Luv2play

I watched the first half of the original movie on this site the other night and it brought back the memory of watching it the first time in a movie theatre when it was released. I had exactly the same reaction now as then; what started as a fun and campy situation that all takes place in a rather claustrophobic apartment setting, turned into a depressing and melodramatic portrayal of the so-called “gay” lifestyle amongst friends. Back then I was a young man still coming to terms with my being gay. Looking back now, within 10 years I was living that lifestyle and had a similar set of friends. But we had fun and sure the odd falling out but not the angst portrayed in the movie. At that time when I was coming out, I went to see as many gay themed movies as I came across to try to understand the world I so wanted to enter. I learned a lot about the world and myself as a result.

6’8” just to set the record straight.

I would not do a 3-way with two escorts for one hour unless they knew each other and had worked together previously. I’ve never been in that situation. I have hired two for a two hour session. But most often I’ve hired one escort for a longer session, often overnight, and invited another escort to join for 2 hours. I have found the two need time to get acquainted before being completely comfortable with each other since they have not met before and I am the only common denominator, so to speak, as I know each from previous encounters. I have had very good experiences as the chemistry has developed through this gradual getting to know you, over a drink, say, and some fun conversation. I have also found that the escort who is on for the 2 hour session does not watch the clock as he is enjoying himself with a talented performer. And I get to participate and also observe, as it plays out like a porn film before my very eyes and touch. As for the costs, obviously they add up but in my experience well worth it. Nothing like a three way kiss as an example but the combinations are limitless.

I consider a power bottom to be one who is fully involved in directing the action, if we are talking about anal., but could apply to oral as well as other activities. He is not content in just bending over or lying inert on the bed as the top has his way. He is inclined to suggest positions, request a change of positions to vary it up, suggest pacing, request kissing or other forms of body contact, try to set the length of time (although the top has a lot to say about when or if he will climax) and generally help guide the entire session. Needless to say a power bottom is usually quite vocal in expressing his desires and feelings during the encounter. Could you guess I count myself as one??

I have only had one escort in Toronto ask for the donation up front and in that case I did show him his donation which I had already placed in an envelope and was sitting on the bedside table in the hotel room. That was for a two hour session. I may benefit from the fact escorts can access my profile on RM since that is where I found them and contacted them in the first place. Also the fact I have extensive communications prior to the date over several weeks since in many cases I am booking an overnight. Also being a premium client on RM gives me some creds, I suppose as I am in a group that is not known to stiff their providers. All of which is to say ymmv.?

Nice story.

I like his nice full lips as well. Very kissable.

It’s possible he’s making porn vids in Montreal. They have studios there and that might account for the duration of his visit. I’ve met up with other porn actors from the US in Montreal under the same circumstances and they did escorting on the side between takes, which usually go from about 11am to 5 or 6pm. In one of Cade’s films, you actually hear him refer to Montreal near the end of the film when talking to the other actor.

It’s also been my experience about the length of time he takes to respond, if ever. He’s here for another week so I might get lucky. We’ll see.

Cade Maddox is now in Montreal, according to his RM ad. From Oct 1 to 13. I sent him a message this morning on the RM chat so see whether he will respond. The last time he was in Montreal over a year ago it was for a shorter period and he didn’t respond to me. Will see if I have better luck this time. BTW I’m interested in how he got to Montreal as we are supposed to have a closed border with the US except for essential service workers. In my book, he’s ”essential”. Also Montreal has been put back into severe lockdown measures for the month of October so his timing couldn’t have been worse, IMO. Still...

I’ve had a number of sessions with two escorts and me over the years. I alway set it up myself and usually I knew at least one of the hires. It was always something I discussed with botH extensively beforehand to ensure compatibility and “terms of engagement”, so to speak. Always worked out well, even the one a few weeks ago.

you lucky devil.

Small hole openings are known to dilate, if given the opportunity and gentle persuasion. All of the other advice above is also useful. It’s also a mental game, you need to want it.

I’m assuming your trip was a number of decades ago. You touched on a couple of spots where I too had some marvellous sexual experiences with European men. Just two I’ll relate. The first in Nice, where in 1982 I met a hot Corsican at a club and went back to his apartment. He was shorter than me, built like a stud muffin, with a huge appendage. I remember his being a physiotherapist and his clinic was in his apartment in the old town near the harbour. It was a night of carnal bliss and I walked back to my hotel in the early morning, smelling the damp salt sea air as I trod the cobblestones. We kept in touch for a short period by mail and I still have his letters. The other experience was in Rome in 1979. I spent a week and met a Swiss man about my age at a gay club. The club was boring but we repaired to my hotel where we spent the night. We dated several more times that week, always ending up at my hotel. He was living in Rome and had numerous Italian gay friends and one night I had dinner with them all at one of their apartments. It was a bit like Boys in the Band, without the bitchiness. On our last night together, we ate at this marvellous restaurant operated by nuns. We corresponded for over a year later and I still have his many letters. One day I am going to have to burn these letters, amongst many others.

I was in touch with him a year ago but our schedules never meshed. At that time he was based in London, Ontario, a small town west of Toronto. He was travelling sometimes to Toronto and Montreal. Now, looking at his RM, he is all over the place, including upcoming trips to London, England, and back to various places in the US. Like Covid never existed. And the travel restrictions, quarantines, etc. Things aren’t going well in the UK. Neither in many parts of the US, and now even here in Canada. I’m still seeing some regulars but being fairly prudent. Certainly not looking at international travel. Most of my regular international guys are staying put.

Before electricity, they had scrub boards for doing your laundry. His abs remind me of those.

Oh yes, I should have added the reviewer always just writes, wow, amazing!!! or f..ing awesome or some variation of superlatives. Like an endorsement of a soap laundry. Never any description of the actual experience. If you look on RM, he posts reviews about every other day. Personally, I wouldn’t credit him as trustworthy. Others may disagree.

This escort, who appears to be new on RM, has one review. That reviewer has posted at least a hundred reviews, it seems, for every hot profile that appears on RM. He is really a dedicated reviewer and reminds me of those ladies who used to do newspaper reviews of new restaurants when I was young. I always supposed they ended up weighing 300 pounds, given their dedication to French sauces and rich desserts. LOL

There is anecdotal and then there are statistics. And there is history, which is only useful if people are aware of it. Unfortunately, most people are not schooled in history. I always think there is something to learn from other peoples’ experiences, or anecdotal evidence. But then there are the cold, hard facts of history, as much as we can trust the sources. Reading accounts of the black plague in Europe, where populations in large centres such as London were reduced by one third or more, COVID19 doesn’t even rank in the same league. Nor will it, I dare to say, given modern scientific knowledge, assuming the politicians don’t screw it up. Covid19 will not even compare to the Spanish flu, which killed at least 60 million worldwide. Just over 1 million so far. And the world is at last 3 or 4 times more populous. If I had to make a comparison, I would not say Covid19 is “nothing” in terms of previous plagues, but it is certainly not the mass killer that those earlier pandemics were. On the other hand, the economic impacts have probably been the worst, since we are so interconnected globally today, as never before, even 100 years ago.

The beach at the foot of the stairs at the Boomboom was very cruisey at night. Lots of rocks to retreat behind. I suppose that is a dead scene as well.

I’m glad I was able to enjoy the “riffraff” during its heyday. So much fun.

Whatever became of the Boomboom Room in Laguna Beach? And The Little Shrimp? And the ocean-side restaurant a couple of blocks north that was the home of some Hollywood star in the ‘20s or ‘30’s? Had a large veranda in front which could seat around 80 to 100 guests? All great spots in the 70’s/80’s when I spent some time there.

Yes, that’s how I joined. When Hooboy ran the review section, the forum as linked directly.

My only quibble with your scenario is the lone time for both in an overnight date. I definitely allow for it in a weekend date consisting of two nights but really only one full day. During that day I expect the escort will want to catch up on his cell phone and future arrangements so I leave him to do that in another room while I also occupy myself on e-mails etc. For a one night sleep-over, with the escort leaving soon after breakfast, I would resent having to provide time off for the escort to do his other business. After all, I am paying him for his time and the time when we are awake is not all that excessive in relation to when we are sleeping. I’ve never had any issues with this btw and I do a lot of overnights (got one scheduled tonight) and also weekends. For me it’s the only way to operate in this pandemic. I don’t see anyone in the 3-4 weeks between dates and wear my mask wash my hands etc in all outdoor errands such as shopping.