Decatur Guy

He sure changes looks a lot. I find him rather sexy no matter the hair or body build. I think I like him best with the longish hair (but not the real long hair).

Oh, I think he's very hot in a cute way. I like the glasses.

I've hired a few gay for pay guys. I had good experiences -- you just have to adjust your expectations accordingly. But they were upfront and delivered on their range acceptable to them -- and to me.

Thank you.

Does he work as an escort now? (And where?)

Yeah, I've seen them. That's back when they were policed more and couldn't showed someone tied up getting fucked, etc.

Oh my! Is he still escorting? And if he does, do you have a link to an ad?

Chris Thompson. The guy in high school you knew you'd never have. http://hw02.images.buddiesdownload.com/actors/12141/12141_200x300.jpg

Gosh, now I can't stop. Here's another: Max Grand. I think I might have had a sexual encounter with him in D.C. about 10-15 years ago. I say might because I was in a sex club there and either had an encounter with him or someone who looks just like him. I didn't ask. At any rate, either Max Grand or someone who looks a lot like him gave me some intense nipple play, deep kissed me and I sucked him. http://arnoldzwicky.s3.amazonaws.com/GrandCrop.jpeg

Another smoldering, sexy guy who faded away just when it seemed his star was about to rise: Cole Youngblood. http://www.smutjunkies.com/updates/wp-content/uploads/models/101359.jpg

He can be over the top and in some ways has made himself look less handsome, but for a throw-me-down-and-slam-me-until-I-see-stars f*ck, Ricky Sinz. http://www.thestranger.com/binary/2697/1245182997-ricky_sinz.jpg

Another favorite from the same movie: Jason Branch. He came around about 10 years too soon. I'd love to have seen him cut loose in a BoundGods video. He had to do the tame stuff. LOVED his deep voice. http://hook-online.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/635-main-1000x600.jpg

David Bradley. He had all the makings of a big porn star but never caught real fire. (Well, with me he did). He fucked the hell of Tristan Paris in "Phoenix Rising." Love that scene. I think he did fewer than 10 movies. http://www.iafd.com/graphics/headshots/davidbradley_m_davidbradley.jpg

High on my wish list of men to meet.

Back in the day, Bob Horner made me horny. http://www.itsalreadysigned4u.com/shop/media/images/product_detail/ape-horner-bat-8x10.jpg

I like the crunchy variety.

He had a sexy vibe when he played Rory's smug, preppy but still likable boyfriend on "Gilmore Girls."

Sit on my face, and tell me that you love me!

I've noticed a tendency among poorer white families in the South for the women of the family to be very overweight while the men of the family are often rail thin, and not in a healthy way.

I think obesity dwells in the intersection of disease and lifestyle. It seems pretty clear that some people can "get away" with eating lots of fatty foods, sweets, carbs, etc., more than others. (Heck, I could get away with it a lot better 10 years ago than I can today). I'm not commenting on the long-term wisdom of doing that, but just observing some people can eat that way and not be anywhere close to fat. At the same time, it's pretty clear people make eating and exercise choices that make a weight gain tendency much worse. I can't tell you how many times I've been to dinner with a friend, who at one point in the conversation exclaims how remarkable it is I haven't gained a lot of weight (as he or she has), only to order an appetizer, an entree, dessert and alcohol while I order two appetizers or one entree and water. And to a person, they never put it together (at least out loud) that they consumed easily twice the calories and spent three times the money I did. P.S.: I'm not a paragon of physique healthiness. I've never had a six pack (though there have been times my stomach was almost flat). I have skinny arms, something of a belly, a butt that's starting to droop and chest fat. But at 5-11 and 172, I'm reasonably HWP. It used to come somewhat easily. Now I have to really work at it. I don't think I have it in me to flattened my stomach and muscle up, but I am going to aim in that direction. Right now, I'll be happy with less stomach and chest fat and a little more muscle. I'm an avid walker, but I start to fall apart after that.

I've never been with Rod Hagen, but his participation on the Forum and his reviews lead me to think he'd be a good top for first-timer as well as bottoms who've been around the block a few hundred times.

Tom Isern would be perfect for this. He LOVES this kind of thing, and while making a client give him intense oral is his main pleasure, he's also into fucking ass, getting rimmed and a lot more as long as he's the dominant one. He's also got a lot of contacts in the escort community and would know the right partner to team up on you.

Love it with the right CLEAN guy. Both ways. Or just me doing it or just me receiving it.

Yes, Nate Bruno seems like another great first-time guy. Also seems like a great 25th time guy too!