I feel for anyone who's engaged in anything that's caused their life to become unmanageable. Almost everything can be abused. To those who offer this kink or for those who engage in it responsibly, where both parties are getting what they want without causing life to become unmanageable, I'm indifferent to it. I'm not for or against it under those circumstances. It's nothing I've ever engaged in, the very few times I've been asked if I'm into it I've always said what I say when something doesn't hold my interest, "it's not for me"