Lohengrin1979

I met him mid pandemic and found him to be very playful. I don't remember much about the massage so if you are looking for skill in that area, you're best served elsewhere. Overall, he was fun and a nice guy but I haven't repeated because I generally just want a massage.

He has been using those pics for years. At one time, he was known as Major Tom and was, even then, a therapist to avoid. Buyer beware.

Pat is good but definitely spa trained. It felt like he brought a Thai spa to me. Decent massage, looks like his pictures, though if he's 5'9 then I'm suddenly 6'4. I would repeat.

$180 for no mutual touch massage in Tucson, AZ of all places. The market needs a correction, stat. Lol

Are we talking about that large of a tip for private providers or spa masseurs? I tend to double the rate for spa masseurs because they definitely don’t see much of the initial fee. I feel private providers set their rates according to their service and only tip them if they make special accommodations for my schedule, travel a larger distance than normal, or provide an experience beyond what their ad states. It’s worked out so far.

It was usually after the second or third massage from them. After the massage was over and they were toweling me off I said something along the lines of “Hey do you ever do outcalls? I’d love to have you over to my apartment for a massage. I think it’d be more relaxing there.” Then we discussed rates and exchange numbers. Both were open to it but if not, no skin off your back. You lose nothing, right?

I have done this with a couple of masseurs in LA. The above advice is spot on. Ask during the massage. I asked two. Both said yes. It’s more money for them. Also be willing to host. Many of them live with roommates or other masseurs so hosting for them can be difficult.

It’s so off because neither masseur’s single rate for 60 minutes is $300. I would think a four hand is easier not harder for the masseur. By all means, if the business model works for them, go off. It just doesn’t make sense to me

So the massage was great. Definitely some skill especially if you’re in to a Swedish/Thai combo. He’s a nice guy, English is a bit limited but not too much. Looks like his pics with a fit body though he remained clothed. Therapeutic massage but I wasn’t looking for more so ymmv. He has a table for outcalls. I will repeat for sure.

I have an appointment scheduled for tomorrow afternoon. I’ll report back.

Third! Well worth it.

Well that was rather tactless of him. Scratching him off my list.

Nor do I. It’s as easy as explaining that his schedule is full and he can’t take new clients if that is truly the case. I’ve had well-reviewed masseurs tell me as much and never batted an eye. We can try another time. Not to rattle my cane around too much but I don’t remember it being quite this bad when I first started hiring. I’m not sure when things such as common courtesy went so far by the wayside.

You’re one up on me. I can’t even get him to respond. 🤣

This has pretty much been my experience with Carson. Massage is fine, he’s a nice guy, but things don’t build over time. It’s the same medium pressure massage with mechanical ending. I moved on as well.

I always operate under the assumption that sensual most likely means partially unclothed, undraped, with more titillating touches added that include the inner thighs and glutes. If something occurs past that I’m pleasant surprised but exceeds my baseline expectations. Erotic, to me, means both client and therapist are unclothed, the masseur incorporates more erotic and sensual touch at the expense of a truly therapeutic massage, and a HE is had by the client. I do not expect oral, anal, or anything that strays beyond an erotic massage technique and an HE. Again, if something additional occurs I’m happy to indulge. I think that my baseline expectations are reasonable for the type of massage I’m booking and if a therapist balks at those descriptions it’s usually a red flag that I’m about the be offered an a la carte menu or be subjected to someone who only knows how to scratch a back with a moisturized hand for an hour while flexing their quads in short shorts. In that case, I would definitely pass.

Must’ve been the “event” he was preparing for. I wish the ones who graduated to escort would stop advertising on rentmasseur. I’m tired of wading through established and aspiring escorts while trying to find a skilled massage therapist who also happens to work nude. *brandishes cane*

I am so sorry you went through this. I’ve had a similar situation happen with one provider and I pretty much resolved it the same way. It’s a horrible feeling to feel unsafe in strange, dirty surroundings. I am also disturbed by the fact that he is a forum member here and is somehow quasi-shielded by that. Were I you I would absolutely call him out on here and on RM. Let him explain himself. You do future clients of his a disservice by not warning them of the possibility of ending up in that same, unsafe situation.

I did and I would not repeat. Those pics are from a fitter time in his life. PM if you need further details.

Indeed.

https://rentmasseur.com/NERDwBigHands Great pressure, definitely an ass man, and always a fun ending. Don’t let the unfocused picture fool you either. He’s a good looking guy.

Same. I had a massage from him 10-11 years ago. Many of those pics were the same then and he said they were from a trip 5 years before that.

I often reach out to masseurs last minute due to the nature of my own schedule and career. It’s hard for me to carve out time days in advance and have it still be there when the time comes. I am never offended when they aren’t available. I also notice a lot of providers who mention something along the lines of “same day appointments only.” So every provider has their own way of dealing with the vagaries of client availability, I suppose.

Oh come now. If he were after a “different client” than most on here then he wouldn’t be shirtless on his profile with the sensual option checked. As an ex porn actor, he knows the score very well. He’s baiting potential clients with the promise of sensuality of some kind. There is no chiropractor box to check on rentmasseur, after all.

To some masseurs, “sensual” means they occasionally brush an ass cheek with their fingertips on their way to your hamstrings.