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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from musclestuduws in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Ive really enjoyed this one. I like watching the client’s fingers explore who,e the masseur continues to focus on the massage.
     
    https://www.gayforit.eu/video/421368/giving-massage-turns-to-getting-fucked
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from Bluefin in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Ive really enjoyed this one. I like watching the client’s fingers explore who,e the masseur continues to focus on the massage.
     
    https://www.gayforit.eu/video/421368/giving-massage-turns-to-getting-fucked
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from + Just966 in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Ive really enjoyed this one. I like watching the client’s fingers explore who,e the masseur continues to focus on the massage.
     
    https://www.gayforit.eu/video/421368/giving-massage-turns-to-getting-fucked
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from rehab70 in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Ive really enjoyed this one. I like watching the client’s fingers explore who,e the masseur continues to focus on the massage.
     
    https://www.gayforit.eu/video/421368/giving-massage-turns-to-getting-fucked
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from FunInTheSun in Question for escorts, desperate escort?   
    I have one that reaches out and texts me periodically. He never specifically asks for business, but he sends me messages such as, “I hope you are enjoying this weather,” or “thinking about that book we discussed. Always enjoy our chats.” I look at it as being either very sweet or just great customer service. Rarely, but sometimes, he will say something like, “thinking abiotic you and hoping that we have a chance to meet up soon.”
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to MDinNY in First time.   
    Hey guys. I’m a 34 year old male. Have a comfortable and seemingly normal life. I had a fiancé but ended that about 6 months ago. I’ve dated since then but nothing serious.
     
    Here is why I’m posting... I’ve had a desire to be with a man for some time. I had a married buddy that I met through CL years ago. We would meet up, JO - some touching but that’s it.
     
    I’ve never had a dick in my mouth or ass. I want to try that. I travel a lot for work so want to this during a work trip.
     
    I need advice - this is something I want to try soon. Should I try to meet someone through a hookup app or hire an escort? Or maybe start with an erotic massage?
     
    I’ve chatted with a few guys on Grindr. I’m 34 6’3” 200 lbs. Played baseball in college and have an athletic/muscular build. The reason I mention that is because I’m getting a lot of responses from guys that want me to top them. I suppose I’ll want to do that. But what I really want is a guy that teaches me how to suck, bottom and can make me feel good. A dominant albeit respectful and patient guy. A guy that won’t get upset if I don’t go through with it all the first time we meet.
     
    I frequent Seattle, Minneapolis, Chicago, Philadelphia, Dallas, and Los Angeles for work. Hope this hasn’t bored you yet. I don’t know how to best move forward with this. Suggestions would be greatly welcomed. And if anyone knows of the right person? Any recommendations would be appreciated.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to LA Guy in Blog got shut down - I'm appealing   
    I, too, found your blog a really great resource. I hope you had back-ups and can recreate it elsewhere. Thanks for the service you have provided to this point, and for your skillful and valuable writing.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to LA Guy in Blog got shut down - I'm appealing   
    I, too, found your blog a really great resource. I hope you had back-ups and can recreate it elsewhere. Thanks for the service you have provided to this point, and for your skillful and valuable writing.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to guy69er in Blog got shut down - I'm appealing   
    Big fan of your blog! This is very disappointing to hear. If you need help finding an alternative hosting provider, send me a pm. I’ll be happy to help.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to + Tarte Gogo in Question for escorts, desperate escort?   
    Well, when you need a costume, it can be useful.
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from instudiocity in Question for escorts, desperate escort?   
    I have one that reaches out and texts me periodically. He never specifically asks for business, but he sends me messages such as, “I hope you are enjoying this weather,” or “thinking about that book we discussed. Always enjoy our chats.” I look at it as being either very sweet or just great customer service. Rarely, but sometimes, he will say something like, “thinking abiotic you and hoping that we have a chance to meet up soon.”
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from LADoug1 in Question for escorts, desperate escort?   
    I have one that reaches out and texts me periodically. He never specifically asks for business, but he sends me messages such as, “I hope you are enjoying this weather,” or “thinking about that book we discussed. Always enjoy our chats.” I look at it as being either very sweet or just great customer service. Rarely, but sometimes, he will say something like, “thinking abiotic you and hoping that we have a chance to meet up soon.”
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to Cody Converse in Question for escorts, desperate escort?   
    What is wrong with you that you wish homelessness on someone just for being inexperienced and clumsy in a new environment? OP even said he had a good time, the kid was just green around the gills.
     
    What exactly is the "lesson" here? Don't be poor? What was his crime, being new? Do you realize how soul-shatteringly hard it is to be homeless for any amount of time, let alone pull yourself out of it? Have you ever experienced poverty, or even spoken to an impoverished person?
     
    Think before you speak next time.
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from jcmiami1 in Question for escorts, desperate escort?   
    I have one that reaches out and texts me periodically. He never specifically asks for business, but he sends me messages such as, “I hope you are enjoying this weather,” or “thinking about that book we discussed. Always enjoy our chats.” I look at it as being either very sweet or just great customer service. Rarely, but sometimes, he will say something like, “thinking abiotic you and hoping that we have a chance to meet up soon.”
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to ChiExec in 411 -- Krisswan Chicago   
    any details?
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from NYCguy10011 in Any Nude Housekeeper recommendations in LA/Weho?   
    That has been my experience as well. They clean ... sometimes I just watch .... sometimes more.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to regdadtype in Any Nude Housekeeper recommendations in LA/Weho?   
    yes I have hired the same way and have always found great guys on Craigslist. Usually, hot straight guys looking for some cash. I have tried adam4adam to find guys but no luck,,, anyone got any ideas?
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to NYCguy10011 in Any Nude Housekeeper recommendations in LA/Weho?   
    I’ve hired for this a couple of times. In short, yes, he cleans. With one, it was just straight-up voyeurism (me watching him) and with another it was far more interactive (me groping him while he cleaned - him stroking - ultimately, both of us cumming). Like anything else, it’s all about the communication up-front....
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to + lookingforfunny in Experiences With Business Cards?   
    I would think a card with the title "Personal Trainer/Fitness Expert/Physical Therapist" would be more apropos to keeping it tidy.
     
    You could even be a Hot Yoga Instructor specializing in singles or couples training for those who are too embarrassed to jump into specialized group classes.
     
    Finish it with: we also curate personal fitness plans tailored to improving your overall well being. No pain no gain.
     
    *ask about our in-home colonic cleansing therapies with bonus aromatherapy calming treatment to reset your neurons.
     
    Or simply go with the flow and get yourself a premium ad on Rentmen and put your hot tools on display. The biggest ad spends for retailers are on Google and Facebook. Businesses are not asking about analog technology. But to your point, a business card is a great tool for the client to think about things. It should led them someplace to investigate further. Perhaps they text you to receive a weblink to a personal portal with a special pin or password personalized and reflective of your boutique and personal service. This will keep the wife or partner from misusing your data out of rage. I personally would not take a business card with a provocative image of a man on it. It is 2018, people are pretty hip. Most of the people we know have hired, so they are not fooled.
     
    If I was a hot escort, I would generate a card with the title: life coach. I would invest in a gorgeous leather sofa of the highest quality. Drape it with a comfortable throw and pillow. You can even take a photo home of you riding the ride, like the amusement parks do. Just pick one out on the ipad by the door and it will be sent to you via email or text or printed on site. The cotton candy is complimentary on your way out.
     
    So, you have an arsenal of free ideas here. You can keep doing this and keep data mining for ideas or get your ass out there and make some hot videos and take the information you have learned here and be the best provider.
     
    For the month of May you will receive a twerk back bonus for your next booking if you had a top notch experience and wrote a review to daddy. Once you get the notification of the posting and verification, setup their bounce back reward.
     
    As the economic tide unfolds people have to be smart and savvy. All I read in the forums is about the consistent quality guys and the novice "scamateurs." It seems like the formula is really easy:
     
    Have a good hustle:
     
    Be nice as fuck
    Be a good fuck
    Be a good listener
    Flattery will get you everywhere
    OMG I must have won the jackpot with you daddy. You are just my type.....say that to your clients
    Be a slot machine. Make your client want to pull the lever over and over again. Make the lights light up and lucky sevens happen more than not. Kiss passionately.
     
    Best of all.......every client wants to be the best client. A little humility works. Tell them about your struggle and let them know how hard you are going to work to exceed their expectations and earn their trust in hopes of a great review or referral.
     
    "one man's junk is another man's treasure" How does your junk stack up to the rest of the field?
     
    We are tired of tired providers. The ones who WORK get all the work. The best no longer have to advertise and they work less for more. What is your long-term plan?
     
    I had a provider tip me once and said, "man, for a moment I forgot who called who." He knows what he is doing and he gets it right back anyway. Most of the legacy gentlemen here will tell you they prefer to have a regular, consistent trustworthy connection. When you clean your room every week mommy or daddy gives you allowance. You make their lives easier.
     
    Good luck brother.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to + Keith30309 in Seeking arrangements success!   
    I think everyone has a different way of looking at this. I try to think more about the long game.
     
    I want to establish an arrangement with someone with whom I share some chemistry and have a real, sincere connection... one which organically includes physical intimacy. These are my friends and I like to give my friends gifts. There are a handful for guys (about 5) who I consider intimate friends and we share certain benefits with each other.
     
    It’s not a “leave the envelope on the dresser after 2 hours and walk away”sort of thing for me. I used to take one guy’s sister to the grocery store. But I’ve had some really, really good times with them and, I think, they with me.
     
    These arrangements are difficult to establish and means taking some risk but it’s worth it to me, in part, exactly because it’s NOT quite so transactional and predictably routine as an escort encounter. What makes it especially difficult is that many of these guys are looking for an arrangement because they are in dire need of financial help immediately. Conversely, some have little need for financial assistance but desire some guidance and intimacy from an older man. I’ve met guys from all points along the spectrum.
     
    It takes patience, trust and sometimes a leap of faith and I’ve made mistakes but they’re outweighed by the positive experiences I’ve had. I’m seeing a handful of guys I met via SA regularly now and consider every one a good friend.
     
    I hope one man’s perspective on this is helpful.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to escortrod in Excellent Covers   
    Indeed, and she was apparently the first artist to have a song chart at #1 twice with I Will Always Love You. I think you're right, it probably is the greatest cover. I can't think of a more successful one off the top of my head, and it doesn't diminish the original.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to escortrod in Excellent Covers   
    Indeed, and she was apparently the first artist to have a song chart at #1 twice with I Will Always Love You. I think you're right, it probably is the greatest cover. I can't think of a more successful one off the top of my head, and it doesn't diminish the original.
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to jjkrkwood in Dream Jobs   
    I dont think he would need FLUFFING.... In My fantasy, he's always HARD !
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    Tarheelboy214 reacted to + sync in Dream Jobs   
    Nick Jonas' fluffer
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    Tarheelboy214 got a reaction from + HornyRetiree in Alternatives to Masseur Finder...?   
    Brilliant!!!
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