Lohengrin1979

Oh don’t worry. I don’t agree.
You push my buttons but you’re fun. 

I’ll remember you fondly as I’m admonishing my next masseur to not grimace quite so obviously while tending to me. 🤣

Just curious, but how many of those young men were repeat providers for you or even stayed in the business long enough to be? You’re telling an experienced, successful provider you don’t agree with them when their business model works and has provided them longevity.
You don’t seem to value providers beyond their ability to impress you physically and ragdoll under you for a steamy session. Which is fine, but not what everyone is looking for and not what every provider provides. Go ahead and pay for your Grindr hookup if you must but I’ll reserve my bouillon for masters of the craft

Oh don’t worry. I don’t agree.
You push my buttons but you’re fun. 

I’ll remember you fondly as I’m admonishing my next masseur to not grimace quite so obviously while tending to me. 🤣

Oh don’t worry. I don’t agree.
You push my buttons but you’re fun. 

I’ll remember you fondly as I’m admonishing my next masseur to not grimace quite so obviously while tending to me. 🤣

I love how he lists his endowment measurement as 7.1 inches. Precision gets me all hot and bothered. 

Oh don’t worry. I don’t agree.
You push my buttons but you’re fun. 

I’ll remember you fondly as I’m admonishing my next masseur to not grimace quite so obviously while tending to me. 🤣

I really don't think you DO.
Because more than one person has responded to me as if I'm saying that everyone should be picky.
I'm not.
I'm merely saying that there is absolutely nothing wrong with an escort being picky with who they want to serve.  And there's nothing wrong with vetting customers.
Simple.
You don't need to agree..

There was nothing bitchy about my statement. I’m merely observing what you yourself have said many times before. 
 
Since you called me bitchy, does that mean I get to call you shallow and myopic? 
 
Cherry pick all you want. Your way is not the way, not even the best way so maybe kick off your self-righteous “shoes” and stop commenting every time someone brings up appearance. We’re all WELL aware of where you stand.

You mean size queen?

True: Age is just a number…and sometimes it’s a really, really big number.

Just curious, but how many of those young men were repeat providers for you or even stayed in the business long enough to be? You’re telling an experienced, successful provider you don’t agree with them when their business model works and has provided them longevity.
You don’t seem to value providers beyond their ability to impress you physically and ragdoll under you for a steamy session. Which is fine, but not what everyone is looking for and not what every provider provides. Go ahead and pay for your Grindr hookup if you must but I’ll reserve my bouillon for masters of the craft

Just curious, but how many of those young men were repeat providers for you or even stayed in the business long enough to be? You’re telling an experienced, successful provider you don’t agree with them when their business model works and has provided them longevity.
You don’t seem to value providers beyond their ability to impress you physically and ragdoll under you for a steamy session. Which is fine, but not what everyone is looking for and not what every provider provides. Go ahead and pay for your Grindr hookup if you must but I’ll reserve my bouillon for masters of the craft

Just curious, but how many of those young men were repeat providers for you or even stayed in the business long enough to be? You’re telling an experienced, successful provider you don’t agree with them when their business model works and has provided them longevity.
You don’t seem to value providers beyond their ability to impress you physically and ragdoll under you for a steamy session. Which is fine, but not what everyone is looking for and not what every provider provides. Go ahead and pay for your Grindr hookup if you must but I’ll reserve my bouillon for masters of the craft

It doesn't help that certain clients constantly insinuate that everyone who hires except them is ancient, obese and disfigured. 

Well.....considering that the police just busted a couple of guys in a hotel a few blocks from my home (one that is used by many of the escorts who come through town), I'm not sure it's accurate to say police don't care.  If I remember correctly, it's happened quite a few times in Texas recently as well.  I'll stick to the anonymous route.  

Those guys haven’t quite got the idea of what the job is. Definitely right to move on. 
Sometimes I get clients sending me a description of themselves and they ask if they’re suitable to book. They might even include a photo. They have this perception that they need to be ‘fit’ to come for a session. I tell them they only need to be healthy, as in no health conditions that might be a problem, but that their physical appearance is immaterial.
This belief that you need to be conventionally fit arises because so many bad sex workers have criteria or age caps on who they will see. I don’t think those guys are worth booking. Your session will be all about them. 
 

It is an interesting point.  I have visited several masseurs/escorts hosting at very high end rental apartments on West 42 and in the Hudson Yards area.  All of these buildings have doormen who call up the tenant and then unlock the elevator to get you in.  How many times per day or week do they call up and say, Eric your guest is here?  For the most part, gentlemen visiting for 60 or 90 minutes, on average.  Of course they know what is going on.  And so does everyone else who works in that building.
On the opposite side of this, there is a masseur I visit frequently at his West Harlem apartment.  One day, one of the tenants, an elderly lady, said - there is only one reason men like you visit this building and he lives on the 4th floor.
 
 
 

Same here.  I provide a description but would never provide a photo.   I completely agree with Simon above.   I'm paying $300+ for a service and in my opinion, that includes anonymity to some degree.   I'm kind of surprised to read that so many other guys send their pics to an escort for what is still (unfortunately) an illegal activity.  I've met enough crazy providers to know it is likely not in my best interest for them to have my photo and attached message asking about their rate and sexual interests.   In all my years of hiring, I think I've been asked to send a photo twice.  Both times I refused and they still saw me.  

When I was much heavier, I always shared stats with prospective providers. I am tall and used to weigh well north of 300. I would state this when booking so that my providers, mostly masseurs, could let me know if their table couldn’t accommodate me or if they were unwilling/unable to work on someone of that size.
I’ve never sent a photo. I just don’t see the point.

When I was much heavier, I always shared stats with prospective providers. I am tall and used to weigh well north of 300. I would state this when booking so that my providers, mostly masseurs, could let me know if their table couldn’t accommodate me or if they were unwilling/unable to work on someone of that size.
I’ve never sent a photo. I just don’t see the point.

I have scoop.  He's currently visiting Kansas City.  He has been in the US from Russia for under two months.  Bed massage, which is never my favorite.  However, excellent technique for the massage.  Strong, with obvious training and experience.
Nice guy, but a big language barrier as English is new to him (even though massage isn't).  He is a little less defined than in his pictures, but still very fit and he has been blessed.  Nude throughout the massage.
Extras . . . more difficult for him to explain with the language barrier -- he is using Google Translate for much of the communication - but the short answer is a HE upcharge of $40 on his base rate of $170.  I would definitely repeat -- I'm hoping the great massage and good extras become better as he acclimates to the US.  

When I was much heavier, I always shared stats with prospective providers. I am tall and used to weigh well north of 300. I would state this when booking so that my providers, mostly masseurs, could let me know if their table couldn’t accommodate me or if they were unwilling/unable to work on someone of that size.
I’ve never sent a photo. I just don’t see the point.

I consider myself "bisexual" because I will have sex with BOTH gay men and straight men. 😁

Per hour, most therapists are cheaper than an escort.