Update...he just blew off our appointment.
Multiple texts yesterday confirming time of day, über details, etc. He agreed to text day of appointment, this morning. I texted him on time this morning, nothing back for three hours, well past all our agreed upon check in time, leave on über time, and meet me time.
Just got text "sorry only available in this evening. I have some problems now in the morning".
I had a feeling this might happen, seems to happen with younger guys sticking to mid-day appointments, at least for me. Also, I'm 45 minutes from downtown LA, I think that spooks 'em too. They say "yes" but then reality of 1-2 hour commute hits