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Lohengrin1979

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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to pubic_assistance in TORTUREMASSAGE...?   
    Yup.
    Marketing some version of domination play.
    Remains to be seen if he's capable of providing a worthwhile experience for those so inclined to submit.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Marc in Calif in TORTUREMASSAGE...?   
    Isn’t this the dude who was advertising as Rape Massage previously? He seems to have a theme.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from edinbrooklyn in 411 on Dixon   
    How sad. He auditioned for Rum Tum Tugger and got Rub Tug Tugger instead. Alas, we can all sympathize with that one great role slipping through our fingers
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Zimby in 411 on Dixon   
    How sad. He auditioned for Rum Tum Tugger and got Rub Tug Tugger instead. Alas, we can all sympathize with that one great role slipping through our fingers
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to edinbrooklyn in 411 on Dixon   
    I wont’t say queeny but . . . aspiring royalty. Clearly disdains his role as a HK rub and tugger.  Never got over missing out on that role in CATS (the Guam Carnival Cruise Line tour.)
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from + glutes in Any info on John in Dallas… Thethor?   
    Did we finally boot him out of LA? Good.
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to nate_sf in Keeping the name of the provider private because it went TOO well.   
    By all means do the favor of providing a link to the guy's listing if he has one. Providers need business in order to stay in business, and referrals from this site are especially valuable. If the phone stops ringing (or nowadays, if the texts stop coming), the provider will eventually hang it up for retirement, and that will be the end of that!
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to Cardude3000 in 411 - Ayden in Miami   
    I’ve been a client of Ayden’s for two years now, and I think he is spectacular. He’s truly an amazing masseuse and he is an absolute professional with his work. He’s very attentive, and he knows where to find a person’s pain points and how best to work with his clients. Frankly, I’m quite surprised to see some of the comments written on this page.  For those who disagree with me, I question whether those individuals know what a professional and quality massage is (I’ve traveled to multiple countries and had massages both stateside as well as in Europe and parts of Asia). I recommend that if Ayden’s name appears on your local registry for masseuses, definitely give him a try. He’ll work with you and give you the attention you need. He’s a 10 out of 10 in my book! 
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to allyouknow in Brand Newbie in NYC: HealingHandsNYC   
    Note to providers: If you keep your rates reasonable the tips and return visits will provide more income. Some of the best experiences I have had have been in the 150-180 range and continue to be. I stay away from guys who charge 250 and list no experience. If I wanted a hot guy to play with I would hire an escort. 
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Robert_LMT in San Francisco   
    Did he offer to stare creepily at you while you did it? 🤦🏻‍♂️ I’ve never understood that. If I’m jacking off, I don’t need company. Either pitch in or get out.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from kdrake in Zemir on PDX/SEA   
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Bluefin in Robert_LMT in San Francisco   
    Did he offer to stare creepily at you while you did it? 🤦🏻‍♂️ I’ve never understood that. If I’m jacking off, I don’t need company. Either pitch in or get out.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from + LS299B in Odd Experience with New Jersey JJ   
    Why is it always the least exceptional looking masseurs who are the ones screening clients for looks? If looks were important, I doubt he would accept himself as a client. To each their own, I suppose, but I find it ironic that the beautiful guys are accepting and these average looking providers have a laundry list of requirements.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Moke in Robert_LMT in San Francisco   
    Did he offer to stare creepily at you while you did it? 🤦🏻‍♂️ I’ve never understood that. If I’m jacking off, I don’t need company. Either pitch in or get out.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from francisssgorg in Odd Experience with New Jersey JJ   
    Why is it always the least exceptional looking masseurs who are the ones screening clients for looks? If looks were important, I doubt he would accept himself as a client. To each their own, I suppose, but I find it ironic that the beautiful guys are accepting and these average looking providers have a laundry list of requirements.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from themsg in Zemir on PDX/SEA   
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from jmichaeliii in Odd Experience with New Jersey JJ   
    Why is it always the least exceptional looking masseurs who are the ones screening clients for looks? If looks were important, I doubt he would accept himself as a client. To each their own, I suppose, but I find it ironic that the beautiful guys are accepting and these average looking providers have a laundry list of requirements.
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to chadLA in 411 on LA: Jasonodin, AlexNeto or EuropeanCB?   
    Get a massage and an In and Out!
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to Bluefin in Robert_LMT in San Francisco   
    If someone tried to charge me for jerking myself off … lol
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Franco in Alan in Chicago and Kenosha   
    Indeed. I’ve been continually surprised.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Topform in Massage Bliss by Steven in DC?   
    That’s why I don’t trust the reviews anywhere but here. On MF the provider decides which reviews get posted and on RM they can block you before you can review. Idiocy.
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    Lohengrin1979 got a reaction from Capitano in Massage Bliss by Steven in DC?   
    That’s why I don’t trust the reviews anywhere but here. On MF the provider decides which reviews get posted and on RM they can block you before you can review. Idiocy.
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to Jamie21 in How to prepare for an outcall appointment as a client   
    I’d expect fresh flowers, somewhere to hang my clothes, some candles for atmosphere, music playing (something classical, I find Mahler or Debussy quite good for massage), Egyptian cotton sheets on the bed of course (not too high a thread count…I’ll judge you on that) and a phone charger should my phone be running low. Payment should be done discreetly afterwards (I find it awkward to ask so please offer it as I dress, in cash). 
    Seriously though….all I look for with an out call is a clean and tidy room, space for my table (if I’ve bought it), no distractions and the possibility to shower afterwards. It sounds like you have all that and more covered! 
     
     
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to bichiguy in Alan in Chicago and Kenosha   
    fair! although I know several of those massagefinder guys do get naked/not straight  lol
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    Lohengrin1979 reacted to SouthOfTheBorder in for providers - the thing nobody talks about   
    for providers - serious question, how do you take care of your sexual health with the current standard of unprotected sex ?  I’m not talking about hiv because that’s almost irrelevant w Prep and most positive gay men on meds.  But that leaves a lot of STIs that can still cause major problems/discomfort.
    for me, condoms aren’t a moral question or decision but rather a practical one.  I just don’t want to spend unnecessary time going to the doctor, testing & then meds if I should be exposed to an sti.  
    i can remember a phone call from a provider years ago saying he had an sti and I should go get tested.  I appreciated the call & sure enough - I had it too.  Ever since then it’s been condoms for me - it just seems that mixing with so many people it would be statistically difficult to manage sexual health.
    Im wondering how working providers who routinely engage in unprotected sex w multiple partners can stay healthy ?   Most guys say they are tested every 2-3 months, but is that even enough ?
    My understanding of DoxyPep is that it’s useful after occasional unprotected sex, but not meant as a routine - maybe I’m misinformed on that - and that really only treats Chlamydia & Syphilis, not gonorrhea and all the others.
    if the providers have any tricks of the trade used to mitigate, I’d like to know that.  And is there any sort of discreet visual inspection that can be done of potential partners ?  do providers ever decline clients if something doesn’t look right ?
    I don’t think anyone actually likes condoms - some people are just more risk averse than others.  And almost nobody discusses or acknowledges contracting an STI.  Honestly, this is my biggest hangup about sex.  
    My sense is established professional providers are more on top of their sexual health than the average person - just another reason why I avoid the apps and prefer paid encounters.  
    I’ve found almost nobody wants to discuss this subject in personal terms - it’s always in the abstract and seemingly unrealistic w very little acknowledgement of the real world. It could be my fears are unfounded - and if that’s the case, I’d like to get perspective on that too
    Ive seen references in other threads about having conversations w providers about sexual health & practices - I’d like to know how that ideally goes from a providers perspective 
      And yes - I know all things carry some risk - it’s about making better choices, maybe not perfect ones.
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