ve been rocked like a hurricane by guys with one or both. (Although going down on a guy with a PA … not my favorite activity.) TARDINESS! Don’t be late and don’t call me when you’re already late to tell me you’re late. Too many tattoos … but there are always exceptions. LOL! I’m probably lucky to engage ANYONE given the preceding list, lol, but I have found that there are A LOT of good guys out there! 

Wow … I like that tie …

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White briefs … white coffee cup … that is what separates us from the animals … our ability to accessorize …

When I was 21, guys cruised and approached me everywhere (and I do mean everywhere, 24/7. I never charged anyone, but I also never said no. Every now and then someone wanted to charge me, and my response was always, “why would I pay for it when I can get it for free?” But I was naïve, young, hung and desirable. Now I’m (ahem) 30something years past 21, and while I’m still attractive, I’m not approached or cruised remotely like I was then. While my looks may have changed, my libido hasn’t.
If I knew then, what I know now, I absolutely would have been a sex worker. By charging for it, I would have had the same amount of sex I did for free, but I’d have avoided toxic jobs, and I would be retired by now.
My point is, I applaud the young guys smart enough to provide for those who want it, and I applaud the guys that can afford to buy it as often as they like. Those who have hired understand they can cut through the red tape to get exactly what they want, free of unwanted entanglements. For some it’s about sex, for others it’s living out kinks and fantasies they wouldn’t dare try at home. And for others, being with providers enables a client feel desired, loved, safe and physically connected to another. Some guys want a weekend fling, others just want a great massage with a happy ending. But a good provider can do any and all of that. Like any job, some truly care about their clients, they enjoy providing a service that includes love, kindness and empathy. Others point and shoot and collect their rent money. 
In the end, in a good client/provider combo, everyone gets what they want. It should be legalized for sure, and should have been for centuries. The world would certainly be a better place for it.

Ready for attack! With my tongue! 

Dude is looking for a fill-up … in more ways than one … 

Sadly, two of my favorites are now but a memory … Blue Moon (Las Vegas) and Royal Villas (Phoenix). Naked men swimming, sunning and socializing. 

Falling in love with someone isn't an "accident". We don't schedule and plan love. It just finds its way into our consciousness. But falling "in love" with an escort is typically a false love produced by an infatuation. The physical attention you get, paired with a physical attraction are triggers for relationship material. Unfortunately when you are PAYING, its all performance, not passion. So your "love" is no more real than their acting. You feel it. Its there..but its not genuine, because true love requires a circle, not a wallet. 

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One thing I learned a long time ago that I really took to heart is that if it hurts you’re doing it wrong. Others have said it - I’ll repeat it. Use lots of lube and go slow. Work your way up. Don’t rush it. Take your time. Breathe. Relax. Take a break when you need it. That moment when your a** is filled can be magical. Silly? Perhaps. But that was how it felt to me that moment when I had 9 fat inches fully inside of me. It took time and patience but the payoff was huge both physically and emotionally.