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Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Agreed. It's instinctive to attack people with vile words like "stupid", but sexual urges can cloud  proper judgement at times. Lets have some grace for the OP here- he's coming here for support and probably constructive advice.

Maybe the PNP tag means he doesn’t object if the client uses.  Although I think most would view power bottom as a compliment.

I see birds on a nearby lake that look like ducks and they quack like ducks but they’re not ducks. They’re geese. Just sayin.

Jeez, clown, wtf? He didn’t “deny he was a drug user.” That’s inflammatory. He said he’s “not a meth addict - not even close.” For all you know - and in fact don’t know, since you’ve never met him - maybe he sometimes enjoys a joint before sex. Relying on AI is just foolishness. 

Welcome to the forum. I wouldn’t attach too much credibility to a one sentence comment from an infrequent correspondent. Many view “power bottom“ as a desirable talent and seek them. PNP covers a lot of ground. It usually doesn’t include meth but it is a major turn-off to many of us with an aversion. The best remedy to a single negative comment is to rack up some good reviews here and elsewhere. I think starting this thread is a step in the right direction but I wouldn’t waste too much energy trying to have the one comment retracted. 

I’m starting this thread because I’m tired of seeing toxic clients post baseless slander and fake reviews just because they didn’t get their way with a provider.
A few months ago someone posted this about me (Jacob_Session):
“Big time crystal meth addict and power bottom”
That comment is completely false. I’m not a meth addict — not even close. And throwing around “power bottom” like it’s some kind of insult just shows how petty and insecure some people are. Versatile providers exist who can top or bottom depending on chemistry and mood. Shaming someone for it says way more about the poster than it does about me.
What makes it worse is that right in the same thread, another member (Travpilo) left a very positive and detailed review:
“My experience was great. He catered to my desire to make out as a lead in… and his oral and bottoming skills were both outstanding. Some great conversation when we were done was a great finish. Didn’t notice any drug issues.”
One person lies to smear me, another has a genuinely good experience and says so. Yet the nasty comment stays up while the truth gets buried under “bump” posts asking for more reviews.
For the record: I have a Bachelor’s of Science in Atmospheric Science with double minors in Broadcast Meteorology and Mathematics. I’m currently returning to school for my Master’s in Disaster Resiliency and Leadership. I work hard and take pride in being a good, reliable guy in this business. I shouldn’t have to defend basic facts about myself against random anonymous attacks from people who know nothing about my life.
I’ve already reached out to the moderators asking them to remove that defamatory post. It crosses the line from opinion into clear slander, and it needs to come down.
Providers — have you dealt with toxic clients leaving fake reviews or baseless accusations when things didn’t go their way?
Clients — what do you think is fair here? How do we keep the review system honest without letting bitter people tarnish reputations?
I’m not looking for drama. I just want this community to stop tolerating this kind of garbage. We’re all tired of it.
Thanks for reading. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Yup. I think deposits of something like $50 are ok, especially when it’s done for a guy with at least 40 5-star reviews and good commentary on CoM. 
 
There is way too much anti-deposit hysteria going on, and you never hear about all the times that a deposit DOESN’T get stolen, because of human’s natural attention bias towards negative outcomes (occasions when a deposit DOES get stolen).
 
Its similar to how not every story of police good-doing (saving a life or rescuing someone) gets put out, but police-civilian deadly mishaps are much more likely to get coverage.

I agree. Providers have every right to ask and, of course, we have every right to refuse and move on. 

I made an exception for the first time and sent a deposit (a no-no for most here). He sent me a face pic — very cute. Easiest communication to set up the meeting. Met with him and had an unforgettable time. Showed up on time with a big smile. Passionate kisser and was amazing at everything else. Great stamina and made every minute count. Nice sense of humor too. Up there with HenryAtwood and Kiddo as best in NYC. 

I’m excited that he has returned to NYC and I get to see him again. 

Ah, I see now! He moved to NYC already? I was wondering why I wasn’t seeing him in the SF Rentmen homepage.
Amazing for him but sad for me. A west coast treasure as wanderwest said above. He has one of the best asses on a top I’ve ever seen, in addition to a beautiful cock and an exceptional personality/intelligence.

No, I was not.

Perhaps it was a peculiar day, and the provider is not typically stinky.
I also question the possibility that he would be accepting of you requesting him to wash your butt and you washing his.
I think a request for him to be well showered (especially in the butt area) would be acceptable.

By all means request it! Showering together can be fun and sexy. 

Sometimes I wouldn't mind requesting the entire session showering together, or at least half of it.  How fun it would be getting dirty and clean together.  A new form of massage,  shower style 🚿🔥😆

Yup. I think deposits of something like $50 are ok, especially when it’s done for a guy with at least 40 5-star reviews and good commentary on CoM. 
 
There is way too much anti-deposit hysteria going on, and you never hear about all the times that a deposit DOESN’T get stolen, because of human’s natural attention bias towards negative outcomes (occasions when a deposit DOES get stolen).
 
Its similar to how not every story of police good-doing (saving a life or rescuing someone) gets put out, but police-civilian deadly mishaps are much more likely to get coverage.

In the end, the sides of the market will react in equilibrium. You as a client don’t have to pay a deposit. That’s fine and respectable, and may influence the provider’s decision to make a possibly lengthy trip to you/ prep for you in the case they are bottoming. All is well ❤️ 🌈 💋.

Yes, we can imagine that your ideal world is one where no deposits are requested and no deposits are paid 🤣. A world where @KensingtonHomo would not have met with the sea of honest providers he alluded to meeting in his post, all so that he could avoid that 1% who didn't honor the deposit they were paid.
 
We could similarly reduce the risk of heart surgery complications (an AI overview suggests 15% frequency) to 0% frequency by banning heart surgeries entirely.
 
 

In the end, the sides of the market will react in equilibrium. You as a client don’t have to pay a deposit. That’s fine and respectable, and may influence the provider’s decision to make a possibly lengthy trip to you/ prep for you in the case they are bottoming. All is well ❤️ 🌈 💋.

Yes, please leave the conversation. It’s best for you.
 
You dishonestly imply that the degree of difference in intensity between the outcomes in my analogy nullifies my main point:  that both a person who declines a heart surgery because of hearing about the risk of complications and a person who declines to pay a deposit because they have heard about people stealing deposits may miss out on something that would have benefited them somehow.
 
It is indeed best that you retire from this conversation.

Your BEST bet was to not post at all- as all you can now do is feign intellectual and argumentative superiority with sentences like this, even when it is clear you had no argument.