Luv2play

I’ve had many massages over the years, from therapeutic, to sensual and erotic. I distinguish between sensual and erotic as follows and I make my expectations clear with the masseur before engaging him. Sensual is where the masseur may be scantily clad as in a jock strap or tiny briefs and I am fully nude on the table. I expect full touching on his part on all my body parts and stimulation but I do not expect to touch his private parts. I do like to caress his thighs, his arms and hands and belly and chest when in range. A happy ending should be included if requested by me. An erotic is at a higher level of contact. It includes all of the above plus can include kissing, not necessarily on the lips but for instance on my neck, back or other parts or vice versa. Does not include penetration but full body contact such as where the masseur lies on my back and rubs up and down. His penis may tease my butt cheeks. I think of erotic massage as like foreplay before the main event with a BFE. Hence I may caress his cock but not suck it. Some erotic massages end up as full service BFE but usually entails moving to a higher fee if the masseur requests and I agree on the amount. All massages should cover my entire body with good techniques. At the end I want to feel full body relaxation no matter what the level.

Actually some escorts I have contacted on RM do ask for an electronic payment in the form of a deposit in advance when I am booking something a week or more in the future and it is a first encounter. I don’t mind at all and it gives me some security that the escort won’t flake as well. Only two times I had to cancel days before the appointment and in one case the escort gave me a credit (it was $200 deposit) and in the other case no such offer was made on the same amount. I eventually did see the former escort and he lived up to the credit arrangement he had offered.

My understanding is that Rentboy was based in the United States and was effectively closed down by the Republicans in the 2000’s. Rentmen is based in the much more liberal Europe where escorting is legal in most countries that matter in the EU. When I travel in the US the Rentmen site is censored and comments are not available to users as they are in Canada and in Europe. There may also be other aspects of the ads which are missing, eg dick size.

In fact you can still get 2X4’s which are as advertised. The Amish people still hand cut them that way in Upper New York State and I have a potting shed made with them. They match the lumber in my house built in 1866.

That song would have a certain resonance in Quebec, where within one generation the province went from being very Catholic to anti-clerical and highly secular.

Last year I hired two porn actors who actually were lovers in real life. It was a great experience having Ryan Stone (the top) and Jay Tymel (the versatile) tag team me. While Ryan was no slouch in the dick department, Jay was humongous and it was only with some great effort I could accommodate him. Tragically Jay died several months after our encounter, which I was very upset to hear as he was a real sweetheart.

I’ve hired a few porn actors in the last couple of years and mostly paired them with another escort to make threesomes.I only hire tops or top/versatiles as I only bottom. In my experience the escorts I chose without a porn background were every bit as good if not better at satisfying me. But it is exciting to be involved with two gorgeous men getting it on in the same bed with me. Without fail they have always made me part of the action. One example was Londonboypete, who has been mentioned in this thread, and Jackson Radiz, who does films for Michael Lucas. Pete is the top and Jackson the versatile. Great tag team.

I had one escort who in his ad on Rentmen said no clients over 65. So I quizzed him about it and he told me he had a client in his 70’s who had a heart attack during their session and the escort called the medics and had to accompany the client to the hospital in the ambulance. After that harrowing experience, he adopted his new policy.

I’ve been away from this site for over 10 years but saw that my registration was still active so thought I would dip my toe in the water. I am still an active client with escorts who I find on Rentmen. Some of them are pornstars. Frankly, I find they are not much different from others that I hire but then I am picky. That being said, some work out (from either category) and some not so much. One thing I will say is that watching them perform in films does not always translate to between the sheets. But then sometimes it does. Which keeps me on the hunt!

When I was spending my winters in Florida at the turn of the century (God how old does that make you feel), I was spending $1.27 for premium gas for my car (which requires it) in North Miami. Now admittedly, in SOBE the price was about $1.36 but in places likw Georgia it was so much less, just over $1.00 But then oil was well under $30 a barrel then. How times have changed! The question to ask is, has your income gone up 300% like the price of gasoline?

My experience a few years ago with him was that he was totally unreliable. Over a three day long weekend he stood me up three times; he seemed to be having a great time at the Black and Blue weekend in Montreal and simply ignored his appointments, getting in touch each time after the fact to say that he had been delayed, diverted, yada, yada, yada... Wouldn't bother with him again.

Well, I've never met THAT Lucky. But I'm sure he behaves well at cocktail and dinner parties too, like my four-legged friend. Having been to Palm Springs several times eons ago, I can remember two legged animals that were not as well behaved in such social situations. But no-one, I would guess, who is a menber of this board.

I've never put Lucky in a kennel too. When I was working and had a dog, she often would spend up to two weeks in kennels while I was overseas on business trips. Probably about a 50 times over 8 years. I regretted it but had no other option at the time. The only time Lucky has been away was when I was in the hospital for two operations and each time he stayed with my brother who has a dog as well. I don't travel overseas anymore since getting Lucky and with a cottage to go to, we can get a change of scene and still be together.

Thank you all for your warm responses to my little story. As I write this the two dogs are lying at my feet, having had another full day of exercise and games. I take them everywhere in the car with me on my little errands. Living in a small town, a lot of people know you by your dogs, even if they don't know your name. They know the dogs' names. Lucky has been with me long enough and is so well behaved that I can take him everywhere, even to cocktail and dinner parties. The new dog, Storm, needs to get trained so that he will act well in these social situations as well. The next few months I will be seeing that he gets this training. He is off to a good start.

I have to thank Steven Draker for getting the picture up as I am hopeless with such things.

Here are Lucky and Storm playing in the backyard (Storm on right).

Yes it is. I knew Lucky was mine really from the day I found him as he was so comfortable with me from the moment I untied him from that fence. But it was 3 months later that it was really confirmed. One cold rainy October night Lucky started to whine at the door and I took him out and we had only gone a few dozen feet when he had an attack of diahorea in the parking lot of my condo. I cleaned it up and we went back inside. I went to bed and about 2 hours later he was whining at the bedroom door again. Again I took him outside and we went down to an empty lot at the end of the parking lot about 100 feet away and he did his business there in the tall grass. We went back in and again I went to bed. A while later he was whining again. This time I opened the door, turned on the lights on the patio and let him go. I watched him run down the parking lot into the dark rainy night and he disappeared for a minute or two. I held my breath. Then out of the darkness I saw this blond dog running towards me and in he came. He went to sleep and that was it. The next morning he was as good as new. It must have been something he ate and he has never been sick again. I felt later that we had really bonded that night as I trusted him to return and he trusted me to be waiting at the door.

Four years ago I found a dog in a Montreal park, abandoned and left tied to a fence. I took him home and have had him ever since and he has been a wonderful companion and great dog. I named him Lucky. We have since moved and now live in a small Ontario town in an old stone house close to the St Lawrence River. We love it here. Three and a half weeks ago we were taking a walk at 10pm and came across a stray dog with no tags and seemingly abandoned. I took him home, thinking I would call the animal control people in the morning. There was a big storm that night and he jumped into bed with me. I decided to call him Storm. The next day I took him to the vets and they called the SPCA to see if any dog had been reported missing. They looked him over and pronounced him a healthy, mixed breed, and fully intact male. The check with the SPCA turned up nothing. A week later I took him in for his shots and we again checked to see if anyone had been looking for him. Nothing. I took him up to my cottage with Lucky and the two had a great time in the lake and running around. He never strayed and gets along well with Lucky. Storm is a loveable dog, likes to cuddle, is full of energy and gets along well with the neighbourhood children and other dogs. He is only about 8 months old and weighs 55 pounds and needs training which I am giving to him. I made one final check with the SPCA 3 weeks after finding him and they said that no dogs had been reported missing for the last month in my town and I could consider him mine, which I do now. I happen to believe in serendipity and things happen in life which are wonderful if you just open your heart and life to the good things that come along. There are lots of awful things that go on too but one must not let those drag you down or make you hardened and cynical. Life is too precious to waste it on the negatives. There are lots of good things around, just like my little puppy, waiting to be appreciated.

I remember as a teenager being over at my friend's cottage one fine summer day when the news came over the radio that an Air Canada jet had crashed apparently due to engine failure with great loss of life. Her uncle happened to be visiting and I saw his reaction when he heard the news. He turned white and said "I hope to God those weren't Rolls Royce engines". He was the president of Rolls Royce. I realized then that airplanes are special creations, not like trains or cars or ships, that transport us to and fro. When they suffer some sort of calamitous failure, people question the manufacturers almost instantaneously. I wouldn't want to be in that business. (And no, the engines weren't RR, but either GE or Pratt and Whitney, I don't recall.)

I agree that the website is very well done. Everything is clear up front describing the level of service you might want. And the pics show a cute guy.

I wonder what Cornelius Vanderbilt would have thought about one of his descendants living in a converted firehouse!

I find it in appallingly poor taste but then as PT Barnum said, you can never underestimate the stupidity/bad taste/gullibility of the American people. Tiger and Nike are just following that dictum.

Does anyone here have any idea how treatment for "sex addiction" works? What does the treatment consist of in terms of specific measures? Group therapy? One on one with a trained pyschologist? Is abstinence de riguer during the treatment phase? Can one masturbate as an alternative? Are "boys nights out" permitted? We all know that alcoholics are generally treated by turning off the booze spigot entirely. This is not the goal of treating sex addicts, I imagine, but rather to channel the sex drive into a narrow and acceptable channel, ie the sex addict's wife/husband or significant other. What happens if the sex addict is no longer turned on by their partner? Does the therapist advise divorce? We all know that alcoholics who are treated have a huge recividism rate. Does the same apply to sex addiction treatment? Has anyone actually studied the issue? I had never even heard of sex addiction until I was middle aged, which seems like only yesterday but actually was a couple of decades ago. In a way I feel sorry for Tiger. With his high profile he will not be able to return to his previous behaviour without it getting out. He is going to live in a fishbowl if he returns to golf, which seems likely given the huge losses being incurred by the profession/industry in his absence. His insistence on privacy that he exerted in the past will be viewed suspiciously in the future. Will he rename his yacht? So many questions.

Perhaps most eyes are on the Olympics. I read that Woods is having his "press conference" on the day that Accenture is hosting its golf tournament. You will recall that Accenture dumped Woods in the most humiliating way, stating that his values did not reflect the companies'. It is interesting that the PGA is offering their venue for the meeting with selected members of the media, who will be permitted no questions. Talk about trying to manipulate the message! Good luck!

Well, I totally disagree with you too! I think I understand something of the advertising world, which apparantly, many do not. Advertising is meant to heighten the public's awareness of a product or service by people who may purchase such an item. This need is particularly acute when the thing being advertised is new or when it is a commodity that needs to be differentiated from its peers. This where a personality like Tiger Woods comes in; he can pitch these endorsements and people will respond by buying them if they buy into Tiger's personal appeal. I have noticed over the years that products which sell themselves don't use public figures to promote the product. Take Mercedes Benz, a fine car that sells well in good times and bad. I have never seen an ad for Mercedes that features anything but the car itself. GM, on the other hand, with its struggling brands like Buick, needs all the help it can get from Tiger (until now that is). Saying Gillette offers a superior product is bulls**t. Schick or any other razor blade will do the job just as well. It is a commodity, costing a fraction of its retail price, which is bloated by the advertising costs that go into selling it. Soap detergent is another classic example that requires personalities to move the stuff. Most people don't realize they are being manipulated by the advertisers. This is what Madison Avenue strives for and largely, succeeds in doing. This is what makes for the (great?) consumer society that is North America today.