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Maybe it's the "guy next door" types that are overall underrated? In my real world dating life those have guys have always surprised most (in a good way)!

Awwww that's a sweet story to read, true gentle giants very rare.

especially the free ones where the person's data is the product

If the non-compete is so broad and generic it's essentially saying you're not allowed to moonlight using your bread-and-butter skill-set, you may want to run it by a few lawyers since that might not be entirely legal/enforceable.

I'm paranoid so I always worry. I'm also not very lucky, so the paranoia pays off.

Not sure if "passed on" matches, my scenario but when I was looking for my first hire from a handful of providers, things weren't going as well as I hoped. After some homework the guy who was my "first choice" didn't have the best feedback from the clients I reached out to. My second and third choice didn't accept female clients. Fourth choice (student_brad) was not what I would have picked for myself right off the bat, and I wasn't sure they'd be a fit and they didn't have a lot of reviews in general, but the feedback from clients I reached out to was glowing and stood out. So I took the leap of faith and hired him. it's working out so well frankly I'm not looking for other providers at the moment. Student_Brad - Male Escort, Gay massage - Austin | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Student_Brad Gay Escort in Austin, Texas, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Available for videos. | Find all the...

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I guess this might beg the question to fellow clients: What are you tips for finding a provider who is engaging and performs consistently? and Are there any tips for maintaining provider motivation? (beyond the obvious: be communicative of expectations, clean, polite and pay) I'm too new at this, so take with a grain of salt: While I picked from a list of providers I assembled based on looks that I found attractive - and it was a "range" some jocks, some muscle gods, etc. I let the feedback I got from their past clients guide my selection from there, one stood out in terms of feedback (from multiple clients) as being very engaging/enthusiastic in bed and that's the one I picked. So far so good.

Satisfied as peach-y pie over here. I was very hesitant to hire at first, having read about so many disappointments, or stories about a provider who started off great and then stopped giving a shit after 2-3 repeat bookings. So I did a lot of homework (two months of it) and reached out to the clients of providers to help cull the list of candidates. I'm very pleased with the outcome.

I'm new to hiring. I ended up really enjoying the BFE with my first provider so I've just kept requesting it (if it ain't broke don't fix it). I certainly am starting to battle the "feels" because the intimacy and chemistry can seem very real, doubly so since the provider I see has a sweet personality. I remind myself that it's not real, it's just business, and try to keep myself in check. So far my provider has been professional and doesn't really talk about other clients or their personal love life. As long as there's a professional client/provider relationship I have no expectations of anything crossing over into real life, therefore, I just expect he's probably in a relationship(s) and that's none of my business. It's also a given that they have other clients, and considering the nature of the hobby it seems silly (from my POV) for that to incur jealousy- I fully expect and hope they have plenty of good clients that are clean, compassionate and treat them welll. That being said, during the actual booked time when they're on the clock I'm paying them for the illusion that I'm the only girl in the world. That illusion would be hard to maintain if they babbling on about their SO. So I wouldn't say jealousy plays into it, just disappointment if I wasn't getting what I paid for.

it's getting to the point where KYC is probably going to be rolled out everywhere eventually. It's already going overboard, having to prove you're not a minor to use a weather app is such douchebaggery. Papers, papers please....

I'm sort of struggling on what the best way and most polite way to deal with this. I don't wanna kill the mood or shit all over the providers effort to do a good job, but they can probably tell on the inside I assume they're little white lies. I want to believe the compliments, but I just can't trust it. Unless the provider decides to fuck me for free (which never happens as we all know).

I've seen lots on rent.men with average size cocks, and I've used the cock size filter on occasion to eliminate anyone over 7ish. Don't get me wrong, monster cocks are super hot, and I am very tempted, but I know that shit's gonna hurt anatomy like and I'd be wasting my money if I'm not enjoying myself. Average is a very comfortable and fun ride.

I reached out a while back over RM and never got a response back, but it sounds like that's the norm for this provider. 🙃 Is there any kind of magic secret to communication with him for booking? Code language or something "I would like a pork sausage to go, extra mayo."...

Average cock size is a point of debate and personal to everyone, but I consider "average" to be 5-6 inches long, with "well endowed" to be 7 inches or larger. Big cocks are REALLY fucking hot and beautiful to look at, but feeling like I'm (literally) being split in half is not my idea of a good time. 5-6 inches is more than enough to get the job done, and with a lot more pleasure than a really big cock. 7 is a sweet spot: the "fill you up" feeling without the downside of my vagina tearing at the seams. I might dare to venture at 8 inches, but delicate handling of my dainty lady bits would be required.