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Riiiiight... because everyone knows that college students are the LEAST likely to be desperate for cash!!

 

Do you even remember what being a college student was like?? Literally I have never seen people more desperate for cash than college students. Even homeless people have way more options for getting free food than college students. College students are the MOST DESPERATE and also the EASIEST to take advantage of because they’re inexperienced. Why do you think SA is full of students ready to spend an entire evening with someone for $150-200? Colleges expect your parents to contribute to your educational expenses and if a guy’s parents doesn’t, then he’s fucked. Try studying 60 hours a week and then trying to make ends meet off the 10 hours a week that you manage to work for $7.25 per hour at your campus job. Great... $290 per month... oops I mean $200 per month after taxes. Try feeding yourself (plus buying toiletries, clothes, etc) on $200 per month while attending college, studying, and working 70 hours per week. If that doesn’t equal financial desperation, I don’t know what does. Hunger is extremely motivational.

 

Just be a good client, pay his asking rate, respect his boundaries, and leave on time. Don’t concern yourself with who is “desperate” for money. Half the time people are acting anyway. It’s all a part of the hustle.

Sorry, did not mean to be insensitive. I went to U Penn. Parents paid for it in full and also bought me a condo in center city. I did without a television though. As I was Canadian and couldn’t work, i would just fly home monthly or meet up with my parents in New York for broadway shows. So, i really don’t know how it is to work and study as i never did both at the same time. I am very lucky and fortunate.

I went to school in Toronto and Breadalbane St near the university was notorious for hustlers. Wish I had more pocket money at the time.

Has anyone had the pleasure?

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Having commercialized sex with someone desperate for cash is not my idea of a good time. I find it abhorent taking advantage of someone in such a situation. Hopefully, most of the guys i meet up are doing it for "extra" spending money whilst in school.

Perhaps his published rate is for "new customers". I would just pay the original rate unless the masseur mentions something.

Its a catch 22, I'm all for heightened security, doormen, card keys to hotels, as it provides a safer experience for both parties. Although does anyone get a little shy/paranoid meeting downstairs and feeling like everyone is looking at you and thinking they know this young kid is about to go upstairs and have sex with this older hot gentlemen, kinda hot in a way lol. I always feels weird meeting someone after midnight and having to say my name to a doormen after midnight lol

I sometimes like to sit in hotel lobbies and guess which visitors are "working boys" . Usually easier to sort out the "working girls" but had a few fun times guessing which boys are there for an hourly appointment.

When i know the hotel has extra security, i try to make it as easy for the guy to come visit. If it means meeting a little earlier without the additional scrutiny of late night security, i am willing to do so. Otherwise, if it is a floor that requires key card entry, then i will usually meet him in the lobby and give him some info about me before hand so he isn't meeting a "stranger".

I see escorts at home in nyc and have no problem with being flexible or planning days in advance and keeping my appointments. However, when i travel for work, there are many reasons why timing is short or needs to adhere to a tighter agenda.

I used to have IKEA furniture in school (bed, desk, couch). Now that I am grown up, my home is stocked with nicer pieces including a 6-panel late edo-era japanese screen from Christies, some antique chinese hardwood scholar items, furniture from restoration hardware, calligaris, armani casa, and and lighting from Flos.

Ask for the special souffle at Caesar's Bacchanal buffet

Ian Frost would be perfect. Nicely muscled, beautiful ass, and medium-average height.

Purplekow, you are super patient! I guess the food must be very good

I guess it depends what your escort is interested in as well. Or, is he visiting your city? Are there any sights you would take a friend/visitor? How about restaurants - food preferences? What about a show or activity you can participate in together? 24 hours is really not much time if you include sleeping and fucking, so just limit to something in the afternoon/early evening and dinner. The next day, you will likely like to fool around before bfast and noon is around the corner with not much time in between.

I usually stick to bars in chelsea: Barracuda (neighborhoody), rebar (fun but loud), and boxers (good for sunday afternoon).

I'm not american so i have to ask this question: are these names predominantly in African Americans? I see a lot of service people at take out restaurants who are black and they have names that are not listed in the dictionary.

I have a neighbor who keeps his car and pays 800 monthly for parking. Our parking is going up next month to 850 for residents. He works in manhattan and drives only to visit family in the burbs once a month. He claims he needs the car in case an emergency crops up with his aging father. Some people need the emotional crutch knowing that a car is available 24/7. I even offered to let him use my car which is inside our building's parking lot when he needs it (he usually goes on weekends and i never drive on weekends).

Wow.. they are stunning. Their reviews look pretty good. Would probably hire them if they were in my city....

I always recycle. I even remove the plastic mylar from the kleenex boxes. My bldg has separate bins, including ones for batteries and another for light bulbs, on each floor. My office has even banned plastic water bottles.

I am very adept at using chopsticks. I even use them to eat cheetos and chips to avoid getting my fingers dirty.

When I was 21, I was picked up on the street in Greenwich Village one evening by "Peter," a very handsome, powerfully built older man ("older man" to me in those days meant anyone over 35). He took me back to his apartment, and we were partially undressed and just getting into it when the doorbell rang. Friends of his, a straight couple, had just stopped by on their way home from dinner at a nearby restaurant. He let them in, although he was shirtless. I was still in the bedroom, but after a few minutes I dressed completely and emerged. I could tell that they were surprised, and intrigued, and after about fifteen minutes of rather awkward conversation, they didn't seem at all inclined to leave us alone. I became fidgety, and finally said I had to leave. "Peter" was obviously irritated by the whole situation, but he let me go; however, he slipped me his number and I slipped him mine as I left. I went to a diner on Sheridan Square, where I was picked up by someone else, who then picked up a third party, and we all went to the third guy's place for some rather interesting sex (my first experience with poppers).

 

A few days later, I received a phone call from "Peter." He immediately went into a spiel which was as heavy as any paid phone sex you could imagine, and I came by hand during the call. But the things he said he wanted to do with me scared the shit out of me, even though I found it terribly exciting to hear. He insisted that I travel back to New York that Friday, because he was going to make me his complete sex slave for the weekend. He was so intense that I agreed to go, although I knew I wouldn't do it. Instead, as soon as I was off the phone, I wrote him a letter, explaining that although I was extremely attracted to him, I was not psychologically prepared for what he had in mind. I received a very short, gruff acknowledgment in reply, and never heard from him again.

 

Even after all these years, I still sometimes wonder if my life would have taken a different course if I had gone to see him that weekend.

I loved your bit about the hand written letter. So charming! The closest thing i had to a missed adventure was during my residency at Penn when a hot visiting german scientist (MD, DDS) who i was working with kept on asking me out over the course of my rotation. We bonded over classical music, german literature and the opera. At that time, i was not out yet and though i would have liked to, i demured and just made up stupid excuses. I wish I hadn't...Maybe things would have been different .... Though I am happy with how things have turned out, one always wonders what if....

I'm often reminded of a lovely poem by Robert Herrick when i think about things that might have slipped by....

https://www.poets.org/poetsorg/poem/virgins-make-much-time

Perhaps men get bored easily. I do. I have 3 regulars that I see weekly pending scheduling, but am always cruising for some fresh meat.

Sorry this happened. If the client knew you were driving such a long distance to get to him, he should have waited or provided some flexibility. I certainly would have waited up. It sounds like he needed his itch to be scratched immediately.

First and foremost, I don't intend to shame or blame the subject at hand. Also, the title/topic of this post has changed. Whether the person wishes to respond is not up to me. However, I do want to share and perhaps get others viewpoint on how they would handle it.

 

In a nutshell: I had a client who scheduled me in advance for an evening about 2-3 weeks ago in my home city. Very courteous and planned ahead. I had previously met him in another city awhile ago, so knew he was genuine. I did inform him that I would be going out of the area in between the time he arrived, but that I would expect to have returned by the weekend he was here. In fact, I put plans in place to ensure I would be here the weekend for the session, which we scheduled for Saturday.

 

Now, when I travel, I rarely do airlines. I have never found flying to be comfortable or profitable for me. I own 2 reliable vehicles, one for local and the other travel. I'm usually away anywhere from 2 weeks to a month on most trips. So that alone, may make me different from how some other escorts travel. Client also sent me a long, detailed email describing the ideal fantasy, a couple of days prior to meeting. I thanked him, but said I'd need to read it later because I was traveling when he sent it. Oftentimes I get information overload when trying to drive, read texts and emails all while trying to make it to appointments ON TIME.

 

Fast forward to last night: the appointment got cancelled an hour and a half before I arrived to his place. Despite me making all necessary concessions to ensure I was in tip top shape, I was not able to fit into HIS desired schedule. The day before the trip; I got a fresh haircut, worked out, even got in my full quarterly STD screening. Everything was looking on point, and on schedule. Unfortunently, I expected on a Saturday to not have to deal with too much traffic. WRONG! There were 3 different delays all along the way. Each delay added more and more time to my arrival. I clocked on several apps, the trip was going to only take 9 hours (which may seem long, but it's easier for me than sitting 9 hours in front of a computer or standing in front of a cash register). I left myself with about 3 hours buffer time. Then, I lost an hour going east as Florida is split into 2 time zones. It ultimately made me only 1 hour later than we moved it to, but 3 hours later than the original time.

 

I took responsibility for underestimating the time it would take to arrive. I had communicated with him both before and during commute, suggesting to move it back a couple hours or to Sunday, and at first he said it would be too late but then he agreed to stay up at a later time for me. That wasn't the case. He instead informed (gloated) me that he chose to contact another escort from Rentmen, who ironically arrived AT THE SAME LATE TIME that I would have arrived and had awesome sex. So he could have just waited for me to arrive, instead he decided to call someone else. That's the ultimate foul. That's like booking and waiting for a specific barber, but then getting a haircut from an available one in the same shop just because "you couldn't wait".

 

Needless to say, I was devastated and upset. He was upset at me, but he didn't have to do anything except chill at his hotel room til I got there. I blamed myself for not leaving the night before, which would have meant getting less sleep. Or not driving faster (though I'd of probably ended up with a ticket or in jail considering my car can go 160 mph). But that would have been unnecessary and dangerous, especially considering the client wouldn't give me $49,000 for a new car if it ended up in a tree. I even regretted taking the visit at all, because I didn’t feel confident he would be willing to wait, in the event things took longer.

 

I have contacted this client for a cancellation fee, but he has not responded. I also feel not all the blame lies on me. I was arriving on a Saturday night. He was in town until Monday. I understand his expectation of timely arrival, but I feel like I was made to look inconsiderate just because I didn't fit his window of time. But fact is, I would have arrived. He chose to not wait on me, instead contacted someone else who arrived just as late anyway.

 

This is an ominous reality of what happens whenever I come to Florida. It never fails. On every return, something ends up happening which causes atleast 1 client to cancel, leaving me high and dry and sours my whole day. Too many options of men, and people trying to do other things and fit an escort into the mix. The past 2 weeks I've been out of Florida, I've made it to every appointment without a hitch. I even drove during a snowstorm in Milwaukee, and even though I couldn’t meet when he decided to be available earlier, I still arrived at our pre-set time. Soon as I get back to Florida, this happens.

Maybe easier to visit the escort first (if he does incalls) so both of you have a comfort level before you uber/invite him to your place.

I saw it this weekend. Loved Renee Fleming but the chemistry was missing between the other two main characters. Not my favorite show.

i really enjoyed my time with Christopher... met him twice in Las Vegas when he started to escort. Great and willing bottom. So much fun with him. However, when he came to visit NYC, he seemed very busy and appeared more "professional". Whatever happened to him?