Luv2play

A lot of good advice here. In the last two years I have gravitated to overnights and weekends. My weeks tend to be chock-a-block full of activities and daytime and early evening business, all in the volunteer sector. I have been retired for eons but enjoy keeping involved with my community. But the weekends can be quiet. A date with an escort for an overnight or the entire weekend is something I always set up several weeks in advance, sometimes with repeats and sometimes with new ones to keep things interesting. It is something to look forward to, something to relish for the moment, and something to reflect on with a certain glow if all has gone well, which it usually does. Your lifestyle may be different so my experience may not apply in your case. However I can still remember the first weekend I did over thirty-five years ago. Looking back it was only so-so. But I learned from that experience. Up until then he had only been a one or two hour engagement and was a hot experience each time, probably a dozen such dates. The weekend didn’t translate into the same experience multiplied by 24. LOL

I haven’t really studied Canova’s art, especially his bronzes, but I know he did copies of sculptures from the ancient times of Greece and Rome. I once had the opportunity to buy a Canova bronze of the famous Roman sculpture in marble of athletes wrestling. Highly homoerotic. But the dealer wanted $3000 for it and this was 45 years ago when that was a lot of money. I could have also bought an Andy Warhol silkscreen of flowers that same year for $3000 in a gallery in SOHO that sold his work. That was a real lost opportunity:(

BTW I also vote in favour of getting a dog IF you consider all aspects of the commitment; emotional, time, financial, proper care and feeding, exercise and all the other things a dog requires to be healthy and happy. An unhappy dog will take it out on you and your house and furnishings. I got my first dog at the height of the AIDS epidemic before effective treatments were developed. Friends of mine were dropping like flies but I took the step as a bet on my future. Twenty five years later I got another dog after I had been diagnosed with prostate cancer and before I had entered treatment. Again an affirmation of my future. For insurance I called him Lucky. Four years later I found another dog and adopted him to be Lucky’s pal. Lucky died of old age a year and a half ago and my other dog keeps me healthy, emotionally and physically (those walks every day, rain or shine or snow, do wonders for me as well). If something were to happen to me, I have a family that is dog crazy and he would be well taken care of if I were gone. You only have one life to live and putting something off that you want and think would add to your life means foregoing your happiness today and in the future, something you can never get back.

My female Labrador had to wear one of those “muzzles” because she was an inveterate poop eater. Apparently female dogs are more prone to this as they have the instinct to clean up their litter. In any case, as she got older her appetite grew to the point I got a muzzle for her. She was the friendliest of dogs and I know her muzzle stigmatized her but I had little choice.

I lived in Geneva for 4 years back in the 80s and had a very fulfilling gay life including a live in Swiss lover. Worked there occasionally during the 90s and haven’t been back since. I guess I should pay it a visit again as soon as travel permits to see what changes have occurred.

My guess would be that when the pandemic struck, Seattle was one of the first to be hit in the US. Since then of course, the virus has moved on but initial impressions may have made escorts leary of visiting your city. I don’t know how the pandemic has affected business in other major cities you cite and the same goes for here in Canada. I have resumed hiring the last three months but the pandemic is quieting down in Canada unlike in the US.

Not too long ago just before the pandemic struck I had an erotic massage in Ottawa that was just perfect.on a table, the masseur nude, great technique and ambience with soft music and lights low. He also got on the table and rubbed his oiled body on my back and front. No penetration but lots of mutual touching. 90 minutes of bliss. $130.

20 years ago I had a regular masseur (once a month) who was a CMT and a real hottie. Our combined weight was just over 300 pounds and he could get on my back for a full body massage. Then when it got serious he would pull me down so that my chest was on the table and my butt hanging over the end with my legs on the floor. And then he went to town. He also let me suck him before the transition. This was either when he was at the top end of the table and I was on my front or at the side of the table and I was on my back. And in those days it was only $100 for the hour. It was a nice variation on the bed scenario with full service escorts who at that time charged around $150.

I started going bald on the top back of my head around 25, much like my father, and like him it ended there. The front and sides remained thick and to this day almost 50 years later remain so, maybe a bit thinner on top but not noticeable. When I look in the mirror, I see a full head of hair. From the back, when I look in two mirrors, I see baldness. But I rarely look and couldn’t give a fig. I enjoy escorts who are either hirsute or bald or partially bald. It’s what is below the belt that counts for me. I had a few encounters with an escort a couple of years ago who was around 27. His hair was starting to thin and he was very self conscious about it. The first time he came to my house he kept his woolen tuque on until we got into bed. I thought he was very sexy. But he later went to Turkey with some of my money lol to get a hair transplant (this was in 2018). Haven’t seen him since as his ad was removed from RM although I have his e-mail. We’ve corresponded since but it seems his girlfriend didn’t approve of his sideline business and I think it was just to get the money for the transplant.

The details do go online. If you live in the US, you don’t get to see them but we do in other countries. You should speak to your congressman about that.

You handled that situation very well. I probably would have pretended I had never met him before. Learning his real name on the spot might have thrown me as well. In any event I would have done nothing to embarrass him as I highly value discretion on both sides of the client/escort relationship.

Currently I don’t see a problem. I use it exclusively to find escorts. I am also comfortable with their being based in Europe where laws on prostitution and gay sex generally are much more relaxed and progressive. Being in Canada I also get access to all the comments in their reviews, which is very helpful in making decisions re hiring.

He looks great but I wish of the many body pics he had included at least one butt shot. Even as a bottom, I like a nice firm ass on a top, which he is. Why not show us the goods?

I saw his ad on RM over a year ago and was intrigued. He’s on my bucket list but with travel restrictions he’ll be there a while.

I generally avoid escorts who claim they are straight but this one will do mutual oral and French kiss. Who knew.

They don”t call it La la land for nothing.

Well, he could be my son so that makes me...ancient? Ah well, these days I try to avoid those who could be my grandsons! I leave those to the 44yo’s.

I haven’t hired in Europe for ages but don’t consider 250 euros expensive. The cost of living in places like Paris, London and Amsterdam is every bit as high as Manhattan.

I heard a funny joke about sluts today, straight slut but still funny in these times. ”My wife has become the office slut...since we both started working at home.”

I was with an escort not too long ago who told me he started with an agent who had been a hookup for $. The agent set him up on RM with the appropriate profile and pics and took a commission for the first few months. Sort of like a real estate agent. The agent continued to get some serious discounts from the escort. After about 6 months they terminated the arrangement and the agent moved on. The escort told me it was very satisfactory from his view as he didn’t make any newbie errors and is now well established with great reviews.

Not sure what I would do if I live in the States.

I only use RM for hiring and find it very reliable if you do you due diligence by reading the reviews, interviews, if available, into’s listed, and then communicating sufficiently to establish likely compatibility. Didn’t hire the first 2 months of the pandemic but then when numbers started easing up here in Canada and things started opening up I resumed, especially since my birthday was approaching and I wanted an overnight. Have been very selective though in subsequent hires and things so far have gone well. Am mostly doing overnights now to maximize the pleasure and minimize the number of sessions. Sort of like navigating an ice field! LOL

Yes they do look similar. Their height is different so that helps teling them apart. They both look very hot.

I would hire Alex Mecum or Cade Maddox and have actually tried when they were placing ads on RM for Montreal. Neither responded on RM when I messaged them. I understand Mecum’s boyfriend lives in Montreal and advertises on RM but only as a bottom. He’s a hottie too.

I should have also said erotic for me means the masseur is fully naked.