Aedo

Update on the situation is that he just ghosted. He ignored my follow up text, but he did reply on RentMen when I sent a message, so he is just choosing not to reply to my text messages.

I don't recall a situation like this happening in the past. Good communication and a good, positive vibe in text, but then he just skips our appointment and ghosts. I suppose the generous interpretation is that he felt embarrassed about skipping our meet. I don't know. 

Does anyone remember a mid 30s provider that lived near downtown that was a nurse.  He was Asian and very handsome and fit.  Saw him several times at his townhome he rented.  He always had me take off my shoes before going up to third floor to his studio room.  He did massage on bed.  He was awesome at massage and was friendly.  Anyone remember him?

I enjoyed my experience with him, but don’t plan to meet him again.
 
He has the stereotypical American-flamboyant energy despite being muscular, which may appeal to some. I found him to be very nice. He definitely has “gay Miami Vice” vibes, which describes his energy well (though, it should be added, aren’t so strong that they give off overt escort energy, which I appreciate). The word “earnest” also comes to mind for whatever reason. 
 
The massage was quite good. Would give it a 7/10. His sensuality during the massage is quite forced, but after the massage feels very real. 

The only thing that's real are reviews here. And even here you have to be a bit careful. I remember writing a negative review about someone (bro wanted me to drive to him, pay him $400/hr to give him a massage, and he couldn't guarantee cumming because he had swapped my scheduled session with someone else), and then a forum member who seemingly wants to marry him summoned him here to defend himself. 

In general though, you gotta realize that the reviews on those sites are generally fake. I've learned that guys vetted here are far less likely to be disappointments. 

spending some time massaging my neck. Most don't do it, but it always makes me feel like the masseur cares about me when he does that. 

spending some time massaging my neck. Most don't do it, but it always makes me feel like the masseur cares about me when he does that. 

This person is not good. Upon seeing one of the recommendations here, I met him last night before BigK. 

I had a bad experience. He said he could give a good erotic massage. The massage was abysmal. I ended the session early and requested 25% of the payment to be returned. Naturally, he said his massage was amazing and refused. He couldn't even do a blowjob or handjob well. Judging by other reviews he's probably good at sex. But back to the point, he lied about his massage abilities for cash. I regret trusting him (dumb error on my part for sure).

Today I started receiving a bombardment of spam messages and phone calls to my business. I looked at my website analytics and I saw that today my site has received 7 visits from the Netherlands, 7 more than I have ever received from the Netherlands. The two phone numbers this fellow has used are from Belgium and Germany. I can't be 100% sure he is responsible, but deductive reasoning puts the chance north of 90%. I hope the bombardment will abate.
I would avoid this person. 

As a side note, I've noticed an uptick in people trying to steal or scam me, so everyone needs to be careful. This year alone a provider whom I canceled on after he began acting unhinged threatened to send messages and pics of me to "my employer"; a dude on Scruff DID send messages and my dick pics to my brother and perhaps to others (be sure to set your Facebook to private so that people can't look up your friends and family to mine for their phone numbers); someone I hooked up with a few weeks ago tried to put my credit cards onto his Apple Pay while I was sleeping; and now this. None of this ever happened before 2025. So do please be vigilant out there guys.

And I guess the same is true of assholes being assholes

Not particularly. Why is this more of a risk than any other escort? Any escort could do this to you. Even escorts with reviews.
 
My main stupidity was giving him the money up front, I think. Though apparently with straight escorts that is standard practice. 

I know I've been extremely stupid, but I'd still like some feedback.
So I approached someone on grindr; they asked if I was gen. I said yes. We negotiated a price of $300.
He came over, asked for the money before we began -- I gave it. He kept saying he was nervous. Then he claimed to be 17, and was this ok with me? He said his father was outside in a car. This is a state where 17 is underage for sex. He sort of suggested that he might be ok doing something if I was ok with it, but he wouldn't even sit down, because he was so "nervous."
I asked for the money back -- even offered him $100 for his trouble. He said no, and that we were free to call the police, that he had all the texts to show I was trying to pay for sex. I'm not sure he would have followed up on it. He seemed like this little hispanic kid who might have more to lose from the police than me. But I didn't want to chance it. I let him walk away with all the money.
Incredible.
 
(Edit: btw I had met another guy on grindr and the transaction worked out just fine)

They indicated that they were requiring a "minimum investment of $800" for, I'm not quite sure what, but something. Hopefully for something that would connect me directly to the sacred. 

The angels in the Bible weren't very good entrepreneurs. 

This seems to be the best solution I can see. 

That's not a helpful way to look at the present situation though. When every other vessel is sinking while yours is just getting a little water on deck, you'll take it. Gold and Bitcoin already ejaculated, so they need time to recover. TLT isn't a surefire bet because we could get stagflation. Oil stocks are still doing well, but they are already leaking pre-cum and might soon ejaculate. 

4% CDs aren't half bad. TIPS and I-bonds are good, but they aren't liquid short-term plays. Some prefered shares I own (SCE) are yielding 7.75%, and I may increase my position in that slightly. I'm earning about 7% yield on my stablecoins, but those are higher risk so I'm not loading up on them. In general I think you want a cash position now, even if you are technically losing to inflation.

I had an amazing experience with a Lima masseur this past month (https://elmasajedetaylor.com/sobre-mi/). The massage has an exclusively erotic focus. I came away from the experience sexually drained for at least 2-3 days.
Taylor is very sexy. He was a bit strict in our initial correspondence, but was very kind and caring in-person, and I appreciated him doing our massage beyond his usual work hours. The massage is done on a floor mattress, in a sparse room with sensual lighting and 2 wide mirrors that let you see all the action. It is a very special experience, one that I will repeat every time I visit Lima.

I had an amazing experience with a Lima masseur this past month (https://elmasajedetaylor.com/sobre-mi/). The massage has an exclusively erotic focus. I came away from the experience sexually drained for at least 2-3 days.
Taylor is very sexy. He was a bit strict in our initial correspondence, but was very kind and caring in-person, and I appreciated him doing our massage beyond his usual work hours. The massage is done on a floor mattress, in a sparse room with sensual lighting and 2 wide mirrors that let you see all the action. It is a very special experience, one that I will repeat every time I visit Lima.

I had an amazing experience with a Lima masseur this past month (https://elmasajedetaylor.com/sobre-mi/). The massage has an exclusively erotic focus. I came away from the experience sexually drained for at least 2-3 days.
Taylor is very sexy. He was a bit strict in our initial correspondence, but was very kind and caring in-person, and I appreciated him doing our massage beyond his usual work hours. The massage is done on a floor mattress, in a sparse room with sensual lighting and 2 wide mirrors that let you see all the action. It is a very special experience, one that I will repeat every time I visit Lima.

I had an amazing experience with a Lima masseur this past month (https://elmasajedetaylor.com/sobre-mi/). The massage has an exclusively erotic focus. I came away from the experience sexually drained for at least 2-3 days.
Taylor is very sexy. He was a bit strict in our initial correspondence, but was very kind and caring in-person, and I appreciated him doing our massage beyond his usual work hours. The massage is done on a floor mattress, in a sparse room with sensual lighting and 2 wide mirrors that let you see all the action. It is a very special experience, one that I will repeat every time I visit Lima.

That's not a helpful way to look at the present situation though. When every other vessel is sinking while yours is just getting a little water on deck, you'll take it. Gold and Bitcoin already ejaculated, so they need time to recover. TLT isn't a surefire bet because we could get stagflation. Oil stocks are still doing well, but they are already leaking pre-cum and might soon ejaculate. 

4% CDs aren't half bad. TIPS and I-bonds are good, but they aren't liquid short-term plays. Some prefered shares I own (SCE) are yielding 7.75%, and I may increase my position in that slightly. I'm earning about 7% yield on my stablecoins, but those are higher risk so I'm not loading up on them. In general I think you want a cash position now, even if you are technically losing to inflation.

I had an amazing experience with a Lima masseur this past month (https://elmasajedetaylor.com/sobre-mi/). The massage has an exclusively erotic focus. I came away from the experience sexually drained for at least 2-3 days.
Taylor is very sexy. He was a bit strict in our initial correspondence, but was very kind and caring in-person, and I appreciated him doing our massage beyond his usual work hours. The massage is done on a floor mattress, in a sparse room with sensual lighting and 2 wide mirrors that let you see all the action. It is a very special experience, one that I will repeat every time I visit Lima.

Would not touch this guy with a 10-foot pole.

Our conversation tonight: 

"Hey, would you like to meet tonight?"
"No, I'm working, how about Sunday or Monday?"
"No, I can't. Have a major surgery Monday morning."
"Can you Zelle me money then?"

Legit shocking. 

I took the plunge. He was very good. His massage is both relaxing and good for your muscles (especially the neck, boy was that amazing). I wish he were a touch more sensual, but at least when he wants you to cum he touches you in a way that doesn't feel clinical and doesn't convey negative energy. He was a nice guy and I'd recommend him. 

I just spoke with him. The (strong) impression I get is that he won’t try to be sensual unless he wants to be. I won’t be meeting with him — too risky imo.
 
I had a good time with another provider, so will likely hire him this month instead. 

I met him last week. Overall, I had a positive experience and would likely repeat in 6-12 months.

Negatives: His massage is sub-par (a 5/10 on my scale, where 5-7 is an enjoyable amateur-level massage). He showed up 2 hours late, and his excuse was pretty terrible. I almost turned him away, but decided I would just lose a bit of sleep and see how it went. I told him I'd give him a massage in the future to help him improve his game. He was impressed with my massage candles and might invest in them in the future. 

Positives: He's sexy and looks exactly like his pictures. I don't know if "nice" is the right way of describing him, but we had a good rapport. He was sensual enough to make me happy, and the sex was great. 

I met him last week. Overall, I had a positive experience and would likely repeat in 6-12 months.

Negatives: His massage is sub-par (a 5/10 on my scale, where 5-7 is an enjoyable amateur-level massage). He showed up 2 hours late, and his excuse was pretty terrible. I almost turned him away, but decided I would just lose a bit of sleep and see how it went. I told him I'd give him a massage in the future to help him improve his game. He was impressed with my massage candles and might invest in them in the future. 

Positives: He's sexy and looks exactly like his pictures. I don't know if "nice" is the right way of describing him, but we had a good rapport. He was sensual enough to make me happy, and the sex was great.