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Was this by any chance Jake, who advertised under jjfeelgoodtouch on masseurfinder? College-age kid, he had a cat? I had experiences with him just like this. Super-nice guy. I wish I knew where he went or how he's doing. I'd definitely revisit him in a heartbeat! (post COVID that is). Super hot indeed.

I used to see a guy in the valley in LA who did Nuru massage. We started in the shower together - which is a very hot way to start and get comfortable with each other. We then got all gooey with the nuru gel and ended in the shower again. Saw him a bunch of times and always the same experience. Super hot - I also plan on asking for this in the post-COVID massage environment. Hopefully, the request will be well received!

I have not seen this thread until now. It is a long one. I read the first page and then skipped to #11, what a nice contrast.
 
I would not be judgmental to anyone in this critical situation. When I see those who run to point their fingers I just become suspicious of their need to put others down. We all may make wrong decisions in moments of crisis, our rights and our wrongs in those situations do not guarantee our future righteousness or lack of.
 
What I am doing is total abstinence. I have been 4 weeks without fucking and I am horny. As I know that I am a weak sluttish spirit, I am doing my best to avoid temptation. All my hooking up apps are logged out. The first time a fuck buddy calls me I explain that I intent to be abstinent until new notice. The second time, I ignore the call. I am watching tons of porn and masturbating a lot. For some reason, online sex does not arouse me at all but porn works wonderfully.
 
I am not afraid of getting sick. I am doing what I think is socially responsible amidst this kind of pandemic. As soon as we "flat the curve" and the risk to collapse the hospitals system is gone, I will be traveling and fucking again, for free AND for a fee.
 
So, answering the OP's question, hell YES. I am spending more in porn, but zero on hiring.

To compare an offhanded 'joke' like "he needs some sandwiches" to the ridicule and mocking of gay men is absurd. At most it deserves a bemused shrug.
 
You may not think the joke is funny or clever or even sensible. But to elevate it to this level of criticism is PC run amok. This is where the goofy term 'snowflake' may actually resonate.
 
For goodness sake, he even labels himself a "twink" in his ad!

I hired them last summer while they were traveling. I was mostly interested in Heath only, but the price was right that I didn’t mind if Matt joined. That was a mistake. Heath was nice enough, definitely the more handsome one, and thank goodness provided the (slightly) better service.
 
Matt, on the other hand, did something during the session I have never experienced before. Halfway through, he... put on a pair of latex gloves. I asked why, and he said it’s something he always does for feet. My feet are not more gross than anyone else’s, but if someone has an aversion to feet, I get it. But, when he was done with the feet, he left the gloves on. I took that to mean that he thought my body was so gross it could not be touched with his bare hands. I’m slightly heavy, but certainly not so gross that someone should feel like they can’t touch me with their bare hands. He started to serve up an HE (with the gloves still on) and I told him not to bother. He was perfectly happy to back off, and Heath finished the massage.
 
although I was less disappointed with Heith, I would never rehire either.

That's precisely what I don't understand about the whole bareback obsession.

Wherever it belongs, we all need to remember that while Prep is effective in preventing the transmission of HIV, it does nothing to prevent transmission of STI/STDs.

Well then Becket, you've got to work on those odds. In the NY market,
I'd say one out of 10 is meh! You've got to reward your regulars and then reach out to new ones after doing your research on this forum.

Jacking off usually works...

He is definitely for real. He worked at Spa de Beverly before they succumbed to the latest antics of our federal government. That is where I saw him.
 
He looks like his pictures, is an absolute sweetheart, and playful. Well worth giving a try.
 
Lohengrin

Not to sound like an a** but you ask about him every so often and the response is the same. He gives a great massage and is really a nice guy. I saw him last week. He had been traveling for like a month or two which may be why he didn’t answer. Why don’t you just take the plunge?

He's itinerant. I think he's spent time in Chicago recently. I saw him in San Diego and hired him for massage from RentMasseur, as I recall. Very good massage, and he typically showers with the client to begin or end the massage. Pics slightly outdated but not drastically. Friendly guy. I would repeat if he was in my area or somewhere I was traveling.
 
More info here:
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-krisswan-chicago.131469/#post-1501903

It can be an expensive habit. I have 2-3 guys I see in regular rotation plus I’m always on the lookout for new ones that might interest me. I try to limit myself to once a month but sometimes that doesn’t last. I’m probably spending upwards of $2K per year, maybe more. It’s my one indulgence I suppose.

Yeah I’ve been there, I feel you. You got to remember that it’s a business, the better they make you feel the more money you’ll spend. Never lose sight of that. Keep things in perspective and you won’t be disappointed.

I disagree with your premise about LA. I find we have a great variety to chose from. I travel a bit and have seen the offering in other cities and I think we have it good. This site alone I’d say a good 30-40% of the discussions are about LA providers.
 
With so many choices there are bound to be average masseurs but I think that’s part of what makes it fun, there is always something new. And while it might be a hit or a miss part of the excitement is that sense of the unknown, not knowing where a session might go and being surprised and awed. While I have my 2-3 go to guys I still like to have new experiences and am glad I live where there are plenty of options.
 
Yes perhaps I’ve been doing this too long. I’ve seen the price points double in the 20 years since I started to partake of m4m massage services. I’ve seen guys come and go and think that I’ll never have experience like that again and then new guys show up to the scene and the cycle starts all over.

So found this guy on Adam4adam, not a site I usually go to for reputable masseurs but he kinda intrigues me. I’m not into that tear drop tattoo at all but I do like his body and youthful looks. He looks fun. I reached out and he offers massage for 100 and full service for 200. Anyone have any info?
 
https://m.adam4adam.com/profile/view/BobbyFuego

So found this guy on Adam4adam, not a site I usually go to for reputable masseurs but he kinda intrigues me. I’m not into that tear drop tattoo at all but I do like his body and youthful looks. He looks fun. I reached out and he offers massage for 100 and full service for 200. Anyone have any info?
 
https://m.adam4adam.com/profile/view/BobbyFuego

go see https://rentmasseur.com/NERDwBigHands you will not be disappointed

I took the plunge and as advertised a nude non-erotic massage. Got to say I liked it, he gave a really good massage. Might not have have been erotic but did feel nice having a young fit naked body rubbing up against me. I’ll definitely see him again. Great value for $100.

I spent the afternoon chatting it up with “Alexta”, just happy to be wasting his time. My take is who ever they are they aren’t even in the country. Odd phrases like “Thanks for patronizing with me”. He gave me a bogus address in Downtown LA and I told him I would be there in 20mins. I even asked if this scam ever works, he replied “No, I am not a scam. You can verify it”. It was fun and then I wrote up a bad review.

I disagree with your premise about LA. I find we have a great variety to chose from. I travel a bit and have seen the offering in other cities and I think we have it good. This site alone I’d say a good 30-40% of the discussions are about LA providers.
 
With so many choices there are bound to be average masseurs but I think that’s part of what makes it fun, there is always something new. And while it might be a hit or a miss part of the excitement is that sense of the unknown, not knowing where a session might go and being surprised and awed. While I have my 2-3 go to guys I still like to have new experiences and am glad I live where there are plenty of options.
 
Yes perhaps I’ve been doing this too long. I’ve seen the price points double in the 20 years since I started to partake of m4m massage services. I’ve seen guys come and go and think that I’ll never have experience like that again and then new guys show up to the scene and the cycle starts all over.

It’s a scam. Happened to me, I talked about it i this thread:
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-seattle-masseur.145883/#post-1675948
 
The thing that sucks is the time wasted. It must be a script because it was exactly the same with me. He sent the info about the card when I was the hotel lobby and he wouldn’t come down to talk until it was done. He also wouldn’t take cash. Scam.

Well it was even worse than that. We texted back and forth and in the end he wanted $100 prepayment in iTunes gift cards. That was a show stopper.

Wait!
I remember reading the “I have a good smell” line before.

I can think of many worse addictions. At the very least, massage is a healthy choice. Good blood circulation is great medicine for your body and brain. Intimate touching is good for the soul and the libido. IMO, massage is the perfect indulgence. A man with the right touch can easily leave me weak at the knees. Don't mind getting on my knees, either, and showing some appreciation in return.