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Anyone have anything to share about this guy? Didn’t find him in a search. Might make a trip to Boston to see him if he’s worth it. Ticks a lot of boxes for me. https://rentmen.eu/whiteandhairy/#rmotd

Hmm. Wonder if the pics are from 2019 also. Very interested in this guy but wish there was more feedback on him.

I have an escort I am starting to make a regular. Have seen him about 6 times total over about 16 months, but three of those were in the last three months. We have never renegotiated his rate from the first time we met, which was $425 for 90 min. On second and third visits, I gave him $500. By our fourth, when I knew I wanted to keep it more regular between us, I bumped up to $550. Interestingly, I’m always the one suggesting it’s time to wrap up at about 90 minutes. I’m sure he’d hang out a little longer if I wanted. I try hard to keep our texting brief, respect his time, and hope he feels like I am one of his best clients. I’ve told him explicitly I don’t have romantic feelings but I’m fond of our time together and I’d like to keep seeing him as often as we can make it work and as long as we are both comfortable. I’m sure I’ll bump what I pay even more at some point. In the long run, the connection I have with him is worth it.

Agree he's not as hairy as most otters, but he would scratch my itch.

HI @bobsboy51. I've seen Mario a few times as well and am a big fan. Highly recommend him to anyone looking in NYC or wherever he is traveling. I may very well book with him again but was wondering about other possible recommendations as well. Thanks.

Thanks. This guy definitely ticks my boxes. I’ll at least reach out to him to find out more.

Appreciate that feedback. It’s a good point. I am booking with this guy more frequently, mostly cuz logistics have just worked out that way (we’ve been in the same city more than usual), but I am liking seeing him more often and will do my best to make it more regular.

Fair enough. It’s why I asked for perspective. Thanks for responding.

I always wonder about the right amount to tip. I’ve seen this guy a handful of times now and want to step up how much I pay him just because it is a good fit for me in terms of meeting exactly what I want out of a session. I don’t necessarily want more time or anything extra when we meet but do want him to understand that the service he offers means a lot to me, which I tell him.

Agree. And only 1 review.

Anyone ever try him? Would be interested to know your experience. DMs ok. https://rent.men/J_nyc

Hey guys. Gonna be in Brooklyn soon and looking for recommendations for otter-y types who like to bottom and can give a good boyfriend experience. Prefer 30s-40s, nice real bods (Adonis muscle guys not my thing), any race, no partying. Let me know if you have experience with any easygoing, reliable guys. Thanks!

generally tip about 25% plus I offered to pay for the hotel night on top of that

Hi guys. So there’s one provider I see pretty regularly who really matches what I need physically and emotionally when we meet up. I always tip generously and am straightforward in our dealings so I don’t waste his time or make extra demands on him. We don’t live in the same city but he is visiting near where I am to see family for the holidays. He let me know he’d be in town and we booked about a week or 10 days in advance for a time that he set. I offered to pay his hotel room for the night as an extra holiday thank you and a cost I would normally cover anyway when we are together. I had to drive about an hour to meet him. On my way, he wrote to say he was tied up with family and would need another 30 minutes and did I want to book for the next night instead. Told him I was already on my way, but that if it didn’t work out, I’d understand. I can’t meet him the other nights he is in town, as I already made plans to be away from home tonight. Asking for a little perspective to understand how annoyed I should be. All in, I’m on the hook for a good chunk of change to cover our time and his hotel, which was my offer and which I genuinely meant as a way to help him out. But I realize I was maybe expecting a little special treatment above and beyond our normal routine in terms of some extra time or lack of wrapping up exactly after 90 minutes. Am I wrong to be slightly irritated that we may have to watch the clock as normal, as I have to get back on the road to get home after? To be clear, this is not a situation of me thinking there is anything more between us than an agreed-upon exchange. My question isn’t about romance but whether he is taking advantage in some way or if I am being unreasonable in expecting some kind of gratitude for shelling out an extra couple of hundred bucks to pay for his room on top of his regular fee plus a tip. Curious for outside perspective and totally understand I may be the one being unfair in this scenario. Thanks for any constructive thoughts.

Thanks Bozo. Syracuse is a little far for me, but Tommy Parker seems like he’d be worth a trip!