9injock

I met with Phil today 01-10-2025, and was as great as the last three time. Very attractive, polite & courteous. His body is immaculate. He is a great conversationalist. What he advertise is what he gives. I always get the most out of each & everyone of our sessions.

Sorry for those two whom I blocked, but I’m being seriously harassed by somebody who keeps making new profiles over and over and over again so if your profile would happen to be new or within the last couple of months, I will block you instantly due to the nature I just stated. It no hard feelings. I don’t trust new profiles. And for the name change is because I was dating someone and I took that profile off and since we are no longer dating I came back onto rentmen. I hope that sums everything up for everyone. If you’ve never been seriously harassed when you don’t even know the person then you would understand what I’m going through.

Sorry for those two whom I blocked, but I’m being seriously harassed by somebody who keeps making new profiles over and over and over again so if your profile would happen to be new or within the last couple of months, I will block you instantly due to the nature I just stated. It no hard feelings. I don’t trust new profiles. And for the name change is because I was dating someone and I took that profile off and since we are no longer dating I came back onto rentmen. I hope that sums everything up for everyone. If you’ve never been seriously harassed when you don’t even know the person then you would understand what I’m going through.

Haha. Don’t lose heart @azdr0710! It’s expected given the nature of the connection.  People shouldn’t take it personally and should just move on. FWIW @9injock and I are being adults about it and taking it to DM and re-engaging. He’s been a gentleman about it. So if anyone is blocked just DM him and sort it out or agree that it’s better off just seeking other connections. 

Sorry for those two whom I blocked, but I’m being seriously harassed by somebody who keeps making new profiles over and over and over again so if your profile would happen to be new or within the last couple of months, I will block you instantly due to the nature I just stated. It no hard feelings. I don’t trust new profiles. And for the name change is because I was dating someone and I took that profile off and since we are no longer dating I came back onto rentmen. I hope that sums everything up for everyone. If you’ve never been seriously harassed when you don’t even know the person then you would understand what I’m going through.

Sorry for those two whom I blocked, but I’m being seriously harassed by somebody who keeps making new profiles over and over and over again so if your profile would happen to be new or within the last couple of months, I will block you instantly due to the nature I just stated. It no hard feelings. I don’t trust new profiles. And for the name change is because I was dating someone and I took that profile off and since we are no longer dating I came back onto rentmen. I hope that sums everything up for everyone. If you’ve never been seriously harassed when you don’t even know the person then you would understand what I’m going through.

Nothing is necessarily “wrong” but opening up a conversation with a rate inquiry is tacky and immediately makes you sound poor. You basically introduced yourself as “Hi I’m a bargain shopper, is this the discount escort section?” l’m sure this is a turn off for providers, especially for the more elite providers who are only interested in wealthy clients. A wealthy client will NEVER start a conversation with a rate inquiry because money isn’t an issue. 
Furthermore his rates could differ based on the desired service (massage vs dinner companion vs BFE). But it appears you didn’t include what you were looking for or even a basic greeting. 

I think some providers assume multiple photo views indicates someone is getting off looking at their photos (instead of paying the provider to get off in-person). For me, repeat views is an indicator of my bad memory. 

If someone blocks you (on any site or social platform), accept that and move on. The person wants nothing to do with you and they have that right. 
 
Just like you have the right to block people when the tables are turned. 

Provide some context please. No one blocks for no reason. I’ve hired him and he’s a great provider.
 
Have you flaked before?
Have you chatted previously or asked for additional pics without hiring?
Did you ignore any instructions on what to do when contacting them? 
Did you open the conversation with “What’s your rate?”
Is your profile new?
Is your profile info incomplete?
Are you not a Premium Member?
Have you not left any reviews for other providers?
Were you not respectful?
Were you overly sexual or trying to sext for free?
 
All these could be considered red flags. If you answered yes to any of these, that’s probably why you got blocked. And successful providers who have a steady clientele base and don’t have to say yes to everyone are usually very quick to block

Once or twice year I’ll pack up a month’s worth of luggage (which is a lot for me) and do at least 2 cross country rides. Generally called “tours” and can last a month or longer. This year, for fairly understandable reasons (hotel prices, gas, biz being less than desired): I haven’t done any. I’ve been traveling, but mainly just keeping it within a day or 2 drive from my home market in the middle of America. The last time I did one, was going to D.C. September 2023, but I couldn’t continue to New York, because I came down with Covid while I was in D.C. (Thankfully got on Paxlovid the next day and only took a couple days to clear).
But, I decided to go out on a limb and do a trip to California South this year: especially since hotels dropped in prices a lot once school started back up. Overall, it’s a 3-4 day drive across a few cities…but staying in each one for a couple/few days can add more time to it.
On my way to California: things were good, but there was rocky periods in between. Got scammed on the 2nd city I went to: Denver. I had a person I set up before arriving (albeit he didn’t send a deposit, my first mistake). I get there, he drags things along, eventually cancelling the morning of. Not great but, I got past it. However that was my only other booking I had scheduled because I only planned to stay 2 nights max. But ended up being a night and half day instead. Went to the next state, stayed a few days: booked 3 clients, everything was looking up.
Then I went to Arizona, and other than 1 newbie in Phoenix and 1 regular elsewhere: it was nothing going on. 1 guy who was in touch with me WEEKS prior to arriving, he ghosted when I got there, but then reached out again on my last day. I’m asking him to confirm, he doesn’t…just kept BSing and asking questions like, “are you really here”, wasn’t picking up his phone when I called: waits til 10:30 pm to say “I’m ready to send it” when I was telling him at 3 pm I needed a confirmed deposit within an hour: I told him too late, and I continued on to my next destination in California. 
 
Get to California: Shit show central. Multiple booking requests in San Diego area, not a single one panned out. Also advertised LA/Palm Springs: Only person I met was someone I was doing a makeup session from earlier this year. Everybody else were just playing games. Ended up traveling 3.5 hours to another city in the valley. Booked with a couple serious clients full service, but had horrendous World Series LA traffic to get there.
I did another round to San Diego and Palm Springs, But still nothing. It was coming up to Halloween and I was ready to leave, even though I was enjoying my time and the people I was with. 
 
The biggest “scams” came on the drive back: I stopped in 3 cities, and not a single person from RentMen or RentMasseur managed to SHOW UP. One after the next flaked, ghosted or cancelled. I only got 2 deposits worth $150 out of it all. It literally felt like zombie apocalypse the whole drive back. Election Day of course didn’t make things any better. I actually took my number down except on my website for a few days: I didn’t even have the motivation to answer the phone anymore. I was out of money, out of patience, and just couldn’t be bothered.
My latest scam: client reached out, requested a session: says he “hasn’t had good luck” with deposits. I agree to meet him with address as alternative: Sends address but then goes completely ghost the next day, even reading text to confirm…and ignores it. So I didn’t even waste my time going. Actually, the scam after that was when I stayed in a city an extra day, person reached out late for either a morning session or “could he spend the night” at my hotel if he came over: which I said normally not for a first time client, but then he still flaked the next morning, never sent deposit as requested even though HE SAID he could do Venmo. And then just declined the cancellation fee request that I CLEARLY OUTLINE in my ad:
The whole point of this is simply saying: No matter how many times a client(s) claim they’ve gotten scammed: for every 1 time it happens, it could be happening 10 times for us. It’s sad that I can’t really trust the majority of people who reach out from the RM sites much. I don’t know what’s happened, places that I used to do well: were barely producing this time. And I don’t get to do trips like this often. This was a lot of money and time spent, yet I only accomplished 1/4 of what I needed done because: without clients keeping their word, it makes it harder to afford the trip and take care of expenses back home.
And before anyone says it: this is not a pity party or “playing the victim” (and people should read why that’s bad form). This is just an illustration of how merely advertising in the industry as a Rent Man/Masseur can be exhausting, unpredictable, expensive, and not always exactly what it seems. If anything, there needs to be more accountability taken by clients and the RentMen platforms, versus cowering away from a responsibility to be reliable with people they reach out to. 
 
It’s also not great when a “client” contacts a provider like myself and uses words like “sounds like a scam/scammer” or immediately refers to being burned by another escort who I have no idea from Adam. I don’t think that requires me to let down my guard and take a risk, multiple risk(S) that I’ve already taken more than once and seen the results.
Going forward, I’m limiting a lot of my accessibility to texting and being very to the point with inquiries, moreso than I’ve already been. If I have to screen shot my ad to them, and making sure they’ve actually read and agree ✅, that may be what it takes. 

Sorry for those two whom I blocked, but I’m being seriously harassed by somebody who keeps making new profiles over and over and over again so if your profile would happen to be new or within the last couple of months, I will block you instantly due to the nature I just stated. It no hard feelings. I don’t trust new profiles. And for the name change is because I was dating someone and I took that profile off and since we are no longer dating I came back onto rentmen. I hope that sums everything up for everyone. If you’ve never been seriously harassed when you don’t even know the person then you would understand what I’m going through.

Sorry for those two whom I blocked, but I’m being seriously harassed by somebody who keeps making new profiles over and over and over again so if your profile would happen to be new or within the last couple of months, I will block you instantly due to the nature I just stated. It no hard feelings. I don’t trust new profiles. And for the name change is because I was dating someone and I took that profile off and since we are no longer dating I came back onto rentmen. I hope that sums everything up for everyone. If you’ve never been seriously harassed when you don’t even know the person then you would understand what I’m going through.

@9injock  perhaps forum members here who were blocked via your RM account can DM you here via the forum message system??

Sorry for those two whom I blocked, but I’m being seriously harassed by somebody who keeps making new profiles over and over and over again so if your profile would happen to be new or within the last couple of months, I will block you instantly due to the nature I just stated. It no hard feelings. I don’t trust new profiles. And for the name change is because I was dating someone and I took that profile off and since we are no longer dating I came back onto rentmen. I hope that sums everything up for everyone. If you’ve never been seriously harassed when you don’t even know the person then you would understand what I’m going through.