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I wouldn’t say Kai has a “bad reputation”, as his reviews here seem mostly good + RM reviews are stellar. Critical points here seem to be regarding his possible neurodivergence, which isn’t a bad thing.
 
However, when an unknown individual seems to sign up and under 10 minutes later, posts a laudatory review of someone, it does raise eyebrows. I honestly think that if @MJBis not Kai, he’s doing Kai a disservice unfortunately. The novelty of your account will naturally arouse suspicion about whether you are Kai and trying to inflate your public image. 
 
The best way to engage in good PR (if you choose to engage at all, which may not necessarily be good) is to sign up as yourself and interact publicly with the members on here as Kai.  
 
Many providers have done that before/ dispelled negative rumors about themselves/etc.

I love his dick. He and LukeMarco are, in my opinion, the best Black Tops.
 
Luke has moved from the West Coast to NYC unfortunately. I wish I could afford to fly guys out to California 😂.

Here’s someone I’d recommend  https://rent.men/Sirock_twelve

Here’s someone I’d recommend  https://rent.men/Sirock_twelve

Look at the ass on this sexy man. Newly joined to RM.

https://rent.men/AngeloXLFit

Having seen him myself and being in my mid 70s, I can say he’s definitely into and passionate with guys our age.

Look at the ass on this sexy man. Newly joined to RM.

https://rent.men/AngeloXLFit

Look at the ass on this sexy man. Newly joined to RM.

https://rent.men/AngeloXLFit

Seems like this was on accident.....

Saw him as well as AngryItalian back in SF. Might be my favorite tops there. Luke is a great guy to hang out with, and he has a good sense of humor. Agreed- he gives an excellent pounding. 

Having seen him myself and being in my mid 70s, I can say he’s definitely into and passionate with guys our age.

Having seen him myself and being in my mid 70s, I can say he’s definitely into and passionate with guys our age.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Maybe the PNP tag means he doesn’t object if the client uses.  Although I think most would view power bottom as a compliment.

I see birds on a nearby lake that look like ducks and they quack like ducks but they’re not ducks. They’re geese. Just sayin.

Jeez, clown, wtf? He didn’t “deny he was a drug user.” That’s inflammatory. He said he’s “not a meth addict - not even close.” For all you know - and in fact don’t know, since you’ve never met him - maybe he sometimes enjoys a joint before sex. Relying on AI is just foolishness. 

Welcome to the forum. I wouldn’t attach too much credibility to a one sentence comment from an infrequent correspondent. Many view “power bottom“ as a desirable talent and seek them. PNP covers a lot of ground. It usually doesn’t include meth but it is a major turn-off to many of us with an aversion. The best remedy to a single negative comment is to rack up some good reviews here and elsewhere. I think starting this thread is a step in the right direction but I wouldn’t waste too much energy trying to have the one comment retracted. 

I’m starting this thread because I’m tired of seeing toxic clients post baseless slander and fake reviews just because they didn’t get their way with a provider.
A few months ago someone posted this about me (Jacob_Session):
“Big time crystal meth addict and power bottom”
That comment is completely false. I’m not a meth addict — not even close. And throwing around “power bottom” like it’s some kind of insult just shows how petty and insecure some people are. Versatile providers exist who can top or bottom depending on chemistry and mood. Shaming someone for it says way more about the poster than it does about me.
What makes it worse is that right in the same thread, another member (Travpilo) left a very positive and detailed review:
“My experience was great. He catered to my desire to make out as a lead in… and his oral and bottoming skills were both outstanding. Some great conversation when we were done was a great finish. Didn’t notice any drug issues.”
One person lies to smear me, another has a genuinely good experience and says so. Yet the nasty comment stays up while the truth gets buried under “bump” posts asking for more reviews.
For the record: I have a Bachelor’s of Science in Atmospheric Science with double minors in Broadcast Meteorology and Mathematics. I’m currently returning to school for my Master’s in Disaster Resiliency and Leadership. I work hard and take pride in being a good, reliable guy in this business. I shouldn’t have to defend basic facts about myself against random anonymous attacks from people who know nothing about my life.
I’ve already reached out to the moderators asking them to remove that defamatory post. It crosses the line from opinion into clear slander, and it needs to come down.
Providers — have you dealt with toxic clients leaving fake reviews or baseless accusations when things didn’t go their way?
Clients — what do you think is fair here? How do we keep the review system honest without letting bitter people tarnish reputations?
I’m not looking for drama. I just want this community to stop tolerating this kind of garbage. We’re all tired of it.
Thanks for reading. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Yup. I think deposits of something like $50 are ok, especially when it’s done for a guy with at least 40 5-star reviews and good commentary on CoM. 
 
There is way too much anti-deposit hysteria going on, and you never hear about all the times that a deposit DOESN’T get stolen, because of human’s natural attention bias towards negative outcomes (occasions when a deposit DOES get stolen).
 
Its similar to how not every story of police good-doing (saving a life or rescuing someone) gets put out, but police-civilian deadly mishaps are much more likely to get coverage.

I agree. Providers have every right to ask and, of course, we have every right to refuse and move on.