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I had a brief exchange with him on RM which was good. Wanted to look him up when I'm back in Boston but then saw the ad is gone and he's back under a new handle: Tobias_fit - Male Escort, Gay massage - Boston | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Tobias_fit Gay Escort in Boston, Massachusetts, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. |... I am super into his look but no reviews and then that move super sketchy to me. He's on my radar but suspect he's problematic. But, God, what a body.

I would give it another try. I've met with him twice and he's very kind and welcoming (and hot). I missed him the last time he was in my area and he was sorry and said would let me know by text the next time he was coming. He could just have been stressed/busy/in demand when you contacted him last. As long as your approach is respectful, I think you'll be fine.

$300. Definitely nice and friendly, no doubt, but not very interactive. I think there is a language issue behind that. But it did feel like "let me rub your back with some oil for a little bit, then grab your business, then put my package in your mouth, and then see if we can wrap this up." I totally own that I could have been more directive or clear about what I liked or didn't like. He might respond well to that. He asked me at the end if I had a good time and I said "yes" because I knew I was done and didn't feel like talking through it, though I probably should have.

Recently met with him. HOT bod, very big, sexy man. Very nice piece on him. Kissed but no tongue. Definitely not a trained masseuse. 20 minutes and we were done. Why? To me, based on how the session went, I felt like he wanted to get things over with relatively quickly so I just created my HE and wrapped it up (noticed that he was cooking pasta on the stove when I went to shower afterward, so . . . ) Used a pussy fleshlight on me which, for me, was not my thing. Personally I would not repeat but I think if he had chemistry with someone it might be really good. For me, I've had much better, longer sessions with others which left me very satisfied.

For kissing, yes! At least that was my experience

Tried to have a session with him. He offered erotic with release for $250/hour or cuddling (with no offered or implied release) for $400/hour. I said that I'd like a combo. He said sure, send me a $30 deposit. I did. Then he let me know that it would be $500/ hour for erotic + cuddling. Now, look, I own that I didn't ask for clarification on the hourly rate after asking for the combo. But he has to own not clarifying the rate before agreeing to the combo and then, after getting the deposit, dropping the $500 bomb. I cancelled our appointment. To his credit, he returned the deposit and I really appreciate that. But my advice to all is that before engaging him, be VERY clear on what he will charge. I would pay $500 for someone with whom I've spent time with before but definitely not the first time.

I forgot to add that I met up with him again a month ago and it was great! He's very sexy and gives a great massage as well as all the rest.

I had a session with CatCityAndy and overall it was really good. He's very sexy if you are into daddies (and I am) and my "massage" devolved to luridness (ha!) very quickly. My only criticism is that the music he played was not relaxing and conducive to zoning out and relaxing (which is where I'd like to be, at first) but otherwise it was a great experience.

To clarify, I'm counting a text I sent as 1 and his reply as 2, etc. Yeah, it was around 200 back and for texts. It was a really great convo and I was enjoying getting to know him. there were a 3-4 breaks over the two days and he re-initiated a couple of times. Sooooo, yeah, don't know what happened. And, I think, for me this is the core of the issue and why I've commented. I've had a couple of providers stop communicating/blow me off (not in THAT way!) before and I've not bothered to comment on it here. This just seems really weird. Eh, he's a busy, popular guy, shit happens. I'm just curious of others have had or may have the same experience.

I've NEVER had that much of an exchange with a provider before! Hence my confusion.

I had a very nice experience with him when he was visiting my city last year. Would definitely recommend. Very handsome and personable. I booked him through RentMen and not RentMasseurs so wan't expecting a massage.

So I appreciate the responses about the great interactions others have had and I do not deny your experience. I'm glad that was your experience. What I am telling you about is my experience. 200-something exchanges on text over two days, with 4-5 promises of letting me know that day when he could meet with me (and me telling him it's cool, I'm flexible, don't sweat it) and then, with no time offered and after an inquiry about how he was doing a week or so before he was arriving in my area, nothing. And when I checked in after his time here to say "hey, did you actually arrive?" a quick but fairly rote response like "well of course I was there, why didn't you think I was". Well, OK. I was respectful, not rude, was complimented by him on how nice I seemed, was told I was added to his contacts. I'm not sure what happened or why it happened but it happened. I think it's important to share the experiences that we've had, truthfully, for others to decide how they want to move forward with providers. You may not want to hear about my experience or may not believe my experience, but it was my experience. The only way it makes sense to me is that I was interacting with a bot. If I wasn't, then that's not too great either.

So I'll just say that I had a disappointing interaction with "Vin", and the quotes are because I think I was texting a bot (foreshadowing!). I reached out on RM and was directed to a cell number. I texted and was surprised to have an immediate response. Had a long, wide ranging exchange over a couple days which was really nice. He complimented me on seeming like a cool person, showed that he entered my name in his contacts (there was come confusion with someone with a similar name). Told me several times he would get back to me shortly with times to meet during his visit. After two days of exchanges, silence, even after a prompt "Hope your day was good!". OK, fine. I texted him today, 4 weeks after our original exchange and after he was in my area and said "Hey, why did I not hear from you?" Got a rote response back about his travel dates. Asked (as I had researched) about "Danny" in the second person "e.g. Why did Danny not get back to me?" After 20 min, no response. So, I cannot comment on Danny as a person, but I believe he is using a chatbot in his texts. So be aware.

Saw him for the first time recently and I echo what ProjectX and Westcoaster have said. He's a very hot, very masculine man and it was a great massage with "extras". It also almost became a deli experience as we both became worked up but that's not what I wanted at the time. I'm in my 50s, decent shape but a bit paunchy in the middle so I don't think he's got a problem with older men. Will absolutely repeat.

I saw Jack for the second time last week. He's totally my taste and the massage was great, he really knows his stuff. Very nice HE first time. This time had HE, then he decided to see if he could get a second HE after waiting about 3 minutes. And he was successful! I'm still in awe. Hope I'm not oversharing!

I wouldn't put it that way. I never felt like I was in danger at all. I would say that he's a dominant guy that will go for what he wants, unless you set boundaries, which he respects. I think a lot of men on here would be really into a very take charge guy.

I will add my experience. He actually contacted me after I looked at his profile, saying that he liked my stats (6'4", 220, 50s). I love built, hairy men so I was interested. We chatted a bit and then set up a time to meet. He asked for about 1/3 of the meeting upfront which seemed odd to me but I did it. He is very handsome and has a fantastic body (based on what turns me on - muscle and fur). We had a good time but I agree with a previous poster that he is focused on what he wants to do. I was totally into everything he wanted to do (except fucking me which he REALLY wanted to do but that's not first date activity for me!) so I really enjoyed it. GREAT kisser, definitely one of the best I've had. I also agree with one (or more) previous posters that if he's into you it's hot AF but if not, he might be testy. Clearly (to me) he's really into older, bigger (in all ways) men. So to sum up, I would say if you're a top, if you're not 40+, if you're not tall and if you're skinny, he's not your boy. If you are these things, then he is a lot of fun.

I met up with him in March 2024. He is hot af and he really knows his massage. It felt great and we got off together. He is very, very well worth it.

I found him to be very hot and even bigger than his pictures. He was very sweet and fun. I would definitely meet with him again.