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I'm currently in Montreal (where incidentally the weather is gorgeous, dined outdide last night with my escort). I booked the weekend about 2 months ago and started looking at RM ads last week to make some arrangements. My date last night was with a well reviewed guy who has done some porn. He communicated well throughout and showed up at my hotel on the dot for a 4 hour engagement that included dinner at a nearby restaurant we could walk to. We played before and after dinner and had a great evening. I would repeat. Got another date tonight and something for Sunday. We'll see how it goes. I've gone through the same process with tonight's date but the Sunday one I left till yesterday to arrange. I tried a new hotel and its great. Two beds, one for playing and one for sleeping. I guess careful arranging can help prevent flakes from ruining your time, especially when you go to the expense of travel and hotels. That's always been my experience. I can't recall a single flake who cancelled at last minute.

I agree with those that say keep the sexual stuff out of the equation with your trainer. Over the years I had 3 or 4 trainers when I was doing a training program at various gyms I belonged to, some of which had a heavy gay membership. I never made a pass at my trainers. One I had actually had sex with before he became my trainer but that was when he was dancing at Stock prior to when he opened his own gym. I was fond of him and gave him some art to decorate his gym. But the training he gave me was strickly professional even though we were often the only ones in the gym since it had a small membership.

So sorry for your loss. I imagine that the picture used by his family had been framed by him and hung somewhere special in his home. Or perhaps kept in his wallet. In any case close to his heart. Hopefully it gives you some comfort knowing you were on the other side of the camera and he was looking at you.

I just checked my chats and they only go back to July 2020.

Good question. Have you tried asking RM?

Nice neighbourhood you live in. Lol

Nice find.

Not met him but if yoi do take the plunge report back. He seems very wild in his vids and his twitter account. As a side comment, I wonder if the new rules at twitter are going to change anything concerning escorts using the platform.

I had to do that once when I arrived home at 6pm from out of town and had no candies to shell out. I just had a kid who grabbed the candy out of my hand and exclaimed Burger. He liked the gummies it seems. 😆

Interesting on several points. First they start later around here. Had no one before 6pm. And I also hand out three wrapped pieces of different candies to each kid. They don't have the chance to examine them though as I shove them in their containers before they have a chance to look. Lol

I grew up in a different age with no internet or cell phones. One went out to socialize. As I approached my 30 th year I had a secure job, a rapidly increasing income so that I could buy my first home, buy an expensive sports car to go with my day to day one, and travel internationally monthly with my job. In other words I had it made. I never had trouble bedding guys and while I had boyfriends that lasted months or a year or so, I never found the right guy. Never even thought of "buying" a partner. Today I rent.

Am I the only one here sitting by the door waiting for kids in costumes to knock at the door? I live in an old family neighbourhood and we have lots of kids around who go off to school in yellow buses most days. So you don't notice them too much except for weekends and this evening when they come to my door. I went to the stores today to get the treats and found they were mostly sold out. I managed to find enough. I hope more kids come as it is already 7pm and dark and only a dozen or so have knocked on the door. I just answered the door as I was writing this and the two characters were almost as tall as I am and I'm 5'11". Lol.

I'm not sure about Japan but amongst the G7 countries, the USA lags far behind other advanced countries for vacation, sick leave, parental leave etc. In Canada, when I started working in 1973, I was entitled to 3 weeks vacation, 13 days sick leave and all could be carried over. When I retired 25 years later, I had over 260 days of sick leave and it all went up on smoke. I did use all my accumulated vacation in the form of severance pay. I think over the whole time I only took a couple of sick days annually except for my second year when I had an eye operation and needed a month to recuperate in a darkened room. My employer advanced me the time as I had not accumulated enough.

Is Lucky's sarcastic comment that difficult to grasp?

I sometimes experience mild sore throat symptoms (not acute as I assume you meant) after deepthroating cock for a prolongued session. I goes away after a day or two. I got gonorrhea of the throat a couple of times in my life and that results in a sore throat as well so if the symptoms persist get tested. The cure is relatively painless. You also need to alert your sexual partners, as you would appreciate having them inform you if they were infected. Here in Canada the public health authorities follow up if you test positive for an sti.

Maybe it helps me that I took an undergraduate degree in psychology and sociology. I then studied law and graduated with a degree in law. I acquired a lot of theoretical and practical knowledge of human behaviour. Along the way I learned a lot about myself as well. Society was undergoing incredible changes in the 1960's when I was in school and university. I was undergoing changes in myself and learning to live with being gay in a largely straight world. I managed to survive and I would say thrive in those times despite the difficulties of fitting in. Having friends, family and colleagues and some lovers along the way gave me great support. I also tried to be nice to people along the way. You get back what you give. I never felt the need for therapy. Having gay family doctors at crucial times in my life helped. I consider myself lucky but I also made good decisions for myself as well. Like avoiding drugs, too much alcohol and other self destructive behaviour.

Why in heaven's name would a normal, well adjusted person need a therapist?

I just watched a concert he gave in Toronto in 1968 in a stadium which someone posted in the NYT in the comments section of his obit. While I appreciated his singing style and thumping of the piano, his music didn't do as much for me as some of the other talents of that period. The camera panned to the audience frequently and there they were in the dazzling sunshine, thousands of pretty girls and slim young men dancing along to the music. My generation, the boomers. Today they are all old and gray or worse, gone. Sic transit gloria.

It's been 27 hours since my second dose and only a little mark where tje needle went in. No side effects.

I would for an hour with Cade Maddox but that's just me. I would want it on film though with release rights so I could peddle it to Lucas Entertainment. Lol.

I went to Montreal today and got my second vax sc. The nurse told me I should get a booster 2 years from now as the effects of the two I received will wear off. We'll see what the situation is then. Meantime I feel I have done what I can to deal with the threat of acquiring Monkeypox. Took advantage of the visit to eat at one of my favorite restaurants. And then a lovely walk along the beautiful historic Lachine Canal where it empties into Lac St. Louie.

I don't recall you criticizing the CDC when it dropped its recommendation on masking indoors in March 2021, when other countries like Canada didn't follow suit. And then the CDC having to reverse itself a few months months later when Delta was deemed to be a game changer.

I have tried to loosen up a little in the last few months but as I caught a cold the other day I realize that using a mask over the last several years has decreased my risk of infection from viruses generally. These last few days I have donned a mask whenever encountering anyone. I live alone but saw an escort late last week. I wonder whether he gave me the cold. He did kiss me.

I never use their products. What's wrong with good old soap.

Epigonos and I both go back to the HooBoy era but we have never met in person. Still, from his entertaining posts I felt I had come to know him as he was so open about talking about his life. I knew he was older than myself and admired how he still led an adventursome life right up to the end. Oliver, I know you and he were close friends so this must be a terrible shock, coming as it has so suddenly. Take care of yourself, talk to friends and please stay engaged on this forum. I was so looking forward to meeting Epigonos next April in PS. And sampling his devilled eggs, which he despised but loved to make.