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I've had almost this exact situation. Young athletic guy with two toddler kids and a woman (presumably his wife, who I didn't encounter but could hear) at home. It was a nude massage in an office and the door was unlocked the entire time.
I could hear the kids moving through the hallway and later playing outside. The dynamics wouldn't impact my life at all, but I had to wonder how the kids would react if they opened the door to show their dad a rock they found and saw him getting teabagged.
... I can only guess it's a regular occurrence

Many guys like a deep thorough massage and women are less reliably good at delivering that. 
Massage generally makes you horny delivered by either gender.  They may or may not want a happy ending, but who delivers it isn't the priority of the session. Gay guys can get HEs from guys they're not at all attracted to or get aroused when massaged by women. 
It makes sense for straight guys to go to guys even for erotic massage, and it's not as telling as you might think of their sexuality.

Sky's Touch Always my favorite 
Therapeutic Massage by Michael  Close second to Sky's Touch
Massage by Brando  I only saw him once, but it was really good.
 

In general, most people prefer bookings that are not last minute. So you can hire them earlier to arrive later if you like and follow up/confirm while you're getting in the mood.
Also providers likely don't want to travel for someone who's drunk and may pass out by the time they arrive.

In general, most people prefer bookings that are not last minute. So you can hire them earlier to arrive later if you like and follow up/confirm while you're getting in the mood.
Also providers likely don't want to travel for someone who's drunk and may pass out by the time they arrive.

I wont see clients, especially new ones generally after midnight. They are always drunk/high and it's a more vulnerable place to put myself in.  My safety is paramount. 
When they are in this state it is harder to satisfy them also, too drunk to get hard etc. 
 

In general, most people prefer bookings that are not last minute. So you can hire them earlier to arrive later if you like and follow up/confirm while you're getting in the mood.
Also providers likely don't want to travel for someone who's drunk and may pass out by the time they arrive.

To add on to these comments. 
I definitely think there's a certain amount of mutually assured destruction behind why they don't truly crack down on this hobby/profession the way they could if they really wanted to in the U.S. In addition to the resource management, practicality, and crime priority level aspect of it. A not insignificant amount of cops, politicians, and high profile/high power people also are clients. Some of whom are fairly known in an "open secret" kind of way in some circles.
If they really tried to come down on this with indiscriminate full force, they wouldn't be able to protect the massive amount of themselves/each other who also engage in this and they'd be at high risk of exposing themselves and people having their secrets get out. And i think that is part of why they tend to mostly go after this in such a targeted manner mainly when it serves other purposes like the reasons Soloyo215 listed.
I think the powers that be would love to have the law be the same as how it is in the U.K., but because of how the U.S. has been culturally for so long it'll effectively be impossible to ever pass any true State or National level legalization for a long time.

One of my regulars actually IS a cop, though he technically operates in a different city. 
It's not cops that providers are concerned with, but entrapment and some questions and approaches are definitely hinting at that. So have some discretion and decorum in communication.

One of my regulars actually IS a cop, though he technically operates in a different city. 
It's not cops that providers are concerned with, but entrapment and some questions and approaches are definitely hinting at that. So have some discretion and decorum in communication.

I've found that it varies from provider to provider but most are naked, mutual touch allowed and usually a hand job.

Sensual massage with MT & HE.

Just my two cents: I think that in USA there are specific reasons for busts to happen, one being politics, as in election year when some a-hole politician's platform is around ending things that they deem immoral, but I have seen certain busts being used as a nuisance to force places to close after neighbors complaints or after some businesses or entities interested in gentrifying the area want the place to close or move. Also in instances when the FBI or the police are interested in one individual for one specific reason.

One of my regulars actually IS a cop, though he technically operates in a different city. 
It's not cops that providers are concerned with, but entrapment and some questions and approaches are definitely hinting at that. So have some discretion and decorum in communication.

After I wish an acquaintance Merry Christmas, I pay attention to see if he responds with Merry Christmas 🎄 or Happy Holidays 🎉.  If he says Merry Christmas 🎄, then I will give him a Christmas gift 🎁.  If he says Happy Holidays 🎉, then I know he doesn't appreciate or expect the traditions associated with this National Holiday.  If, for example, he brings up Hanukkah, then I would consider giving him a Hanukkah gift.

It's not weird. I think most people- providers or not- would be grateful of receiving a gift.  

Just send him on his way.

21 and with 6 years of experience ...

21 and with 6 years of experience ...

21 and with 6 years of experience ...

21 and with 6 years of experience ...

There is nothing wrong with screwing back the particularly nasty ones that screw you, waste your time, don't deliver what they promise, or similar. It's not that difficult to set up an appointment from a new number and then simply not show up, and give them an appropriate message 15-20 minutes into the supposed appointment. Yeah, rentmasseur has to be on their side and delete reviews because they pay them, but their "business model" is quite vulnerable and they need to understand that. If they do this routinely they can't figure out who did this to them, an you are not likely to see them ever again anyway. In many ways, this is community service. If more people did this, there would be fewer scammers.
 

So i made a post few days ago about wanting to hire a guy but he was unavaliable so i decided to get someone else for 2hrs 250e + travel paid found him thru site called ,,romeo'' he had few reviews so i thought itd be fine he was younger lik 29years old (for context im 24 years old and i look completely fine) he came we started slowly but he couldnt get it up at all saying he could and if he does wed just finish 2 fast making excuses that its ,,cold'' in the house? After that he asked me to turn on some videos i did and again nothing... I got so pissed off i just paid him 100 just to leave worst exp of my life did any of u go thru something similar? Id link his profile but im p sure he deleted it since i cant find it just wanted to vent my frustration dont think ill be doing this again and wanted you guys to share stories if u had something similar happen legit.

I met JayJay for a collaboration. This was for one of my clients visiting San Diego the week of Thanksgiving 2024. JayJay doesn’t drive, so he charges to offset rideshares. My studio is not far away, so to simplify things, I picked him up at his place in Hillcrest and drove to the client’s hotel.
The client enjoyed our two hour session together. Kinky stuff, massage, threesome play, spitroasting, voyeur play watching us go at it, and plenty of sensual and erotic touch throughout. JayJay was great to work with, and easy to communicate with before and after. He thanked me for making it so easy for him. I arranged everything.
A highlight was the rimming. I can’t say this about many men, but JayJay got me throbbing hard as I sat on his face. He didn’t want to stop, saying he loved eating my hole. Then, when I took my turn, I had him moaning, eyes rolled back, toes curling, cock raging hard, begging me not to stop. And of course we fucked the client and each other. That rimming though…hot!
JayJay is stunning. I did not ask him directly about his real age because I think it’s rude and not particularly relevant, but he did ask me that question in person and I gave him my real age, which is the age I list on my ads. I am guessing he is early 40s, but he looks young. Beautiful body, build and skin. Hot booty. Nice long cock, and not so girthy, which I personally like. Tastes vary, take that for what it is. Striking greenish eyes. His photos are flattering, to be sure, not 100% the way he looks in person, but not in any way that you should concern yourselves about. He’s hot from head to toe!
Re: Experience. He spent many years being supported by a few sugar daddies in NYC. He’s less experienced as your typical “multiple client” escort, but he’s been doing more of this work over the past year or two in addition to his massage. Some periods not working while he takes care of some life things. Interesting guy. You will have to ask him for more details. I can’t say he’s a feminine guy or anything, but certainly not your hyper macho type either. If extreme masculinity is your thing, maybe he’s not the one for you.
JayJay advertises massage services too, see his RentMasseur ad for that. We really only did some bed massage as foreplay for the rest of the session, so I can’t speak to his massage skills or style. It’s on the steeper end for San Diego, but not crazy, starting at $185/hr. It’s in that $180-$250 no go zone I have opinions about, but hey, if he strikes your fancy maybe try him. He tells me his massages feel like a “spiritual experience”. Y’all be the judge of that. 
His rates for escort service are close to mine: $325/hr, or $500/2-hrs. Verify of course since these things change over time. Quite reasonable in the going range for our area. I recommend JayJay. He is fun, easy to work with, talk to, and gorgeous.

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